Anonymous moved to a new place with her new born last year where she met a new neighbour and got into an “entanglement” with him. Anonymous says in the course of this she fell pregnant late last year with this man’s child and she hasn’t told him. She tried to terminate the pregnancy but she struggled to terminate successfully because of finances. She currently has two kids and doesn’t know how to deal with the fact that she’s now pregnant, she still hasn’t told the guy and also can’t tell her family. Anonymous is now considering adoption

Anonymous says he’s cheated on his partner multiple times during the relationship, his partner would forgive him and they kept on being in a relationship. Anonymous says he realised that what he was doing was wrong and affecting his partner badly so he decided to stop but it was too late. Anonymous says his partner is now cheating on him with someone else and anonymous says he saw, via texts, that she is having a good time with a new guy that she’s been having an affair with, anonymous’ partner is now saying she’s done with him, but he’s saying he’s struggling to let her go and wants to know if he should fight for her.

Anonymous says her partner went away to go see his family on Saturday but didn’t come back until Sunday. Anonymous says he’s done this a few times so she told him not come back and he said fine but he did come back and she hasn’t spoken to him ever since. Anonymous says she left him at the house and blocked him on the phone. Anonymous says her partner is now blackmailing her, threatening to share incriminating information about her with her boss.  Anonymous is not sure what to do. Anonymous says he blames her for ruining her life.

Anonymous has been with her partner for two years and she recently found out that she’s pregnant, however, shortly after that anonymous’ partner lost his job and it brought strain on the relationship especially because they are expecting. Anonymous says things were fairly fine however when anonymous’ partner received his severance pay he started acting weird and they fought about his partying which led to him moving out and living with his parents. Anonymous says he now wants to break up and says he can’t be with her anymore. Anonymous is not sure whether she should fight for this relationship.

Anonymous broke up with her partner last year after she found texts on his phone that indicated that he might be gay as he was in a relationship with another guy and his WhatsApp was filled with flirty exchanges with other men. Anonymous broke up with him without confronting him about what she found in his texts. She says she’s still in love with him and doesn’t know if she made a mistake by breaking up with him.

Anonymous has been with her partner for 5 years and they have a child together. Anonymous says last week she went to her partner’s house and found him there naked with a girl in the house. Anonymous says her partner says he was naked because he was getting ready for church and the lady ended up in the house after a night of partying. Anonymous doesn’t know whether to believe him or not. Anonymous says it’s not the first time his suspected him of cheating as she once found lady’s underwear in his house.

Anonymous and her husband live with his family and the situation has gotten tricky. Anonymous says she wants them to move out of the house and find their own place with their kids, but her husband refuses and even told her to build her own house. Anonymous has since build a house for herself and her kids and her husband is not happy about this. Anonymous says her husband is now unemployed and she’s the only one working, but her husband is not helpful at even in taking care of their children.

Anonymous says her relationship was fine but she does sometimes go through some mental health issues that affect her mood. Her partner voiced that he struggles with her mood swings and anonymous says she took action to improve her behaviour and she thought everything was fine but it came up again and they broke up. Anonymous says she feels like she did improve and had one slip up but he’s not hearing her and says he doesn’t want to get back together with her. Anonymous doesn’t know if she should keep fighting for this relationship. Anonymous thinks he might still be hung up on his ex.

Anonymous and her previous partner have two kids together and broke up after 11 years last year because her partner cheated. Anonymous has since met someone else and they have been together for 6 months, the issue now is that her ex and father of her children says he doesn’t want anonymous’ new partner spending time with his kids and has raised safety issues.

Anonymous is married to a man who’s 16 years younger than her and says the issue in their relationship is her partner and his friends. Anonymous says she feels like her partner is always prioritising friends and partying and she can’t do it. She says he came into the relationship knowing this but it’s now becoming a challenge in their relationship. Anonymous says aside from that he is a great husband at home.