Revitalize and Replant

Bad and Good Reasons to Leave a Church


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Mark Clifton and Mark Hallock walk through bad and good reasons to leave a church, drawing from H.B. Charles Jr.’s article, “When It’s Time to Leave a Church.” If you’re wrestling with whether to stay or go, this episode will help you think biblically and wisely about church membership, commitment, and discernment.

They explore “red light” reasons not to leave a church (bad reasons):

  • Sin: leaving instead of repenting or reconciling.
  • Disagreements over secondary doctrinal issues: elevating non-essential issues to a breaking point.
  • Disunity: walking away rather than pursuing peace and unity in Christ.
  • Personal offenses: allowing hurt feelings or misunderstandings to drive decisions.
  • Unwillingness to submit to spiritual authority: resisting God-given leadership rather than humbly engaging.
  • A low view of the church: treating church as optional, consumer-based, or disposable.
  • Disregard for the truth: leaving when God’s Word confronts your preferences or lifestyle.

They also talk about “green light” reasons that may indicate it’s time to leave a church (good reasons):

  • A gospel reason: the church no longer clearly preaches or guards the gospel of Jesus Christ.
  • A doctrinal reason: the church drifts into serious theological error or abandons biblical authority.
  • A personal reason: unique circumstances such as relocation, calling, or family needs that make joining another faithful church wise.

This episode is especially helpful for:

  • Believers struggling with whether to leave a church
  • Pastors and elders helping members process church transitions
  • Christians wanting a more biblical view of church membership and commitment

Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

  • “When It’s Time to Leave a Church” by HB Charles

Listen in for a pastoral, gospel-centered conversation on leaving a church wisely, staying for the right reasons, and loving Christ’s bride well.


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