Anonymous says she hasn’t had a relationship with her father for about 15 years and recently she asked him for help and he couldn’t help her which triggered her and her trauma. Anonymous says this has highlighted how she struggles to deal with men and doesn’t know how to relationship with men, especially the father of her child because of her childhood trauma. Anonymous says she wants to learn how to love herself and be able to love fully in relationships.

Anonymous says he’s been with his girlfriend for 8 years now. Anonymous says they had an abortion early in their relationship because of the circumstances at the time and that is now affecting their relationship. Anonymous says both him and his partner want to have a baby however he says his partner says she doesn’t want to have a baby with him because she feels like he forced the abortion on her and she’s also worried about anonymous’ toxic family. Anonymous says his partner still wants to be in a relationship with him despite this.  Anonymous says he doesn’t understand what to do in a situation like this.

Anonymous says he’s been with his girlfriend for 4 yers now and things have been fine in their relationship, but the issue is his girlfriend’s mother. Anonymous says he was trying to get his girlfriend a gift and went to his girlfriend’s mother for advice on the gift, however, anonymous says while he was there his girlfriend’s mother was making subtle advances at him and they ended up sleeping with each other, anonymous says he is now having an affair with his girlfriend’s mother. Anonymous says he's tired of this situation and doesn't know how to get out of it. 

Anonymous says he’s been in a relationship for 4 years and he says they have two kids with his partner. Anonymous says he liked a different lady before meeting his partner but that lady friend zoned him and he moved on. Anonymous says that lady then came back into his life while he was already with his current partner and he had a bit of an affair with the lady. Anonymous says the affair ended when his wife fell pregnant but his partner later found the messages between him and this lady. Anonymous says they got passed this with his partner but as time went by his partner got very angry and always lashing out at him. Anonymous says they went through a few things after this, emotionally and financially, which strained the relationship, anonymous even had an affair with someone else. Anonymous has now broken up with his partner, but is not sure if he should get her back. 

Anonymous and his partner have been together for a year now. Anonymous says his partner is great, however, recently he saw his partner’s social media status and she had posted about how she buried her previous long term partner and hasn’t been the same ever since. Anonymous says he was taken aback by this status and they don’t really talk about her past relationship. Anonymous confronted her about the status and she has apologised to him for how it made him feel. He’s not sure if he’s overplaying the whole thing.

Anonymous says she’s been in a relationship with a man for a year, she’s 56 and he’s 59, she has two kids and he has 5 kids. Anonymous says she makes more money than the guy and he’s constantly spending her money on him and his grown up kids. Anonymous says she feels like he’s using her because she’s financially more capable. She’s loves him but isn’t sure if he loves her in the same way.

Anonymous says says he dated girl no.1 from 2017 to 2021, he then started dating girl no.2 in 2022 and things faded between them earlier this year, they are still together but they are not really on good terms. Anonymous says he’s now back to having a relationship with girl no.1, however girl no.1 is now in the process of being “lobolad” by another man who she now has a baby with. Anonymous says they are still carrying on with their affair with girl no.1, he’s not sure if he should remain in this situationship with girl no.1.

Anonymous says his partner caught him cheating on her late last year with another woman, which he did in reaction to her cheating on him. Anonymous says they initially broke up after this but got back together looking to work things out. Anonymous says since they’ve been back together his partner keeps bringing up the fact the he cheated on her and she doesn’t seem to be getting over what happened. Anonymous says he wants to be with her but doesn’t know if he can live like that.

Anonymous says he’s married with 3 kids and is currently dating 3 different women and has been with them for a few years now. Anonymous says they all support him financially and they know he’s married. Anonymous says he’s tired because this puts him on a very hectic schedule of handling all 4 of his partners and he doesn’t know what to do.

Anonymous says she met her partner in September last year and they moved in together in January of this year, and got married in February. Anonymous says everything has been fine however she feels like her husband is lazy, she basis this on the fact that he keeps quitting his jobs and doesn’t give any valid reasons. Anonymous says this puts a huge financial burden on her. Anonymous says she’s calling today because he has once again quit his job, she doesn’t know what to do because he’s generally a good husband in all other departments.