Anonymous says he was married to his ex for 8 years. When they came into the relationship she had two children and he had one child. Anonymous says he became and ill and his wife couldn’t handle it and asked for a divorce while he was in hospital. Anonymous says his ex then went on her own but her son, who was also ill at the time, stayed with anonymous. Anonymous says a couple of years after his ex wife’s disappearance, her son is now thriving and she has come back in the picture wanting to have a relationship with him. Anonymous says his step-son doesn’t want anything to do with his mother,   despite anonymous encouraging him to do so, anonymous doesn’t know what to do.

Anonymous says she had an on and off relationship with her high school sweetheart because their families were against it, claiming that the two were related. Anonymous says she eventually got married to someone else and they have children together. She says things soured in her marriage and she rekindled things with her high school sweetheart and she was ready to leave her marriage for him, but he died a month ago which spoiled her plans to leave her husband. Anonymous says she has now been diagnosed with anxiety and depression and moved back home after her husband said he would’ve never married her had he known she has mental health struggles. Anonymous is not sure if she should still leave her marriage.

Anonymous says she’s in her early 30s with a 5 year-old son. Anonymous says she’s trying to get back into the dating game but says she thinks she struggles with getting in touch with her feminine side in relationships and instead she’s very masculine and wonders if she’s not giving men the chance to be a “man” in the relationship. Anonymous says she suspects she’s this way as a result of her being sexually abused when she was 6 years old.

Anonymous has been with her partner for 10 years and says her mom never approved of their relationship from the beginning. Anonymous says they’ve had a child for the last 3 years and her family has still not changed their attitude towards her partner. Anonymous says she moved out of home because of the tension her relationship was causing at home and found her own place, however, she says her moving out of home changed the dynamics in her relationship and shortly after  she moved, her partner broke things off with her saying he needed time by himself and to heal from everything that’s happened. Anonymous says her now ex says he still loves her and she sees him everyday when he comes to see their child. Anonymous says she doesn’t know if she should keep pursuing something with him.

Anonymous is married with 4 children and she’s been with her partner since high school 20 years ago. Anonymous says in the beginning years of their relationship, anonymous’ partner cheated on her and she wanted to leave but he convinced her that he was serious about her by completing the lobola and finalising their marriage. Anonymous says the issue now is that her husband lost his job and as he was struggling to find his feet they consulted with a traditional healer who told anonymous and her husband that the lady anonymous’ husband had an affair with affected has put some sort of spell on him that won’t allow him to become financially successful.

Anonymous is in love with two guys. She says she met one guy while they were volunteering for an organisation, she says they lost contact with guy no.1 after he disappeared for weeks. Anonymous met guy no.2 at her new job and she decided to go with it as guy no.1 was not getting back to her. Anonymous says things are great with guy no.2 who takes care of her. Anonymous says 9 weeks after disappearing she ran into guy no.1 at her local shopping complex and he hadn’t told her he was coming back, anonymous says his excuse was that he lost anonymous’ no. and that’s why he couldn’t get hold of her while he was gone…

Anonymous says she dated a certain lady, lady no.1, back in 2011 and they never actually broke up, their relationship just faded. Anonymous says they recently reconnected and lady no.1 told anonymous that she’s currently married but she’s frustrated in her marriage and wants to have a relationship with anonymous. Anonymous says they then started dating but along the way anonymous says she had to find her own girlfriend because lady no.1 is married and not giving anonymous all the attention she needs. Anonymous says she told lady no.1 that she now has a girlfriend and lady no.1 is not happy with this. Anonymous says lady no.1 has asked anonymous to break up with her girlfriend, but lady no.1 refuses to divorce her wife. Anonymous says things have gotten sour between them and she doesn't know what to do.

Anonymous says he’s been with his partner for a few years and they moved in together in order for her to be closer to her tertiary institution. After she was done, she moved out as their parents said they need to do things right way in order to live together. Anonymous says they had some troubles in their relationship and he says he’s been verbally abusive towards her which affected their relationship. Anonymous says he also felt like his partner was too sensitive even when he’s trying resolve conflicts in their relationship. Anonymous says he eventually broke up with his partner out of frustration. He now wants her back and says she’s being advised not to get back together with him. Anonymous says he’s not sure if he should continue pursuing her.

Anonymous says she has 3 kids with three different guys. She says things are ok with the father of her first child as they were together at a young age. Anonymous says she broke up with the father of her second child after he cheated on her after she fell pregnant. Anonymous then moved on and had a third child, she says things were initially fine with the father of her third child but they’ve now broken up because of his cheating ways and the way he treated her second born child.