Anonymous has been with his partner since 2007 , however, he says he cheated on his partner in the early days of their relationship which he thinks has led to her being sceptical about marrying him even now years later. Anonymous says their relationship has been generally ok however he lost his job in 2019 and she became the sole breadwinner which led to him realising that she has a gambling problem. Anonymous says they’ve had various financial challenges over the last few years that have strained their relationship and anonymous says she hides a lot about her finances. Anonymous says his partner has now asked him to get a vasectomy but he’s not sure he wants to do it for his partner who doesn’t want to marry him. Anonymous feels like he’s not being heard in the relationship and doesn’t know what to do about all these issues they are having.

Anonymous says she met the father of her child back in 2017 and she moved in with him early on and they had a child together. Anonymous says he had started the lobola process but their relationship soured and they broke up. Anonymous says she moved back home after this and their first child died while they were separated. Anonymous moved back to the same city and they started dating again. Anonymous says things tensed up in their relationship because they couldn’t agree on how they want to live and the type of home they want to live in. Anonymous says she moved to her own place and built herself a house since he was refusing to do this. Anonymous says they separated but they got back together and he moved in with her at her house as he was now broke. Anonymous says they are now separated again because she found him speaking to a strange woman on the phone. Anonymous says she doesn’t know if she should stay with him as she also feels like he’s taking advantage of her because she’s now more financially capable than he is.

Anonymous says she’s currently separated from her husband, who she’s been with for almost 20 years. Anonymous says over the years in their marriage they’ve had issues with her husband’s family who don’t approve of anonymous. Anonymous has insinuated that her husband has been cheating on her many times over the years and they’ve had many issues. Anonymous says she has since separated from him and months after their separation he is now texting her and claiming that he misses anonymous. Anonymous has now reconnected with another guy in the middle of their separation and they are now dating. Anonymous says the new guy is a bit too much and demands a lot from her. Anonymous says she still loves her husband and doesn’t know if she should let go of him or continue with the new guy.

Anonymous says she’s been married to her husband for the last two years and all has been well however a few days ago she was able to see messages on his computer of him chatting to another lady. Anonymous says she confronted the lady and this lady then told anonymous about the relationship she has with anonymous’ husband. It turns out he’s been dating this lady since last September, to a point where this lady even fell pregnant. Anonymous says this all happened while she was pregnant with their now newborn baby. Anonymous is not sure what to do about this.

Anonymous says her relationship with her partner was fine until she gave birth to their child and he changed on her and wouldn’t even update her about his whereabouts and would avoid her. Anonymous says she confronted him about his changed behaviour and he promised to change but he didn’t really change. Anonymous says she’s recently found out that his behaviour changed because he had actually entered into a new relationship with someone else and impregnated that person. Anonymous says she’s walked away from him and wants to know how to go about moving on from this relationship.

Anonymous says he was married to his ex for 8 years. When they came into the relationship she had two children and he had one child. Anonymous says he became and ill and his wife couldn’t handle it and asked for a divorce while he was in hospital. Anonymous says his ex then went on her own but her son, who was also ill at the time, stayed with anonymous. Anonymous says a couple of years after his ex wife’s disappearance, her son is now thriving and she has come back in the picture wanting to have a relationship with him. Anonymous says his step-son doesn’t want anything to do with his mother,   despite anonymous encouraging him to do so, anonymous doesn’t know what to do.

Anonymous says she had an on and off relationship with her high school sweetheart because their families were against it, claiming that the two were related. Anonymous says she eventually got married to someone else and they have children together. She says things soured in her marriage and she rekindled things with her high school sweetheart and she was ready to leave her marriage for him, but he died a month ago which spoiled her plans to leave her husband. Anonymous says she has now been diagnosed with anxiety and depression and moved back home after her husband said he would’ve never married her had he known she has mental health struggles. Anonymous is not sure if she should still leave her marriage.

Anonymous says she’s in her early 30s with a 5 year-old son. Anonymous says she’s trying to get back into the dating game but says she thinks she struggles with getting in touch with her feminine side in relationships and instead she’s very masculine and wonders if she’s not giving men the chance to be a “man” in the relationship. Anonymous says she suspects she’s this way as a result of her being sexually abused when she was 6 years old.

Anonymous has been with her partner for 10 years and says her mom never approved of their relationship from the beginning. Anonymous says they’ve had a child for the last 3 years and her family has still not changed their attitude towards her partner. Anonymous says she moved out of home because of the tension her relationship was causing at home and found her own place, however, she says her moving out of home changed the dynamics in her relationship and shortly after  she moved, her partner broke things off with her saying he needed time by himself and to heal from everything that’s happened. Anonymous says her now ex says he still loves her and she sees him everyday when he comes to see their child. Anonymous says she doesn’t know if she should keep pursuing something with him.

Anonymous is married with 4 children and she’s been with her partner since high school 20 years ago. Anonymous says in the beginning years of their relationship, anonymous’ partner cheated on her and she wanted to leave but he convinced her that he was serious about her by completing the lobola and finalising their marriage. Anonymous says the issue now is that her husband lost his job and as he was struggling to find his feet they consulted with a traditional healer who told anonymous and her husband that the lady anonymous’ husband had an affair with affected has put some sort of spell on him that won’t allow him to become financially successful.