Anonymous says she’s been with her boyfriend for almost 10 years and after finding out that he cheated on her multiple times she started cheating on him and has been having that affair for about a year. Anonymous says after testing for HIV with her side they started having unprotected sex. Anonymous says she isn’t on any pregnancy prevention methods because after 10 years with her partner she never fell pregnant, however, she is now pregnant and says based on when she slept with her side, she believes he’s the father of the baby. She’s told her side about the pregnancy but doesn’t know how to go about telling her partner.

Anonymous says she’s been dating her current partner for two years on and off. Anonymous says the guy is rich and when he wanted to marry her after two weeks of knowing her she was suspicious and suspected that he was trying to do this for witchcraft related reasons, so she held back a bit on their relationship and said no to the marriage proposal but months later they continued with a more casual relationship. Anonymous says they eventually got serious in their relationship but she found out that he married someone else while they were still more casual. Anonymous says she’s continued to date him for a year knowing that he’s married and says she’s willing to become a second wife but she’s not sure if that’s the right thing to do on her part.

Anonymous says she’s been with her husband for almost 7 years now and they have one child together and anonymous has two of her own kids. Anonymous says her partner is constantly cheating on her and it’s been happening throughout their relationship. Anonymous says she’s been confronting him about this and it led to him kicking her out of their house last December, saying he’s done with their marriage. Anonymous says she keeps going back to him and can’t help it. She doesn’t know how to move forward from this situation.

Anonymous says his partner has a lot of male friends, which is something he noticed as their now 6 month relationship developed. Anonymous says he told his partner that he’s not happy with her having male friends and thinks she should drop her friends of the opposite sex. Anonymous says despite them discussing this issue, she continued to go out with a particular male friend who takes her out for dinners. Anonymous says she keeps hiding the meet ups she has with this guy. Anonymous says they did break up but she wants to get back together and he doesn’t know if he can handle the fact that she has male friends and wants to keep them despite his discomfort.

Anonymous says before he met his current girlfriend he had had his heart broken and had decided that he would never fall deeply for anyone. Anonymous says despite this he slowly fell in love with his partner who he met in 2021. Anonymous says he found her partner with one child and a year into their relationship he made a request that they have a child together. Anonymous says his partner was not ready for financial reasons and when they both finally had work they decided to try and anonymous’ partner did fall pregnant but she ended up aborting the baby despite him being against that. Anonymous says after all this he met someone new and impregnated that lady. Anonymous says he initially kept this child a secret from his partner but ended up telling his partner about the child. Anonymous says this has affected their relationship and he now suspects that his partner is cheating on him.

Anonymous says she hasn’t had a relationship with her father for about 15 years and recently she asked him for help and he couldn’t help her which triggered her and her trauma. Anonymous says this has highlighted how she struggles to deal with men and doesn’t know how to relationship with men, especially the father of her child because of her childhood trauma. Anonymous says she wants to learn how to love herself and be able to love fully in relationships.

Anonymous says he’s been with his girlfriend for 8 years now. Anonymous says they had an abortion early in their relationship because of the circumstances at the time and that is now affecting their relationship. Anonymous says both him and his partner want to have a baby however he says his partner says she doesn’t want to have a baby with him because she feels like he forced the abortion on her and she’s also worried about anonymous’ toxic family. Anonymous says his partner still wants to be in a relationship with him despite this.  Anonymous says he doesn’t understand what to do in a situation like this.

Anonymous says he’s been with his girlfriend for 4 yers now and things have been fine in their relationship, but the issue is his girlfriend’s mother. Anonymous says he was trying to get his girlfriend a gift and went to his girlfriend’s mother for advice on the gift, however, anonymous says while he was there his girlfriend’s mother was making subtle advances at him and they ended up sleeping with each other, anonymous says he is now having an affair with his girlfriend’s mother. Anonymous says he's tired of this situation and doesn't know how to get out of it. 

Anonymous says he’s been in a relationship for 4 years and he says they have two kids with his partner. Anonymous says he liked a different lady before meeting his partner but that lady friend zoned him and he moved on. Anonymous says that lady then came back into his life while he was already with his current partner and he had a bit of an affair with the lady. Anonymous says the affair ended when his wife fell pregnant but his partner later found the messages between him and this lady. Anonymous says they got passed this with his partner but as time went by his partner got very angry and always lashing out at him. Anonymous says they went through a few things after this, emotionally and financially, which strained the relationship, anonymous even had an affair with someone else. Anonymous has now broken up with his partner, but is not sure if he should get her back. 

Anonymous and his partner have been together for a year now. Anonymous says his partner is great, however, recently he saw his partner’s social media status and she had posted about how she buried her previous long term partner and hasn’t been the same ever since. Anonymous says he was taken aback by this status and they don’t really talk about her past relationship. Anonymous confronted her about the status and she has apologised to him for how it made him feel. He’s not sure if he’s overplaying the whole thing.