Anonymous says him and his partner live very different lives, while he’s outgoing, she’s prefers to be at home and doesn’t go out much. Anonymous says often when he’s on his outings he’s found himself cheating on her with women he meets while there. Anonymous says he feels like they both want to change each other so they can be more similar. Anonymous says he loves his partner and wants to be with her but their differences are   limiting to their relationship.

Anonymous says she’s been with her partner for the last 7 years and they live close to each other. Anonymous says over the years they have had their issues and they have hurt each other in various ways and they’ve both acknowledged these. Anonymous says she’s frustrated by her partner who always accuses her of not having regard for him, something she feels like he’s exaggerating. Anonymous shares an example of him doing this by getting upset at her for not giving him attention even when she’s really busy. Anonymous says this keeps happening despite the fact that they are generally always in communication and it’s draining her.

Anonymous says she was in a “situationship” with a guy when she fell pregnant early in the situationship. Anonymous says the guy found the timeline of her pregnancy suspicious which caused turmoil between them, leading to the guy wanting DNA tests. Anonymous has now had the child and the guy wasn’t involved in helping her with the child. Anonymous says the guy consulted spiritually and they told him that it’s happening because he rejected the child. They haven’t done the DNA test yet, anonymous says he keeps postponing. Anonymous says they are now back together but she’s not sure if she should remain in the relationship.

Anonymous met his partner 3 years ago and says he was still reeling from a previous relationship at the time that they met. Anonymous says this partner comforted him in his time of need, however things got bad for him when he lost his job and moved back home to the villages. Anonymous says they continued to date long distance and she continued to support him. Anonymous says he eventually moved back to the city and he found a job. He says he then met someone at work, they connected and he ended up impregnating this new lady. Anonymous says he has told her partner about the pregnancy and they are still together despite this. Anonymous says he’s thinking of breaking up with his side because she has a child, anonymous has 2 children of his own, at the same time he’s not sure if he and his partner will have a good relationship following his infidelity. 

Anonymous is in a relationship with the father of her second child however she says she’s still in love with the father of her first child. Anonymous says she broke up with the first baby daddy because they cheated on each other and the relationship broke down. Anonymous says the father of her second child is great and wants to marry her but she’s not sure if she wants to marry him. Anonymous says the father of her first child still wants to be with her as well and she doesn’t know what to do.

Anonymous says he started dating a lady when they were both 19 and she had a daughter. Anonymous says he later found out that the father of this lady’s daughter is his cousin. Anonymous says that this caused a lot of strain on the relationship which led to him finding comfort in other women. Anonymous says they eventually got back on track and had child together. Anonymous says they became on and off again which led to him finding another girlfriend whom he impregnated. Anonymous says he’s still on and off with his first girlfriend and things are toxic in the relationship with his new girlfriend...

Anonymous has been in a relationship for 5 years with the father of her child and things have been going well. Anonymous says her and her partner are very open with their communication in the last 2 months her partner told her that he’s taken a liking to a new intern that’s started at his workplace. Anonymous says her partner says he’s not intending on doing anything about those feelings and he was just telling her so she knows what he’s going through. Anonymous says she’s disturbed by this and feels betrayed and is not sure how to deal with this.

Anonymous says she’s been with her partner for 3 years and things were fine in the beginning but she says he actually started becoming a burden on her after he lost his job and moved in with her. Anonymous says she asked him to leave because he was a burden and initially refused but eventually left without telling her. Anonymous says they got back together after 7 months and she says the finances are still an issue to this day. Anonymous says he was supposed to visit her recently but they ended up fighting because anonymous told him that it’s ok for him to come but she wouldn’t have money for him to use to return home. Anonymous says her partner went cold on her and later explained that he feels like she is always complaining every time he visits.

Anonymous says she broke up with her partner of 3 years a year ago after she cheated on him. Anonymous says she was already pregnant with her partner’s child at the time of breaking up. Anonymous says she moved on from that relationship and continued to date the guy she had cheated with. Anonymous says this new partner now wants her to cut the father of her child out of their lives and says he wants to marry her and take in both her and the child as his own. Anonymous says on the other hand the father of her child wants to be with her and doesn’t have a problem with her. Anonymous adds that her current partner can’t really afford to raise her child, something the father of her child is cabable of doing.

Anonymous met a guy in her neighbourhood back in the day and she wasn’t really sure about him. She says after things fell apart with the father of her child she finally gave this guy a chance even though she wasn’t really attracted to him. Anonymous says she didn’t really want to marry him but completed the process of getting married after she found out she was pregnant with the guy’s child. Many years later they’re still married but anonymous says she still doesn’t have feelings for him and it’s not getting better. Anonymous says they’ve gone 5 years without kissing. She says she’s tried to leave him but he always begs her to stay and she’s remained every time.