Attractively Different Podcast

Learning something new it can be difficult. Well, it doesn't have to be difficult once you are familiar with how to learn.

In today's episode we discuss the seven lies of learning from Jim Kwik's book Limitless. These myths are the things that are holding you back from creating a breakthrough. Believing these myths prevent you from creating the things that we want to create in life, and they become the lifeblood to the excuses that we can't do something or that we're not enough.

Learning how to learn will allow you to tap into your unlimited potential, and the first step is unlearning all the bad beliefs that are impeding your progress.

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We have a tendancy to wait when we face uncertainty.

Our brain freezes because uncertainty creates a feeling of fear. For example, when it comes to business you may have found yourself saying, "I'll generate more cash flow first before investing into a development or skill that I need." Even though the skill and personal development is what you need to create cash flow, your brain will convince you that it's better to wait.

In today's episode we talk about how the most successful people identify what is needed now and will engage in that solution immediately. By taking action you're taking steps toward becoming the person that you need to become in order to create what you're trying to create because when you are willing to operate from a state of uncertainty your brain begins to find solutions. It will find solutions that you would not have seen otherwise because it's trying to create certainty.

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What if success didn't need to be hard?

In today's episode we talk about the belief that success needs to be hard, and how we try to "white knuckled" discipline in order to get there. Yet, this will never work because you're not activating your God-given desires. Getting curious about your desires will help you navigate the plan that God has for you.

What if your desires and passions were the fuel that propel you to success in your assignment, and yet, too often we push them aside either because we're afraid to pursue them or think that they're bad. Walking out your assignment successfully will always require effort, a plan, and obedience to the promptings of the Holy Spirit. It does not have to include stress, anxiety, fear, and overwhelm.

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Paul said in Romans 7:15, "I do not understand what I do. For what I want to do I do not do, but what I hate I do."

Do you have a goal but for some reason it just seems like you keep falling up short?

In today's episode we discuss why you get stuck in a cycle of doing things you don't want to do but you just can't seem to stop. There's this idea that in order to be successful you need to have massive amounts of discipline. Yet, when you try to discipline yourself it doesn't seem to work and it creates this fear or hopelessness that it will never work. The fact that it's not working actually creates a lot of guilt and shame that causes a downward spiral proving that you're "not enough".

As a believer, the enemy wants you to believe the lie that not being disciplined means that your not a good Christian or you're not going to make an impact for the kingdom of God. Friend, this episode will explain to you how discipline is as simple as riding a horse.

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What is potential?

Potential is having or showing the capacity to become or develop into something in the future.

Your potential does not have a limit because God's design for the world is increase and advancement. We were designed to grow and see advancement. For example, one apple seed has infinity potential because it can produce multiple apple orchards. Similar to apples, we have an unlimited potential because we can always continue to become more.

In today's episode, we talk about the four drivers to your potential and how It takes money to maximize your potential. We're going to talk about why it's so important to have money to maximize your potential. Potential is having or showing the capacity to become or develop into something in the future.

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Let's talk about the Kingdom of God and how it is calling for you to step into your assignment here on earth. Our life on earth is meant to take vengeance on the enemy for our God and grow the Kingdom of God.

In our Christian culture we love to celebrate the deliverance of God, people coming to salvation, but we tend to miss what he is delivering us into and that is our assignment. There's more to our salvation than just a "get out of hell pass”, and people will hold the belief that the point of our time on earth is about suffering well.

In today's episode, we discuss the picture of how God delivered Israel from Egypt but was taking them to the promised land. This picture is a great image of how Christians are being delivered from their life of slavery and bondage into the inheritance that God promises.

Let's talk about what it looks like to be fruitful and take enemy for the kingdom of God.

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Beliefs are simply decisions about life, and those decisions are the best way we can materialize those beliefs. Let's talk about beliefs and how beliefs are actually decisions that we make and how our decisions play out in our destiny. If you want to do more in life or fulfill your purpose all you need to do is simply make a new decision. You must give yourself permission to hold a new belief.

Doing better without becoming more will always keep you stuck, and one of the most pervasive mindsets that keep us stuck is the mindset of competition. In today's episode, we talked about competition versus creator and how one mindset keeps you stuck and limited and the other mindset it gives you freedom and abundance.

Let's assess the decisions that we're currently making to create our results in life.

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Should you play to your strengths or work on developing your weaknesses?

In today's episode we talk about how your growth is hidden in your limitations, and we're going to discuss how your growth is connected to your limitations. Using your strengths is important to your growth but being willing to strategically use your limitations will take you to the next level.

Your limitations will reveal to you who you need to become and the repetitive use of a limited ability will always increase your capacity. In order to increase your capacity it requires that you use a limited ability over and over again. This will not only increase your capacity but will also increase your happiness because happiness is connected to growth.

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Fear has killed more dreams that failure ever could.

In today's episode we talk about failure and why you shouldn't be afraid of it. Failure does not feel good yet you can regain power in your life by changing the perception around failure.

Failure is simply the story that you assign to an outcome that you didn't desire. Creating a different perspective around failure allows you to walk in an increased feeling of gratitude and move yourself forward.

For example, when you took chemistry in high school and an experiment didn't go the way you thought it would, did you see yourself as an epic failure or did you became really curious? Part of being a good scientist is to get really curious and make new discoveries about the outcome. The same can be true with our life.

Listen in as we cover the four perspectives that you can have to reframe failure and move forward without fear.

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This is part two of my interview with Danielle Fenster.

Danielle is an amazing business woman and transformation coach. Her and her husband Waldon live in the Chicago area and have four beautiful children. She loves people, fun, fashion, good dessert, and most importantly a lover of Jesus.

One thing that I deeply admire about Danielle is how she obeys and follows the Spirit, and by doing so her life is full of stories that many would call miraculous. She is on a mission to share the miraculous with the world and help people break free from the thoughts and beliefs that are impeding them from seeing the miraculous in their own life.

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