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Kazakhstan: The Trip We Barely Remember (But Somehow Loved Anyway) 

Some trips leave an unforgettable mark on your soul. Others? You mostly remember fragments, questionable tour guides, and the fact that you had a really good laugh. 

In this episode of Bantering Across Borders, we look back on our whirlwind trip to Almaty, taken in 2018 and revisited through the foggy lens of memory in December 2025. Despite spending much of this episode trying to piece together what actually happened, one thing is clear: we had a surprisingly brilliant time. 

We reflect on our short adventure through Kazakhstan, including visits to the ancient petroglyphs at Tamgaly, the stunning scenery around Big Almaty Lake, and exploring Almaty itself. 

Along the way, we discuss why this particular trip has become oddly blurry in our memories and compare Kazakhstan to the other “Stans” we’ve visited. 

Despite the patchy recollections, one thing shines through: travel isn’t always about perfect itineraries or unforgettable landmarks — sometimes it’s simply about the people you experience it with. 

As always, expect honesty, laughter, travel mishaps and a healthy amount of banter. 

In this episode: 

00:00 – Coming up
01:37 – Introduction to the series and episode
02:27 – Heading off to Almaty, Kazakhstan
04:05 – Lasting impressions: what do we actually remember?
06:00 – A quick introduction to Kazakhstan
10:25 – Touring Kazakhstan Day 1: the petroglyphs at Tamgaly Petroglyphs
16:15 – Visiting Big Almaty Lake and exploring Almaty
23:40 – Why don’t we remember much about this trip?
24:40 – Comparing the “Stans”
28:20 – The friendship question
31:39 – Wrapping up Kazakhstan
32:31 – Uncovering Sarah’s quirks
34:00 – Next episode preview 

A note on timing: This episode reflects on a trip taken in 2018, recorded as part of our retrospective travel conversations in December 2025. Some details may be hazy (on our part!), but the memories — however fuzzy — still make for a good story. 

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What happens when a trip changes not just how you see the world — but how you see yourself? 

In the first episode of Series 3, we reflect on a journey we took through Palestine in December 2018 — a trip to the Holy Land that became something far more profound than either of us expected. Now, in December 2025, we look back on that experience and explore how it changed our perspectives, challenged our assumptions, and continues to stay with us years later. 

From the stark realities of life in Hebron to the spiritual intensity of Bethlehem and Jerusalem, we revisit the moments that left the deepest impact — emotionally, culturally and spiritually. 

We talk candidly about what it was really like travelling through Palestine as tourists, witnessing everyday Palestinian life, and experiencing places of huge historical and spiritual significance — including walking the Via Dolorosa and visiting the traditional site of Jesus’ birth at the Church of the Nativity. 

More than a travel story, this episode explores how travel can reshape the way we see the world — and ourselves. As always, expect honesty, humour, unexpected moments, and plenty of banter along the way. 

In this episode: 

00:00 – Coming up
00:57 – Introduction to the new series
02:10 – Palestine: Why did we decide to visit the Holy Land?
05:05 – An overview of Palestine
06:56 – Getting there: travelling to Palestine in 2018
09:57 – Visiting Hebron and witnessing everyday Palestinian life
21:35 – Exploring Bethlehem and the traditional birthplace of Jesus
32:00 – Visiting Jerusalem, walking the Via Dolorosa, and experiencing the Holy City
41:22 – Onwards to Jordan
43:40 – How did this trip change us? Reflections on worldview, faith and spirituality
48:15 – Next episode preview 

A note on timing: This episode reflects on a trip taken in December 2018, recorded as part of our retrospective conversations in December 2025. The places, practicalities and political context may have changed since our visit, but the impact of the experience remains. 

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In the final episode of Series 2, we head to one of the most surprising, humbling, and fascinating destinations we've ever visited: Iraqi Kurdistan. 

Growing up during the Gulf War, “Iraq” was a word that came wrapped in fear and conflict on the news, so stepping foot there as two middle-aged expats armed with just a couple of curious minds, felt surreal. And magical. And completely unexpected. 

Join us as we wander through ancient monasteries, share dinners with locals, and walk barefoot through the sacred Yazidi village of Lalish — one of the most moving travel experiences we've ever had. We also climb up to the atmospheric Citadel of Erbil, reflect on the kindness of everyone we met, and marvel at how different reality is from the headlines we grew up hearing. 

Stay with us till the end as answer our season-ending question: What do we wish for each other as life takes us on different paths? 

This is an episode about challenging assumptions, embracing curiosity, and discovering the humanity and beauty of a place too often misunderstood. 

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Our guides 

Here are the two companies we used for our trip to Kurdistan - escape travels who organised everything and then our tour guide Haval who runs many trips across the country. 

Escape Travels  

https://www.escape-travels.com/ 

https://www.instagram.com/escape_travels?igsh=MXNycDZzaTgzbGR0Mw== 

Haval - tour guide Kurdistan.  

https://www.tripadvisor.com/Attraction_Review-g659505-d14863085-Reviews-Iraqi_Kurdistan_Guide-Erbil_Erbil_Province.html 

https://iraqikurdistanguide.com/ 

https://www.instagram.com/iraqi_kurdistan_guide?igsh=NmZpcmJpZ3kxd3k1&utm_source=qr 

Why this episode matters 

Kurdistan challenged every preconception we had. It reminded us why we travel: to replace headlines with human stories, to be humbled by unexpected beauty, and to meet people who open their homes, their holy sites, and their hearts. 

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Thinking about moving overseas or already living the expat life? In this episode of Bantering Across Borders, Sarah and Tony share their personal journeys of building a life abroad—the highs, the lows, and everything in between. From making friends and handling culture shock to the practical realities of expat living, they explore the benefits, disadvantages, and lessons learned along the way. 

Episode notes 

Bantering Across Borders – Episode: Building a Life Abroad 

In this special episode of Bantering Across Borders, Sarah and Tony step away from their usual trip-by-trip storytelling to reflect on what it really means to build a life abroad. From the funny to the frustrating, they share their personal journeys, lessons learned, and the realities of life as British expats. 

Expect honest banter, practical advice, and a peek behind the curtain of expat life—everything from making friends in new places, to battling culture shock, to redefining what “home” actually means. Whether you’re already an expat, considering a move, or just curious about life overseas, this episode has something for you. 

Join us as we swap stories, laugh at our misadventures, and share what we’ve learned along the way. 

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Welcome back to Bantering Across Borders! In this episode, Tony and Sarah shine a spotlight on Oman — the Gulf’s hidden gem. 

With its chocolate-brown mountains, lush greenery, and vast deserts, Oman is nothing like its glitzy Gulf neighbours. It’s chilled, authentic, and full of surprises for travellers looking to step off the beaten path. 

Join Tony and Sarah as they relive their epic road trip across the country — a journey that included following every brown tourist sign, crossing the Tropic of Cancer, and uncovering wadis, forts, and breathtaking scenery (all with the help of a “sexy” GPS system). You’ll also hear about their turtle-watching misadventure in Ras Al Haad, the charms of Muscat, the unique beauty of Salalah during Khareef season, and why camping in the Empty Quarter is something everyone should try at least once. 

Expect plenty of laughs, random detours, and the kind of friendship banter that only comes from hours on the road together. 

🎧 If you’ve ever wondered what makes Oman so special, this is the episode for you. 

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Welcome back to Bantering Across Borders! In this episode, Tony and Sarah head to a part of the world they knew very little about just three days before setting off — Uzbekistan, the historic crossroads of Central Asia. 

This spontaneous trip takes them through a land of dazzling architecture, rich history, and hearty meals of plov. From Tashkent’s vibrant markets and metro stations to the iconic city of Samarkand with its Shah-i-Zinda mausoleums, Registan Square, and Bibi-Khanym Mosque, Uzbekistan delivers surprise after surprise. 

Along the way, Tony and Sarah discover the legacy of Amir Temur, stumble upon Tony’s namesake restaurant, and share their best tips for making the most of a short 3-day getaway. 

Of course, no Bantering Across Borders episode would be complete without laughs, reflections on friendship, and the ultimate question: would they go back? 

🎧 If Uzbekistan has ever been on your radar (or even if it hasn’t!), this episode will inspire you to add it to your travel list. 

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Welcome back to Bantering Across Borders! In this episode, Tony and Sarah take you to Sri Lanka — one of their earliest trips together — and prove just how much culture, adventure, and fun you can pack into a single weekend. 

From watching elephants being bathed at Pinnawala 🐘, exploring the ancient Dambulla Caves 🪨, and staying overnight at the iconic Cinnamon Lodge 🎶  to climbing (or refusing to climb!) Sigiriya’s Lion Rock 🦁, going on safari in Minneriya National Park and more 🐘🦓 — this whirlwind trip covers the cultural and natural highlights of Sri Lanka. 

As always, Tony and Sarah share plenty of laughs, misadventures, and reflections on travelling together — including what they learned about each other on only their second ever trip as friends. 

🎧 Whether you’re short on time or planning a longer adventure, this episode is packed with tips and inspiration for making the most of Sri Lanka in just a few days. 

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Welcome back to Bantering Across Borders! Join Tony and Sarah as they turn their expat lens onto Dubai – their home for over a decade – to share a very different side of the city that most tourists never see. 

Forget the clichés of mega malls and shiny skyscrapers. In this episode, your favourite bantering duo reveal their insider tips for getting off the tourist trail and uncovering Dubai’s surprising hidden gems. From flamingos in the desert, serene lakes at sunrise, and the bustle of the old town, to camel racing, comedy nights, and why a golf course restaurant might just be the perfect spot for people-watching, Tony and Sarah uncover the quirks and charms of life in Dubai. 

Along the way, they share how living in this ever-changing city has shaped them, reflect on their friendship, and drop a few laughs about the everyday realities of expat life. 

🎧 Whether you’re planning a trip, living in the UAE, or just curious about what lies beyond the glitter, this episode will give you fresh perspectives on Dubai. 

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Ready to hear about ancient pyramids, and unexpected sandstorms? In this episode, we take you deep into Sudan, as we road trip from Khartoum to the pyramids in Meroe. 

Expect history, humour, and a bit of mayhem. This is not a travel guide—it’s a real-life travel tale packed with laughs, surprises, and heartfelt moments 

In this episode, we cover:  

• The real story behind Sudan’s pyramids  
• What’s inside the National Museum of Sudan  
• Surviving a sandstorm while camping in the desert   
• What it’s really like to travel in Sudan as a foreigner 

If you’re curious about off-the-beaten-path travel, and love a good laugh, this episode is for you.  

Perfect for listeners who love:   

• Travel podcasts with personality   
• African travel stories   
• Underrated destinations   
• Funny and authentic storytelling   
• British humour and expat adventures   
• Real travel, not Instagram gloss 

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Don’t forget to listen to the rest of the series and join us as we share our travel tales from Saudi, South Korea, Azerbaijan, and Kuwait. 

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In this episode of Bantering Across Borders, Sarah and Tony—British expats and best friends—take you on a three-day journey through the stunning and surprising country of Azerbaijan. 

From staying overnight with locals in Xinaliq, one of the highest and most remote villages in the Caucasus Mountains, to exploring the ultra-modern skyline and unexpected gems of Baku, this episode is full of laughs, cultural insights, and memorable travel moments.  

Find out why Tony unexpectedly fell in love with a carpet museum, why Sarah ended up in a heated dinner table debate, and what it's really like to travel as part of a group tour for the first time. As always, their signature banter brings a mix of storytelling, personal reflection, and friendship-fuelled travel inspiration. 

If you're curious about off-the-beaten-path travel, meaningful shared experiences, and the quirky dynamics of long-time friends exploring the world together, you’re in the right place. 

In This Episode You’ll Discover: 

- What makes Xinaliq one of the world’s most unique mountain villages   

- How Baku’s modern architecture and culture defy expectations   

- Why Tony is obsessed with Azerbaijan’s Carpet Museum   

- The ups and downs of joining a group trip as independent travellers   

- How travel continues to strengthen their friendship 

Perfect for listeners who love 

✓ Travel podcasts   

✓ Exploring lesser-known countries   

✓ Authentic friendship dynamics   

✓ British expat stories   

✓ Travel guides with personality 

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