Living with endometriosis or persistent pelvic pain can affect so much more than physical symptoms. It can influence confidence, body image, relationships, communication, and the way we experience intimacy with ourselves and others.
In this episode of ASKQENDO, we sit down with Sexologist and Sex Therapist Kate Fisher to explore the often-overlooked conversation around sex, intimacy, and endometriosis. Together, we unpack what sex and intimacy really mean, challenge common misconceptions, and discuss how these experiences can evolve throughout different stages of life and while living with chronic illness.
Kate shares practical guidance on recognising when additional support may be helpful, navigating conversations with partners, managing feelings of shame and vulnerability, and creating space for curiosity, compassion, and connection. Whether you're in a relationship, single, or simply wanting to better understand your own relationship with intimacy, this episode offers thoughtful insights to help you feel less alone and more empowered.
One of the biggest takeaways from this conversation is that communication is key. Open, honest conversations with yourself and your partner create opportunities to redefine intimacy, reduce pressure, build trust, and navigate change together. There is no "right" way to experience intimacy—only what feels right for you and your relationship.
Kate also reminds us that many of the messages we receive about sex and intimacy come from unrealistic portrayals in movies, television, and social media. Rather than comparing your relationship to someone else's, this episode encourages you to define intimacy on your own terms, replacing self-blame with self-compassion and creating meaningful emotional and physical connection in ways that work for you.
Resources mentioned in this episode:
Neuroanatomy of the clitoris: https://www.biorxiv.org/content/10.64898/2026.03.18.712572v1
Finally, the clitoris is getting the attention it deserves: https://www.theguardian.com/society/commentisfree/2026/apr/01/finally-clitoris-getting-attention-it-deserves
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