Sex should be about pleasure, play, and presence—but let’s be honest, most of us were taught that it’s about performance, pressure, and checking off a damn to-do list.
In this episode of Balanced Living Unfiltered, we’re throwing out the goal-oriented, ‘finish line’ version of sex and talking about what actually makes intimacy feel good—without the stress, shame, or pressure to ‘get it right.’
We’re diving into:
✨ Why goal-oriented sex is killing your desire
✨ The absolute dumpster fire that is U.S. sex education (and why we all need to unlearn it)
✨ How to shift from performance to pleasure (yes, for everyone—all genders, orientations, and relationship types!)
✨ Using all five senses to make intimacy more immersive and fun
✨ The biggest sex myths that need to die—from “real sex = penetration” to “older/disabled people don’t have sex” (spoiler: they do, and sometimes it’s better than yours!)
✨ Actionable steps to reclaim pleasure, embrace playfulness, and redefine sex on your terms
If you’ve ever felt disconnected from intimacy, pressured to ‘perform,’ or like sex just isn’t as fun as it should be—this one’s for you.