We all know the beautiful beach sunset holiday pictures from the travel catalogues. There, paradise is only a question of the chosen holiday destination. Indeed: anyone who has ever been to such a great beach, spent a holiday there and recovered, will remember this place as very special. The local population, the locals, they are the lucky ones who get to live in this paradise all year round? Unfortunately, no. Often the reality is that for them in particular, life is very hard, they are poor and have to make do with the most basic things. What a contrast! Hard to imagine. This is not only the case in foreign countries: in everyday life, too, there are people whose lives we see as paradisiacal, almost perfect - but perhaps behind this lies great poverty, a lack of love, etc. Therefore, be cautious about making such a statement. Therefore, be cautious with such judgements and loving towards these people - perhaps they need it the most.