First, let me apologise because I prioritised work and going to the SZA concert over y’all this week 🙁 and I also let way too much light go into the camera lens so video is a bit shaky. But life happens so we’re finna work with what we have. 

Also, TRIGGER WARNING, I mention abuse in this episode. On this episode I talk about:

🗣Unconditional love is unrealistic and dangerous

🗣50% of marriages end in divorce (PLEASE do your own research as well) so more than 50% of marriages are dysfunctional in some way

🗣Marriage shouldn’t be about continuously choosing your partner, choosing them should be something that comes easy

🗣Staying together because of your kids might be more harmful than helpful

🗣People rarely have good things to say about their partners

🗣The idea of unconditional love is rooted in Christian ideals

🗣People shouldn’t have to endure a bad marriage

🗣Why do we treat marriages and relationships differently?

🗣We socialise young boys and girls differently in how they view marriage

🗣People stay in abusive marriages because they’re supposed to love them unconditionally and accept them for who they are

🗣I’d hate to be loved unconditionally

🗣Men try to get unconditional love by showing a fake type of unconditional love

🗣LASTLYYY HAPPY ONE MONTH ANNIVERSARY TO US!!!

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A bit of a deep episode this one. Let’s talk about beauty standards and how white men are the standard for men. Shit might get a bit touchy and all. The highlights for this episode are:

🗣I received some creative hate comments on YouTube

🗣White men are the male beauty standard

🗣Black men aren’t loved for who we are but for what we represent

🗣White women (and some women of colour) date black men as an act of rebellion

🗣Black men are fetishized 

🗣Most people are only into black men because blackness is masculinized

🗣Being a black man comes with a lot of expectations of masculinity

🗣Black men don’t have access to the perks of the patriarchy but still perpetuate it

🗣To be good is to be white

🗣Black women love black men because proximity to black men helps them regain their femininity

🗣Light skinned yutes overcompensate to prove they are black men by being more aggressive

🗣White men use hip-hop and rap as a way to get closer to blackness and seem more masculine

🗣White women treat black men better than other men as a way of virtue signalling

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Well well well, it’s episode 2!!!

Thank you to everyone who tuned in for episode 1 and is tuning back in episode 2. For this episode I make things just a bit more wholesome, I discuss:

🗣Code switching

🗣Being absolutely in love with my friends

🗣My friendships with men

🗣Giving my friends forehead kisses

🗣Platonic friendships in relation to romantic relationships

🗣Transactional friendships

🗣Men being friends with women for sex

🗣Women being friends with men for money

🗣My friendships with women

🗣Having romantic friendships is important

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Yooooo