Show Notes: 

• Intro and Leftovers from Episode 4 (0:00-8:49) 
  • Avril Lavigne is dead conspiracy 
  • Padme Amidala and Sabé 
  • Playing Magic with your kids: Do you let your kids win or teach them that life isn’t fair? 
• More on Parenting! (8:49-27:12) 
  • Being a parent changes you 
  • “One of the best parts of having kids is lying to them.” -Josh 
  • Flat earthers aren’t real 
• Bad at English (27:12-29:37) 
  • “Tossed(threw) his teddies (toys) out of the cot (crib)/pram (stroller)” 
    • Having a hissy [fossil word] fit 
    • Getting aggravated and throwing a tantrum like a baby 
• House Rules (29:37-1:26:44) 
  • Ben’s list: 
    • #1: don’t play with doors 
    • No pillows on the floor 
    • “Don’t forget: make good choices” 
    • Juice does not go in water bottles 
    • “No saying ‘Stop it!'” 
  • Josh’s List: 
    • No phones at the table 
    • No locking doors 
    • “You get what you get” challenge-response “…and you don’t throw a fit” 
    •  Chain of command – no doubt who’s in charge at our house (Mom) 
  • “The older you get, the further into the future you can predict.” -Josh 
  • Kid in the claw machine 
  • “Consistency is king.” -Ben 
  • “Do it right or do it twice.” -Josh’s Dad 
• Brigham Young University (BYU) Student Housing (1:26:44-1:33:55) 
  • 25% of students are married 
  • BYU Honor Code 
  • USAFA Honor Code 
  • BYU Superdate Urban Legend 
• Teasers for next time: 
  • What to focus on with kids development? 
  • Getting and staying fit? 
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Show Notes: 

• Intro and Leftovers (0:00-13:16) 
  • Ben gets 500 shares of ODP 
  • Bank accidentally deposits $120,000 in couple’s account; they spend most of it, then get charged with theft 
  • In the Year 2000… 
  • Is Josh “the life of the party” or an introvert? 
• Bad at English AKA British Word of the Day (13:16-15:21) 
  • “Crocodile nearest the canoe” 
• Magic: the Gathering and the player psychographics (15:21-24:21) 
  • Timmy, Johnny, and Spike by Mark Rosewater – March 2002 
    • The basics of the 3 player psychographic profiles 
  • Timmy, Johnny, and Spike Revisited by Mark Rosewater – March 2006 
    • Expanding the definitions and adding Vorthos 
• Kids and Cell Phones (24:21-33:53) 
  • South Park: Mr Biggles [WARNING: language] 
• Avril Lavigne vs. the St. Louis Symphony Orchestra (33:53-49:18) 
  • Avril Lavigne says Lyme disease symptoms left her in bed for 2 years 
  • Review: Avril Lavigne, in Chicago on her first tour in five years, proved she is still pop’s punk princess 
  • The Chicago Theater & St. Louis’ Powell Hall 
  • Setlist.fm – the Setlist Wiki *MUST SEE* 
  • Review: An inspiring Mahler ‘Resurrection’ Symphony at Powell Hall 
• Scarcity: the new science of having less and how it defines our lives (49:24-1:42:50) 
  • Understanding the Mindset of Scarcity 
    • The Focus Dividend: the benefit of scarcity that helps you zero in on the important thing 
    • Tunneling: filtering out non-essential things to focus on the scarcity 
    • Bandwidth tax: things outside the tunnel that get neglected because of tunneling 
    • The University of Minnesota starvation experiment 
  • Understanding the Impact of Scarcity 
    • The Scarcity trap: having scarcity causes you to make bad decisions that perpetuates the scarcity 
    • Slack: an abundance that allows you to absorb unexpected shocks to the relevant resource 
    • Shock: something unexpected that stresses your resources and causes scarcity 
  • Applying the lessons of that Understanding 
    • Freakonomics was by Steven Levitt and Stephen Dubner, Ben 
    • The Strategic Cost of Cumulative Overhead, by Ben Rich on LinkedIn.com 
    • Ben’s Home vs. Deployed productivity pie chart from 2011 
    • Life is Chores, Highness 
• Wrap-Up (1:42:50-end) 
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Show Notes: 

• Intro (0:00-0:19) 
• Fleshman Family Birthday Celebrations (0:19-22:36) 
  • Food Fight 
  • Dunk Tank 
  • Obstacle Course 
  • Jedi Training 
  • Home Demolition?!? 
  • Weird Al’s UHF: Stanley Spadowski’s Clubhouse 
• Levels of Nerd-ness (22:36-28:17) 
  • The nerd secret handshake: W00t 
    • Level 1: Console gamers 
    • Level 2: *serious* Board gamers 
    • Level 3: Role-Playing Games (RPGs) 
    • Level 4: LARP? 
• Russia’s morning commute (28:71-42:03) 
• British word of the day (42:03-44:10) 
  • “push the boat out” (American: splurge) 
    • Informal – British 
    • Be lavish in one’s spending or celebrations.  
• Ben & Josh’s Book Club – Mistborn: The Final Empire, book 1 of the Mistborn series by Brandon Sanderson (44:10-1:51:50) 
  • Subversion of expectations 
    • Kelsior is good at this from the start and Vin learns quickly (not the usual way for this sort of thing) 
  • Character focus – self-discovery & transformation theme throughout the series 
    • The characters feel like real people 
    • Vin’s central conflict is learning to trust people 
  • Hard vs. Soft Magic Systems 
  • “There’s always another secret” 
  • Sanderson’s 3 laws of magic 
    1. Sanderson’s First Law – An author’s ability to solve conflict with magic in a satisfying way is DIRECTLY PROPORTIONAL to how well the reader understands said magic.[1] 
    2. Sanderson’s Second Law – Weaknesses (also Limits and Costs) are more interesting than powers[2] 
    3. Sanderson’s Third Law – Expand on what you have already, before you add something new. If you change one thing, you change the world.[3] 
  • “New ideas are like new tastes…the older you are, the harder they are to stomach.” -Menace 
  • “Do you stop loving someone just because they betray you? I don’t think so. That’s what makes the betrayal hurt so much.” -Kelsior 
  • “What is belief if you can’t continue it after failure?” -Sayzid 
  • Kelsier’s 11: 
    • George Clooney as Kelsier 
    • Matt Damon as Vin 
    • Julia Roberts as Elend Venture 
    • Brad Pitt as Sazed 
    • Andy Garcia as The Lord Ruler 
• For next time… (1:51:50-1:52:53) 
  • Ripped from the headlines story that actually happened to Ben 
  • Book club discussion for next time: 
    • Scarcity: Why having too little means so much by economist Sendhil Mullainathan and psychologist Eldar Shafir 

SHOW NOTES: 

• Intro (0:00-1:04) 
• Episode 1 Cleanup  
  • What happened to Patrick Bull (1:04-4:01) 
  • Uber Gospel lady (4:01-10:11) 
    • The Uncanny Valley 
    • Mormon filmmaker Richard Dutcher 
• “Family Friendly” (10:11-19:56) 
  • 30 Rock  
  • The Return of Jafar 
  • Mark Rosewater: Restrictions Breed Creativity (see Lesson #18) 
  • Opportunity Paralysis 
• The Smart Phone Revolution (19:56-25:47) 
  • Nokia 3310 
  • Motorola Razr 
• British Word of the Day (25:47-31:16) 
  • Bespoke: Adj., made for a particular customer or user 
• What game is/was Josh Playing? (31:16-54:19) 
  • Warhammer 40K 
  • Indie board game: Scythe 
  • Game complexity tiers: 
    • 1 (simplest): UNO 
    • 2: Monopoly 
    • 3: Settlers of Cataan 
    • 4: Scythe 
    • 5 (most complex): Twilight Imperium 
  • Puerto Rico 
  • Arkham Horror 
  • Kickstarter- Kingdom Death: Monster 
• Ben’s Unified Parenting Theory (54:19-1:11:43) 
  • Phase 1: Obedience – Child says, “Yes Mama/Daddy,” and does it. 
  • Phase 2: Commitment/awareness – Child says, “What else can I do to help?” 
  • Phase 3: Responsibility/initiative – You say (or don’t have to say), “Find something that needs to be done and do it,” and then they do! 
  • Phase 4: Self-determination – They make their own choices based on their own goals. 
• Waiting in line and teaching children the social contract (1:11:43-1:35:33) 
  • This is Spartaa!!! (passenger gets kicked off subway) 
  • Stinging nettle 
• Next Episode Teasers (1:35:33-1:40:51) 
  • Book Club Selections: 
    • Josh’s Pick (to be discussed in Episode 3):  
      • Mistborn: The Final Empire by Brandon Sanderson 
    • Ben’s Pick (to be discussed in Episode 4):  
      • Scarcity: Why having too little means so much by economist Sendhil Mullainathan and psychologist Eldar Shafir 

Ben and Josh recorded their pilot episode during a weekend trip to play (what else) Magic. Listen as they discuss playmats, shoes, blenders, and other things…

SHOW NOTES: 

• Intro (0:00-1:32) 
  • Magic Fest Las Vegas 2019 
• Podcast origin story (1:33-13:12) 
  • Where it all began? 
  • Grand Prix New Jersey 2018 Final Standings (type ‘Rich, Benjamin’ in the search field to see that Ben came in 128/1,212) 
• Infatuation with objects discussion (13:13-52:46) 
  • Japanese ‘Chandra, Fire Artisan‘  
  • Lego Millenium Falcon 
  • Rex Dangervest Ship 
  • The Nike Air Max 95 (Neon) 
  • Photos Ben has taken of the current 3 pairs of Nike Air Max 95 he owns 
  • Josh’s blender 
  • Playmat Josh was infatuated with  
  • Atomic Comics Emporium, Hampton, VA 
• The Patrick Bull incident (52:47-1:00:44) 
• What age do you call “kid”? (1:00:45-1:04:25) 
• Disagreeableness (1:04:26-1:15:27) 
  • Psychologist World: Agreeableness 
  • Tiger Woods by Jeff Benedict and Armen Ketyian 
• Full Actualization (1:15:28-1:24:45) 
  • ASL Interpreting 
• Future Shows (1:24:44-1:32:10) 
• FIN