What happens when the same drive that makes you elite… quietly empties you out?
In this powerful episode of Authentic Achievements, Kim-Adele is joined by Dr. Tony Dice — CEO/Co-owner of Bishop & Dice Defense, former Navy SEAL, therapist, paramedic, and firefighter — for a raw, deeply human conversation about performance, pain, addiction, recovery, and what real strength actually looks like.
Dr. Dice shares his non-linear story: from service and high achievement to the depths of meth addiction, and the moment that forced him to confront the war within. From that reckoning, he rebuilt his life around truth, accountability, connection, and recovery — and developed his Holistic Change Model, rooted in the healing arc he observed through twelve-step psychology: awareness → acceptance → change → connection.
You’ll also hear Dr. Dice explain his unique “TacOps to PsyOps” approach — building trust through tactical training and real relationship first, then bringing mental health support into spaces where vulnerability can feel unsafe.
If you’re someone who keeps carrying on, keeps pushing, keeps “handling it”… this episode is a permission slip to be human — and a practical reminder that asking for help isn’t weakness. It’s trust. It’s courage. And, as Dr. Dice puts it, it can even be an honour you give someone else.
In this episode, we explore:
Why high performers can look “fine” while silently falling apart
The difference between resilience and rigidity (and why rigidity eventually cracks)
How service culture can train people to avoid vulnerability
Reframing help-seeking as honouring someone — not burdening them
The “ten-thousand-pound phone call” and why the first reach-out is the hardest
A simple, courageous first step if you’re overwhelmed: “Have you got a minute?”
How to support someone well: listen, don’t fix — and follow up
Key quote to share:
“You need to participate in your own rescue.”
Chapters / timestamps (YouTube + Spotify friendly)
00:00 – Welcome + who Dr. Tony Dice is
01:50 – The “achievement stack” and the inner check-engine light
04:20 – The Navy SEAL “40% rule” and the hidden cost of pushing
06:50 – Why asking for help can feel like failure
07:10 – Reframing: asking for help as an honour (not a burden)
09:45 – Resilience vs rigidity (and why it eventually cracks)
11:05 – Addiction, recovery, and the turning point
13:45 – The Holistic Change Model: awareness → acceptance → change → connection
15:15 – Self-care as selfless leadership (the “oxygen mask” moment)
21:30 – “TacOps to PsyOps”: how trust is built before therapy can work
24:05 – One courageous step when you’re overwhelmed: “Have you got a minute?”
27:40 – How to be the friend who helps: listen + follow up
29:10 – Where to find Dr. Dice + what’s next
Links + resources
Bishop & Dice Defense: https://bishopdicedefense.com/
Book updates / mailing list (DrDiceBook): https://preview.mailerlite.io/forms/1591375/158742065496196352/share
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/robert.dice.5
(as shared by guest)
Book: After the Trident: A Navy SEAL’s Battle with Secrets, Shame and Addiction (coming soon)
Gentle listener note
This episode includes discussion of addiction, recovery, and trauma. Please take care of yourself as you listen. If you’re struggling right now, consider reaching out to someone you trust or a qualified professional in your area.