Audio Tidbits

Audio Tidbits

By Gary A. Crow, Ph.D.Society & Culture
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  • Just Because You’re Blind
    Should or May
     
    As a blind person, I am told that I should be an advocate for other blind people and for accessible services and technology. What are the pros and cons of this position?
    As an advocate for other blind people and for accessible services and technology, there are both pros and cons to consider.
     
    Pros:
    - You can be a voice for the blind community and raise awareness about their needs, rights and issues they face
    - You can work towards creating a more inclusive and accessible environment for blind people
    - You can help shape policies and regulations by advocating to lawmakers and government officials
    - You can build a sense of community and support among blind individuals and their families
     
    Cons:
    - Advocacy work can be time-consuming and emotionally draining, and may require significant effort to see visible results
    - You may face opposition or criticism from people who don't understand or value the importance of accessible services and technology for blind people
    - Depending on the scale of your advocacy work, there may be legal and financial implications that you need to consider
    - Being a public advocate can also bring unwanted attention and scrutiny to your personal life.
     
    Ultimately, being an advocate for other blind people and for accessible services and technology can be a rewarding and impactful way to make a difference in the world. However, it's important to carefully consider both the benefits and challenges before taking on the role.
    Should I advocate for blindness issues just because I am a blind person. Is it a responsibility or a choice?
    Advocating for blindness issues as a blind person is a personal choice rather than a responsibility. While it's true that blind individuals face unique challenges and often have valuable insights and perspectives to share, not all blind people may feel inclined or equipped to engage in advocacy work.
     
    That being said, being an advocate for blindness issues can be a way to advance the cause of accessibility and inclusion for yourself and other blind people. It can also be a way to build a sense of community and support among blind individuals and their families.
     
    Ultimately, whether or not you choose to advocate for blindness issues is up to you. If you do decide to engage in advocacy work, it's important to approach it in a way that feels meaningful and sustainable for you, whether that's through direct action, community building, policy work, or other means.
    If I choose to advocate, what are the 10 most important points I should be making.
    As an advocate for blindness issues, here are ten important points to consider making:
     
    Accessible education: Blind individuals should have equal access to education and be provided with the necessary accommodations to succeed academically.
     
    Employment: Blind individuals should have equal opportunities to work, and workplaces should be made accessible to people of all abilities.
     
    Accessibility: Blind individuals should be able to access essential services and technologies, such as transportation, communication, and information, in an accessible and equitable way.
     
    Inclusion: Blind individuals should be included in all aspects of society and should not face discrimination or exclusion based on their disability.
     
    Training and skills development: Blind individuals should have opportunities to gain skills and training to overcome barriers they face in the workplace, in education, and in their personal lives.
     
    Research and innovation: There should be ongoing research and innovation to improve the quality of life for blind individuals, including advancements in technology and accessibility.
     
    Advocacy and representation: Blind individuals and their families should have access to advocacy and representation to ensure that their rights and needs are addressed at all levels of society.
     
    Independent living: Blind individuals should be able to live independently and have...
    11 min
  • Harlen’s Story
    Hey folks, I'm Harlin and am going to tell you a story. Some say that I made it all up but I'm telling you that it's all true. You can believe it or not, but I'm sticking with it.
    I'm just a country boy who happened into a situation. I don't doubt it a bit that you would have handled things as well or probably better than I did, but there I was and someone had to do something. It's just like my grandpa told me every chance I got, "When the going gets rough, you have do do what you have to do." So I did.
    Let me tell you what happened and then you can decide for yourself. Did it really happen or am I just full of it?
    I have lived down a one lane road off the highway all my life. It's pretty much what you might expect. An old farm house where my grandpa was a boy and my folks and four brothers called home. I won't go on about that since that's not the story I am telling you. Even so, home is a place where you can get some good air and raise some hell now and then. If you know, you know and if not, I sure don't have time to educate you about being a country boy. I'll just leave it at that.
    I still don't know what got into me but one Tuesday morning I got it in my head that I needed to pack up and take the train to the big city to find out what that was all about. So That's what I did and there's where this story starts.
    As I stepped off the train, I found the surrounded by towering skyscrapers and honking cars. The noise and frenetic pace of the city were overwhelming at first, but eventually, I grew accustomed to it. The city was alive, filled with a cacophony of sounds: cars, buses, and taxis honking their horns, people chattering away in different languages, construction sites, and street performances. The sights were equally intoxicating: towering buildings with neon lights, busy markets full of people pushing their way through the crowds, and street food stands with their vibrant colors and irresistible smells.
    I started my day by wandering through the busy streets, taking in the sights and sounds of the city. I marveled at the department stores with their gleaming windows and the street performers who captivated crowds with their performances. I saw huge billboards advertising everything from cars to clothes to the latest gadgets.
    As I continued my exploration, I passed through different neighborhoods, each with its unique vibe and personality. I saw people from all walks of life, each with their own story to tell. I heard different languages being spoken and ate food from different cultures.
    As the sun started to set, I realized that I had never felt so alive. The city had awakened something inside me, and I knew I wasn't ready to leave just yet. So instead, I found a small apartment to rent for a few weeks and continued my exploration of the city.
    For the next few weeks, I continued discovering new things, meeting new people, and learning about different cultures. I ate at Michelin-starred restaurants and tiny street food stalls. I visited museums, galleries, and music festivals. I even tried my hand at salsa dancing, something I had never done before.
    Eventually, my time in the city came to an end, But just as I was preparing to go home, I noticed some odd happenings in the last neighborhood I visited. I did not understand their significance but knew I should stick around to better understand this unusual activity.
    I had noticed something strange happening in the last neighborhood I visited. People were whispering in hushed tones, and the normally bustling streets were eerily quiet. I tried to ask around to understand what was happening, but no one seemed willing to talk. Curiosity gnawed at me, and I knew I couldn't leave until I figured out what was going on.
    After asking around, I stumbled upon a small store with a handwritten sign that read "Open for business." Curiosity piqued, I entered the store and was surprised to see people huddled in corners or gathered around a small radio,
    14 min
  • Judgment Mediated by Experience
    Thanks for joining me.
     
    When was the last time you had to make an important decision? For most of us, it doesn’t come up very often. We make a lot of decisions and choices; but for the most part, they are not special or overly consequential for us personally. We have the knowledge, experience, expertise and tested judgment to make the decision or choice. They are well within our wheelhouse.
     
    At times though, we have to just take a deep breath and decide, make the hard choice. Those are the choices and decisions I want to focus on. Those are the times when failure is most consequential and success is most important. I’m talking about change, but this time we are the agent behind the change.
     
    I think we all know that things are constantly changing, whether or not we are paying attention to the changes. It may seem that everything is the same today as they were yesterday, but they aren’t. Even if we don’t notice, nothing is quite the same today as it was yesterday. Things change, people change, circumstances change, and we change too.
     
    What this fact of life and living demonstrates is that change is a process and not an event. The outcome may appear to be spontaneous but never is. Fortunately, we can usually understand what happened if we stop to consider it carefully. Even if we don’t understand, we know that the change was a result of a process that is just not clear to us.
     
    At times, we decide that we are not satisfied with the status quo and want things or circumstances to change. The change we want may be for us, our family, a specific relationship, our work team, our company or other organization, our community, or within any context where we think change is desirable or necessary. That is when we consider initiating the change process.
     
    We know we don’t like how things currently are, and we have a notion about how we would like them to be. Getting from where things are now to how we want them to be is an example of the change process that is always chugging away. For this change though, we intend to be the change agent.
     
    Whenever you intend to be the change agent, there are twelve questions you should ask and answer before initiating the change process that leads to the change you want; and the bigger or more important the change is for you and for others, the more critical it is for you to ask and answer the twelve questions.
    Here are the twelve questions. Answer each “Yes,” or “No,” in relation to the change process you intend to initiate. For these questions, “yes” is only “Yes” if you are quite sure. If not, the answer is “NO,” until you are sure.
     
    Do you expect the change process to succeed, to make a positive difference?
     
    Do you have a realistic vision of or perception of success – how things will be when the change succeeds?
     
    Are you personally motivated by the likely payoff or outcome of the change?
     
    Do you understand that – in the long run – it would take as much time and energy to maintain the status quo or current situation as it will to get the payoff from the change?
     
    Are you prepared to take full responsibility for your participation and interaction throughout the change process?
     
    Do you understand your active role and influence in the change process?
     
    Do you understand and are you committed to what will be required for the process to succeed?
     
    Are you confident in your ability to do what is necessary to realize the expected change?
     
    Are you comfortable working with the others involved in the change process?
     
    Are you looking beyond simple self-interest in the change succeeding?
     
    Do you see each participant benefiting from his or her participation in the change process?
     
    Are you being realistic about your ability, skill, and capacity to function effectively within the change process?
     
    Did you answer “Yes” to each of the twelve questions? If so, you are good to go. If not, you would be well advised to give a little more tho...
    23 min
  • It Wouldn’t Be a Picnic Without the Ants
    There are many ways to think about change: good news/bad news and such. Take your pick. It really doesn't matter since your only actual choice is to deal with it or just let it deal with you. Sure, I included a cool ear worm to distract you from what is, in the end, an easy choice.
    7 min
  • Lead or Follow, It’s me, but Not Sure Why
    Can you follow as easily as you lead? Do you switch depending on the situation or just be your best you? Do you always know what and why or is it sometimes a mystery even to you? This set of tips may be just what you need to answer the questions. If not, the ear worms will make up for your disappointment.
    12 min
  • Your Choice, My Time and Knowing My Role
    I make my choices and don't expect you to make the same choices. I manage my time and include you in my time priorities. Sometimes I am in charge and sometimes you are. Sticking to this is neither simple nor easy. Three interesting ear worms may help.
    13 min
  • Leadership, Self-awareness and Personal Success (by OpenAI)
    Self-awareness, Leadership, and Personal Success: A Challenge for Each of Us
    by OpenAI with editorial assistance from Gary
    Self-awareness, leadership, and personal success are three interrelated concepts that are critical for anyone looking to achieve their full potential in
    both their professional and personal lives. In this article, we will explore these concepts in depth, and provide some insights into how they can be integrated
    to help you achieve greater success and fulfillment.
    Self-awareness is the foundation of personal and professional growth. It is the process of understanding your own thoughts, emotions, behaviors, and motivations.
    When you are self-aware, you have a clearer understanding of your strengths, weaknesses, and areas for growth. This knowledge can help you make better
    decisions, build stronger relationships, and achieve your personal and professional goals.
    Leadership is about inspiring and guiding others to achieve a common goal. It requires a combination of interpersonal and communication
    skills, emotional intelligence, and the ability to think and act strategically. A good leader is able to inspire others to believe in their vision, build
    trust, and communicate effectively to drive results.
    Personal success, on the other hand, is a highly personal and subjective concept. It is about achieving your goals, both personal and professional, and
    finding fulfillment and satisfaction in your life. Personal success can encompass a wide range of areas, including career success, financial success, personal
    relationships, and physical and mental well-being.
    So, how can these three concepts be integrated to help you achieve greater success and fulfillment? Here are ttwelve key strategies to consider:
    1. Develop your self-awareness: To be a successful leader, you need to have a good understanding of yourself. Take the time to reflect on your strengths,
    weaknesses, and areas for growth. Consider seeking feedback from others, and engage in activities that help you build self-awareness, such as mindfulness
    meditation or journaling.
    2. Improve your communication skills: Good communication skills are essential for both personal success and effective leadership. When you communicate
    clearly and effectively, you can build stronger relationships, convey your ideas and vision, and inspire others to follow your lead.
    3. Manage your time effectively: Good time management is important for both personal success and effective leadership. When you manage your time effectively,
    you can prioritize your activities, reduce stress, and increase your productivity.
    4. Build your confidence: Confidence is an important component of both personal success and effective leadership. When you believe in yourself, you are
    more likely to take risks, pursue your goals, and overcome challenges. As a leader, confidence also inspires others to believe in you and follow your lead.
    5. Cultivate empathy: Empathy is an important component of emotional intelligence and is crucial for effective leadership. When you are able to understand
    and relate to the experiences and emotions of others, you can build stronger relationships, communicate more effectively, and lead with greater impact.
    6. Be adaptable: Adaptability is an important component of personal success and effective leadership. When you are able to adapt to change, you can remain
    flexible, respond to new challenges, and continue to grow and develop. As a leader, adaptability also allows you to be responsive to the changing needs
    of your team and organization.
    7. Lead with authenticity: Authenticity is an important component of personal success and effective leadership. When you are true to yourself and your
    values, you can build stronger relationships, convey your ideas and vision with greater impact, and lead with integrity.
    8. Set achievable goals: Setting goals is an important component of personal success and effective leadership.
    28 min
  • Charm, Civilization and Complaining
    The charm tip I get even though I think I may not be all that charming. The second tip I'm pretty sure I do not get at all. If that's not frustrating enough, the tune that goes with it, I get even less. Maybe it will work for you. The good news is that tip three does ring true for me -- nothing to complain about.
    11 min
  • Problems, People and Personal Space
    So you want to make some changes around here, make things better. Of course, there are a few problems that need solved. But even more to the point, there are people who may or may not cooperate. And often overlooked is how you manage your personal space. Check out this episode and judge for yourself.
    9 min
  • What’s In Your Wheelhouse?
    We know that it usually works out best when we stay in our own wheelhouse but knowing what is and is not in there is often a quandary. Here are three tips to help us figure out what is and isn't for us. Sticking with what we already know is easy. The real challenge is with the new, the unfamiliar, those actions and opportunities that we have not dealt with before. That's where the possibility for success and failure loom.
    11 min