Anonymous is in a long distance relationship and things were going well in the relationship to a point were this lady bought him a car. The car turned out to be a poisoned chalice as anonymous’ partner uses it to track him and continuously threatens to take it away from him when they fight. 

Anonymous says he met a woman earlier this year and they hit off early on. Anonymous says at the beginning of their relationship they agreed to hold off on having sex for a few weeks and did start getting sexually intimate two months into the relationship. Anonymous says during this time his partner had a birthday and he found out that she’s 21 and not 24 like anonymous had thought. Anonymous says 3 months into the relationship he realised that she was having relations with other men and he then confronted her about it but she denies having the affairs.

Late last year anonymous started dating a guy that she’s known since 2014. Anonymous says 2 months after they started dating she fell pregnant. They spoke about the pregnancy and both decided they were not ready for a baby so she terminated the pregnancy. Anonymous says after the termination he went cold on her and when she visited him recently he was offish and said to her that he feels like she’s too much and loves sex a lot.

Anonymous says he’s been with his partner for 3 years and has now paid for her lobola. Anonymous already has two wives and this partner was going to be his third wife. Anonymous says after he paid lobola for her she cancelled the wedding celebration and said she didn’t want to complete the marriage process because she no longer wants to be in a polygamist marriage, something she was aware of in the 3 years that they’ve been together. Anonymous doesn’t understand why she’s behaving like this and anonymous has also heard of a few false things that this lady is sharing about him.

Anonymous says her partner of 7 months is great and he’s a good guy but she feels like he’s boring. She says she’s very outgoing and he isn’t and likes to stay at home. Anonymous says she’s spoken to him about being a bit more out there but he doesn’t seem to be changing. Anonymous says she also feels like he’s a bit stingy and won’t even spend much on going out.

Anonymous says she hadn’t been dating for about 5 years when she met a guy online. Anonymous says they eventually started dating after a few hiccups in starting the relationship. Anonymous says they dated for a year and then he broke up with her saying that she has a big ego and has, quote, feminist tendencies. Anonymous says she’s heartbroken and she’s not sure if maybe his reasons for breaking up with her were valid. She’s missing him and doesn’t know if she should try getting back together with him.

Anonymous is in her early 20s and is married to a guy who’s in his late 50s. Anonymous came into the marriage with two kids and they don’t have kids together. Anonymous says her problem is that she doesn’t feel free in the marriage. She says he doesn’t allow her to go out, have friends or visit her family. Anonymous says when she speaks to her family about this they don’t support her and say she just wants to be with younger boys and have fun. Anonymous says she got into the relationship because of the financial support she would receive but she’s now tired.

Anonymous says her and her man met randomly and they had a good relationship at the start but things have now changed. Anonymous says one of the things her partner discussed with her in the beginning is that he uses isolation as a way to cope with challenges in his life.  Anonymous says he’s recently gone through some hardships in his work which has led to him becoming isolated and absent in their relationship. Anonymous says she doesn’t know how to react to him since she knows he does isolate himself when faced with challenges. Anonymous says reassurance and being present is an important thing for her in relationships, so she doesn’t know how to deal with this.

Anonymous has been on and off with her now husband for the last 18 years. They met when she was young and she fell pregnant straight out of high school. Anonymous says even when they started, he was older than her and was with another woman who he impregnated. Anonymous says their relationship has been quite bumpy throughout the 18 years and says the spark is completely gone in their marriage and she feels like they are just sticking together for the sake of their 3 kids. Anonymous wants to leave but doesn’t know how to go about.

Anonymous got into a relationship with a guy who is in a relationship with guy who’s in a relationship, they met at work. Anonymous says the guy’s girlfriend has found out about their affair about 3 times and they’ve continued with the affair each time. Fast forward to now, the girlfriend called anonymous and basically told anonymous to leave her man alone. Anonymous spoke to the guy and they spoke about this call and discussed what they, anonymous & the girlfriend, spoke about on the call…