Tracy Anderson - Big Brother Big Sisters of Dane County
On the Value of Being a Mentor to a Kid: "When you spend time with a child, it's shown to prove that they'll likely go to college when they grow up or have a better paying job or not partake in violence, alcohol or drugs."
As entrepreneurs, we strive to do our best every day. We push and drag ourselves, our employees, our clients and our vendors to join us in growing our business. We do all of this for many reasons, but for many of us, that reason is based on two words, Growth and Freedom.
What is interesting is that not everyone has that mindset, or has even had the opportunity to be exposed to that mindset. Not everyone knows that you can do and be better. Some people simply have not been shown all of the opportunity they really have.
That is one of the reasons I became a Big, with Big Brothers Big Sisters and why we are lucky to have Tracy Anderson, of BBBS Dane County in Madison, Wisconsin to chat with us about the difference a mentor can make.
Tracy explains what all Big Brothers Big Sisters does for kids, adults, the community and society at large. All of this rolling around the idea of people sharing time, experience and ideas with each other, thinly veiled as just having fun hanging out.
If you have ever wondered how you could make a difference in the world, as a way to show gratitude for the success you have achieved, I'd highly suggest becoming a Big.
Listen as Tracy explains what it takes to be a Big and the challenges Big Brothers Big Sisters has continued to overcome, just like any business. Often success can be measured by a bank account, more importantly, it can be measured in smiles and expanding the opportunity that you were lucky enough to learn about.
Enjoy!
Visit Tracy at: https://www.bbbsmadison.org/
Podcast Overview:
00:00 Building Birdhouses and Life Lessons
03:59 Mentoring Program: One-on-One Impact
07:04 "Child Signup Process Overview"
12:07 Revamping Recruitment Post-COVID
14:58 Interview Process for Kids and Bigs
18:14 Event Hub: Free, Discounted Activities
21:27 Unbreakable Bonds Through Mentorship
23:50 Podcast vs. Gaming Popularity Dilemma
28:31 "Community Outreach & Partnerships"
31:03 Economic Uncertainty Hits Spending
34:54 Dane County Scavenger Hunt Adventure
36:56 Team Roles: Fundraising and Missions
38:58 Mission-Based Team Challenges
44:43 "Team Building and Mission Alignment"
47:46 Transformative Experience Perspective
48:44 Mentorship Boosts Future Earnings
54:38 "Girls on the Run Program"
57:52 Local Giving Transparency in Madison
Podcast Transcription:
Tracy Anderson [00:00:00]:
So it's a one to one mentoring program. So it's all about spending that one on one time. It truly makes a difference. And when you spend time with a child, we create new matches, ages 6 to 13. Another great reason why mentorship works. I mean, you're getting out of a different environment and you're being asked to do things that you know are going to help you when you become an adult.
James Kademan [00:00:34]:
You have found authentic Business Adventures, the business program that brings you the struggle stories and triumphant successes of business owners across the land. We are locally interwritten by the bank of Sun Prairie. Downloadable audio episodes can be found in the podcast link [email protected] and today we're welcoming, preparing to learn from Tracy Anderson of Big Brothers, Big Sisters of Dane County. So, Tracy, how is it going today?
Tracy Anderson [00:00:58]:
Good, good.
James Kademan [00:00:59]:
I'm excited for you to be here.
Tracy Anderson [00:01:00]:
Thank you.
James Kademan [00:01:01]:
I've been a big. I guess I'm not technically a Big anymore, but I was a Big with Danny. We got connected when he was 11.
Tracy Anderson [00:01:08]:
Okay.
James Kademan [00:01:08]:
So it's like I said, is almost forever. It's been a while.
Tracy Anderson [00:01:12]:
Yeah.
James Kademan [00:01:13]:
And being a big was one of those things. I was like, oh, I should do that someday, someday, someday. And I finally did it and it was one of the coolest things I've ever done.
Tracy Anderson [00:01:21]:
Yeah.
James Kademan [00:01:22]:
So thank you.
Tracy Anderson [00:01:23]:
No, thank you. And like, how old is he now?
James Kademan [00:01:26]:
I think he's 23, 24.
Tracy Anderson [00:01:28]:
Yeah. That's why we do what we do. We hope for lifelong matches.
James Kademan [00:01:32]:
Yeah.
Tracy Anderson [00:01:33]:
Yeah.
James Kademan [00:01:33]:
I can tell you crazy stories. I mean, I suppose you've heard millions of them already, but little things. Like, I had to think, what would an 11 year old kid not know? So at the time there was no dad involved or anything like that. And so I'm like, what would you like to do? And we decided we're gonna build a birdhouse. And I'm like, all right, let's build a birdhouse, right? So we kind of whiteboard out or scribble some design for a simple birdhouse. And I got out a table saw and I told him that Blade doesn't care about your feelings. It'll cut off your finger and it won't apologize. So I try to put all the fear possible because I didn't want to return him to his mom with a missing limb.
Tracy Anderson [00:02:18]:
Right.
James Kademan [00:02:18]:
So putting all this fear in him. And I apparently put in too much because as soon as he cut the board, he just let go of it.
Tracy Anderson [00:02:26]:
Okay.
James Kademan [00:02:26]:
And so the board went like too close for comfort, flying down the driveway it scared him. Scared me, right? And I'm like, oh, yeah. Okay. So from then we decided to just use circular. So.
Tracy Anderson [00:02:42]:
Okay, well, that's good.
James Kademan [00:02:44]:
But it's interesting because I'm like, I was trying to think back when I was a kid, when did I learn how to use the saw and stuff like that. So I try to introduce stuff like that to him.
Tracy Anderson [00:02:53]:
Yes.
James Kademan [00:02:54]:
Which is super cool. You guys had programs. I mean, I imagine you still do.
Tracy Anderson [00:02:58]:
Yeah, I mean, we've got our community based program and we have our school based program. So you were involved in the community based program, which is where we match, like bigs and littles, hobbies, interests, and where you live. So we try to keep the matches within 20 miles of each other. And we do a very good job matching. I mean, it's a thorough interview process. I don't know if you remember any of that. Like, background check.
James Kademan [00:03:21]:
Yeah, it was a lot.
Tracy Anderson [00:03:24]:
But I think we do a great job matching because, I mean, there's even some things. I'm a big myself and there's even some things like her and I have in common, but I. I don't know, there's some things like, how would you even know? Like, we both love lip gloss. I mean, that did not come into the interview process. But there's so many things where we're so alike. So they did a great job with that. But then also too, she's introducing me to some new things and I'm introducing her into some things too.
James Kademan [00:03:53]:
Oh, that's awesome.
Tracy Anderson [00:03:54]:
Yeah.
James Kademan [00:03:55]:
Tell me, just for the people that don't know, just what is Big brothers, Big sisters.
Tracy Anderson [00:03:59]:
So. So it's a one to one mentoring program. So it's all about spending that one on one time. It truly makes a difference. And when you spend time with a child, we create new matches. Ages 6 to 13. When you spend time with a child, I mean, it's shown to prove that they'll likely go to college when they grow up or have a better paying job or not partake in violence, alcohol or drugs. So it's just, I think anyone can kind of, whether you're in the big brother, big sister program or not, think about someone in your life that made that change for you and your life could have gone a different way.
Tracy Anderson [00:04:34]:
So.
James Kademan [00:04:35]:
Yeah. Yeah, it's interesting. So tell me a story about the number of bigs you have versus the number of littles. Is there a shortage on one end or the other?
Tracy Anderson [00:04:43]:
We always have a wait list. So right now, currently we do have a wait list of 130, 130 kids. 130 kids that are waiting. They're mostly boys and they're mostly kids of color.
James Kademan [00:04:55]:
Okay.
Tracy Anderson [00:04:55]:
We have over 300 matches. I believe close to 360 matches. I mean, this is just like on average. Yeah. Most of the people that become bigs are females. They're white females.
James Kademan [00:05:07]:
Really?
Tracy Anderson [00:05:08]:
Yes. Age is usually around. The average age is like 32, 34.
James Kademan [00:05:14]:
So I would not have guessed that.
Tracy Anderson [00:05:16]:
Yeah. And our need, we have a heavy need. We match within Dane county, but a heavy need in Sun Prairie and on the east side.
James Kademan [00:05:23]:
Wow.
Tracy Anderson [00:05:24]:
So about 25, 30 kids on the wait list in Sun Prairie.
James Kademan [00:05:28]:
Okay.
Tracy Anderson [00:05:29]:
Yeah.
James Kademan [00:05:29]:
That's interesting because the age I could see that, you know, you're young enough to. To do stuff and not want to just sit in a rocking chair, but.
Tracy Anderson [00:05:37]:
Right. Yeah.
James Kademan [00:05:38]:
But still smart enough to know that you need to give back, make the world a better place.
Tracy Anderson [00:05:42]:
Yeah.
James Kademan [00:05:43]:
And that's a fun way to do it.
Tracy Anderson [00:05:44]:
And I think people of all ages, I mean, I'm community outreach, community partnership, so I'm out all the time. I do meet a lot of people of all ages that are interested and, you know, learning more. So I mean, you could meet,...