In this thought-provoking episode of Banter and Bullshit, we take a deep dive into what it means to truly understand people, especially through the lens of Black culture and identity. We break down the concept of code-switching and the unique challenges Black people face when navigating spaces where their natural energy—what we call "Big King and Queen energy"—may be seen as too much or too aggressive. But why should we have to shrink ourselves to make others comfortable? We challenge the notion that Black people need to tone down their power and presence, advocating instead for fully embracing who we are, unapologetically.Understanding people goes beyond just fitting in—it’s about recognizing the beauty, strength, and influence that Black culture brings to the world. We talk about how Black people are the most imitated yet least understood group on the planet. Everyone wants to look, sound, or move like us, but no one wants the real Black experience that comes with it—the struggles, the resilience, and the history. In this episode, we unpack what it means to be truly seen and appreciated as Black kings and queens, and why that understanding matters now more than ever.We also take time to honor the life of Denzel A. Chan, a 25-year-old who was tragically taken from us during the Labor Day parade in another senseless act of violence. His death is a stark reminder of the realities we still face, even as we fight to celebrate our culture and thrive in a world that often doesn't value us the way it should.Join us as we explore Black culture, history, and the importance of understanding each other in a deeper way. This episode is full of real talk, raw emotions, and of course, our signature blend of banter and bullshit. Don’t miss it! #duet #comedy #banternbullshit #laborday2024 #codeswitching #bigkingenergy #bigqueenenergy #podcast