Grief is reality.  And God expects for us to get rid of all bitterness and anger so we can experience His peace.  

Getting stuck in grief is unhealthy.  God intends for grief to be the means for healing.  To start, open your heart to Him.

Habitual anger turns into hatred, and hatred can last a lifetime.  Have you ever known someone in your life who never did resolve an issue.  What a shame and what a waste of a life that was designed by God, to be peaceful.  Don't let that happen to you.

Unresolved anger turns into hatred, and like decay, can destroy the person.  Is that where you're at?

Understanding both sides of a conflict is necessary in order to resolve a conflict.  The same is true for you.  Do you understand the "root" of your anger?  Look first at you, then at the conflict.

It's tough, but in order to relieve anger, you must acknowledge your lack of control.  In other words, you can't fix another person, only God can do that.

Anger can be a heavy drain on so many aspects of our lives.  Prolonged anger has disasterous effects.  So, how can you allow anger to lead to a peaceful resolution?  Let's find out.

Anger is an emptotion that is hard to ignore and an essential emotion if we are to overcome anger with a peaceful result.  Stress is everywhere and is never going to cease to exist.  So, how do you handle anger?

Simply, it's a powerful emotion for creating a solution.  Without a solution, anger becomes a long term deadlock that stalls resolution.  

That's the question.  Here's the answer in just one word.  Communicate.  That takes grace and courage.  Ask God and he will tell you how to best communicate with the person on the other side of the conflict.