J and Gabe discuss what makes a good apology, when enough is enough, and the origins of the word 'disturbed.'

We tell some stories and J confronts Gabe about how they're not a good listener.

Heads up that we start replacing people's names with stupid sound effects in this one. We know it's probably at least a little annoying, but hopefully you'll get used to it.

When the host says vaginismus, we think they meant vaginosis.