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Happy Balls Deep Day! This week, Arielle shares an exxxtremely juicy story and Rachel gives a TEDx Talk on Swift v. Gyllenhaal. The girls schmooze about horny laxative ads and shitting your brains out at fat camp, and tell you all about the former bishop who left Jesus to jack off pigs (really). In news, the hosts get Balls Deep in two studies that prove people are fucking less than they used to — and that ain’t necessarily a bad thing! 

Y’all are gonna wanna pay attention to this interview. Syd and Soph (the co-hosts of Straight Candid) join the pod to talk TOXIC FRIENDS! Breaking up with a good friend can be awkward but sometimes, you just gotta do it. Tune in for a raw convo about real issues... and when you’re done listening to this ep, head over to their pod to hear Rachel and Arielle give the dirt on toxic dicks.

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Happy Friday, Blue Ballers! This week on Balls Deep, Rachel gets her titties painted, Arielle has a tipsy meet-cute at a vintage store, and together they roast No Nut November and praise Netflix’s Big Mouth. The girls schmooze about censorship and OnlyFans’ newest creator: a museum in Vienna. Tune in to learn about the world’s first unisex condom, why we self-sabotage relationships, and the importance of establishing a “shared reality” with your partner. 

Can the spiritual be sexual? Jewish-Mexican witch and sex magick expert Gabriela Herstik says YES! The author of Embody Your Magick teaches the girls how to harness the power of their orgasms and opens up about finding community in kink. Devoted to the Goddess of Love, Gaby shares how to step up your glamour game and how infusing magick into her beauty routine is her way of honoring her Holocaust survivor grandmother. 

Okay, so… a Blue Baller made a sex tape and has questions about female ejaculate, and another BB wants advice on orgasming during sex without a vibrator. Got a question? Call 8555-OKAYSO

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Happy Friday BOOs! This week on Balls Deep, Arielle is busy being alone, Rachel has flashbacks to Catholic school, and the girls debate what makes a vampire fuckable. In schmooze, the hosts chat about poo-phoria, why Sex and the City wasn’t feminist, and Hollywood’s hottest couples. For the listeners, the girls explain why watching porn ISN’T cheating and reveal some of the Blue Baller’s sex horror stories. Later on, Rachel shares some stats on rising dating show viewership and falling marriage rates and Arielle talks about three shitty Spanish men who posed as a female author. Guh-ross! 

Hold onto your broomsticks y’all, shit’s about to get spooky! Hollywood Psychic Medium Patti Negri joins the girls to spill all the saucy stories in her cauldron—from conducting a seance at age eight to conjuring the spirit of Marilyn Monroe. She tells us about the different ways people have sex with ghosts and why she thinks Ouija boards shouldn’t be sold in toy stores. Listen up, and don’t forget to suspend your disbelief!

Okay, so… a Blue Baller gained weight during Covid (relatable) and is afraid of catfishing her dating app suitors, and another listener wants to test the submissive waters but has no idea where to start. Got a question? Call 8555-OKAYSO

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HAPPY FRIDAY, BLUE BALLERS! This week on Balls Deep, Rachel tries cycle syncing her period to her productivity, Arielle finally bonds with her kitten, and the girls schmooze about bisexual Superman, Salmon Rice Bowl Girl’s engagement, and why Saturday has always been for the girls. The girls give their verdict on whether you can turn a fuckboy into a boyfriend and get Balls Deep in new safety standards for sex toys and how dangerous dating apps can be. 

Intersectional sex and relationship writer Gabrielle Smith joins the girls for an in-depth conversation about polyamory. The honorable guest of the week reveals her non-monogamous journey, chats about queer imposter syndrome, and walks us through the polyamory lexicon. If you’ve thought about dipping your toes into polyamory, or just wanna know what all the buzz is about, tune the eff in! 

Okay, so… a Blue Baller wants to know if it’s normal to be invited to a bachelorette party even though she’s not a bridesmaid, and another listener needs help turning off her sex toy. Got a question? Call 8555-OKAYSO.

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Happy Friday, Blue Ballers! This week, Rachel takes a necessary break from work (and celebrates her birthday in solitude), Arielle needs new pants to fit her fat ass, and the girls chat about Tom Brady’s grossness and Lizzo’s TED Talk on twerking. In more schmooze, the girls teach men how to properly cover their infidelity, explain why some men botch their house chores, and Arielle recommends watching Professor Marsten and the Wonder Women on HBO. Fresh off the press, the cohosts get Balls Deep in how the pandemic showed us consent isn’t just about sex and the correlation between appearance dissatisfaction and sexual problems. 

New friend of the pod Kenzie Brenna chats with the girls about healing your inner child and why she pivoted from being a weight loss influencer to a self-love influencer. The girls get into the double standard placed on women’s bodies and how Disney totally fucked them all up. Tune in for an incredibly raw conversation on navigating a thin-focused society in a fat body.

Okay, so… a Blue Baller calls in with the ultimate dilemma: How can she explore her bisexuality while in a monogamous heterosexual relationship? Got a question? Call 8555-OKAYSO or email [email protected] 

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Happy Friday, Blue Ballers! This week, we’re back to our regularly scheduled programming. Rachel attempts an interesting TikTok trend with her boyfriend, Arielle reunites with her FB husband, and together, the girls schmooze about divorce parties, cuffing season, and baby fever in Hollywood. The girls also get Balls Deep in dating contracts, Amazon’s new docu-series LueLaRich, and explain why straights probably shouldn’t be partying at gay bars. In news, Rachel gives a quick update on Texas’s abortion ban and Arielle breaks down the California bill that would ban stealthing. 

Cycle-Syncing Nutritionist Nicole Bendayan joins the pod for an enlightening and educational conversation on how you can optimize your menstrual cycle. Women know so little about how our period cycle and birth control affects our bodies (thanks, patriarchy!), and if you have a uterus this interview is a MUST listen. 

Okay so… a Blue Baller calls in with a complaint about getting cat-called, and another listener vents about her toxic ex-friend. Got a question? Call 855-OKAYSO.

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Happy Friday, Blue Ballers! This week, Rachel and Arielle get balls mf deep in all things abortion, and yes, they’re looking at you, Texas (and Mississippi, and every other state that’s tried to undermine a person’s right to abortion!). In this special edition episode, things are going to sound a little different. While there isn’t a guest interview, there is a breakdown of all the information you need to better understand the history of reproductive rights in the United States and where we’ll go from here. The girls tell you everything you need to know about the state and federal laws, bust some major myths about the surgery, and break down who gets abortions and why. (The answers may surprise you!) Warning, shit most definitely gets real, but as always, Rachel and Arielle keep it fun and flirty. 

P.S. Thank you to all the Blue Ballers who submitted their questions, shared their stories, and helped us put this episode together. We couldn’t have done it without you! 

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Happy Friday Blue Ballers!! This week on the pod, Arielle is obsessed with Jersey Shore, Rachel calls out slut-shaming on Bachelor in Paradise, and the girls question Drake’s weird habit of befriending teenage girls. Later on, the girls talk about a Texas anti-abortion website that’s being flooded with Shrek porn and share the best tips on how to send a dick pic that actually looks good. In news, the girls get Balls Deep into a legal battle between a man who sued his parents over his porn collection and the different pleasure signals partners look for during sex. 

Get ready to see red during this interview with Nadya Okamoto, who has been fighting to normalize conversations around periods since she was 16. We’re talking about period poverty, the tampon tax, and how we can fight the stigma surrounding periods. The co-founder of August, a brand that reimagines periods, Nadya explains why we need to separate menstruation from motherhood, and why we should retire phrases like “aunt flow,” and “time of the month.” 

Okay, so… a Blue Baller calls in for advice on a friend breakup and another listener asks a very vague question that the girls attempt to answer. Got a question? Call 8555-OKAYSO

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It’s the last Friday of the month, Blue Ballers and we’re here to help you go out of the month with a BANG! This week on Balls Deep, Rachel gets cock-blocked by her new kitten (Mandy Patinkin), Arielle takes a look inside a subreddit community where people fantasize about shtupping bees, and the girls schmooze about ugly representation, botox, and friend breakups. In news, Rachel and Arielle get Balls Deep into the disaster that is OnlyFans banning porn and why no one should ever have “maintenance sex” with their partner. 

Queen of pop culture and your TikTok BFF, Tefi Pessoa, joins the pod for a hilarious conversation on how she manifested her dream career and finally ditched her toxic ex. Listeners beware, shit gets heavy, but we keep it real and laugh through it, as always. Stick around for the end, you don’t wanna miss Tefi’s first porn story.

Okay, so… a Blue Baller feels like she missed out on a hoe-phase, and another caller wants to know if she should tell her husband she’s fantasizing about fucking a stranger. Got a question? Call 8555-OKAYSO

UPDATE: After recording this episode, OnlyFans shared an update saying they will no longer ban porn starting October 1.

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Cheers to the weekend, Blue Ballers! This week, Rachel reveals herself to be a recovering “Cool Girl,” Arielle has a smallllllll emotional breakdown, and the girls get Balls Deep into queer representation in Scooby-Doo, Batman, and Gossip Girl. Later on, they pose the age-old question: “Just how far will you go for sex?” and explain why Jamie Spears stepping down from Britney’s Conservatorship isn’t as great as it might seem. In sex news, Rachel and Arielle explore why Nazi Porn is so popular, remind you it’s healthy to have sexual fantasies (even if you’re in a relationship), and break down why you don’t need to be worried about Apple scanning your iCloud photos for porn.

Strap in for this week’s interview with Anti-Diet Dating coach, Dana Hamilton, who helps break down the social stigmas around bodies and boys. She gives tips on how we can remove some of the anxiety around rejection, explains how to practice intuitive dating, and gives us some very real advice on why it’s okay to walk away from people who aren’t meeting our standards.

Okay, so a caller is wondering how to recover her sex drive after getting out of a relationship and another listener is wondering if her post-sex depression is normal. (It totally is!). Got a question? Call 8555-OKAYSO.

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