Barely Edited

I used to think chaos meant love. That calm was a trap. That being bored in a relationship meant it was the wrong one. But really, I was just addicted to dysfunction—and I was the one bringing it into every corner of my life. My friendships, my work, my relationship, even the way I talk to myself.

In this episode, I’m owning the fact that I’ve been the toxic one. The walking red flag. The drama. The disaster. But also? I’m learning. I don’t want to pass this down to my kids one day. I don’t want to teach them that love has to hurt to be real.

Peace used to feel suspicious. Now I’m craving it. Maybe that just means I’m growing up… or maybe I’m just finally done bleeding for the plot

One minute you’re in love. The next, you’re wondering why your boyfriend pulled up in your uncle’s car. What follows isn’t just betrayal, inheritance, or family drama — it’s a full-blown murder mystery. Honestly, it sounds like a movie. Rom-com with no resolution, a few casualties, and a very expensive lesson in ignoring your gut. Sometimes when one door slams in your face, it’s just the universe dragging you somewhere better. And hey — at least my nails look great now.

In this episode I connect some very gay dots I’ve been dodging since elementary school. I talk about something I’ve always known but never really said out loud. We get into tomboy phases, girlhood weirdness, and the slow, quiet realization that maybe I wasn’t as straight as I thought. It’s not a revelation. It’s not a label. Just a long-overdue out-loud moment about identity, attraction, and figuring things out while still being fully in love with my boyfriend. It’s a little gay, a little chaotic, and very on brand. Barely straight. Barely edited. Obviously.

This week, I’m talking about the soft breakdown that comes after you’ve been strong for too long.

I open up about the upcoming anniversary of my ex Shane’s passing, how his joy for life still echoes in mine, and how grief — even years later — can hit you when you least expect it. Especially when you’re finally starting to live again.

We also get into what happens when you go from saying yes to everything… to saying no to literally everything. The avoidant phase. The cold era. The “cut everyone off and call it healing” moment.

I’ve been in emotional witness protection, and maybe you have too.

But I’m trying to find the middle. To stay soft. To let people in — without letting them take.

This one’s for anyone who’s been hiding in their peace and finally wants to come home to themselves.

New episodes drop somewhere between Sunday night and Monday morning — because structure is for boring people.

This is Barely Edited — where nothing’s off-limits, and life’s messiest moments turn into stories worth sharing.

It starts with a laugh and ends with a soft identity crisis—so basically, a typical Sunday night.

In this episode, I’m crowning my listeners my little rough drafts (because we’re all messy masterpieces in progress) and talking about the not-so-aesthetic side of healing. Crying over dumb sh*t? Check. Blocking mid-text? Double check. Googling signs from the universe at 2AM? Obviously.

And just to be clear: romanticizing trauma? Not on my podcast.

New episodes drop somewhere between Sunday night and Monday morning—because structure is for boring people. This is Barely Edited—where nothing’s off-limits, and life’s messiest moments turn into stories worth sharing.

Been a minute, but I’m back—and lighter in every sense.
This week, we’re trimming the fat: bad friends, bad habits, bad carbs—you name it, it’s gone. I’m talking spring cleaning for the soul, how new vitamins (and some new boundaries) are changing the game, why keeping quiet online might just save your peace, and how sometimes the universe throws hands when you’re too stubborn to change course.

New episodes drop somewhere between Sunday night and Monday morning—because who needs a schedule when you’re busy living? This is Barely Edited—where nothing’s off-limits, and life’s messiest moments turn into stories worth sharing.

In this episode, we dive into the quirks that drive us up the wall—those everyday pet peeves that test our patience. We also tackle the hot-button issue of partners liking photos on Instagram: harmless interaction or cause for concern? Jealousy takes center stage as we explore its roots and how it sneaks into our relationships. Plus, we unpack the baggage we all carry from past relationships and discuss how to keep it from weighing down our present.​

New episodes drop somewhere between Sunday night and Monday morning—because life’s too unpredictable for a strict schedule. This is Barely Edited—where nothing’s off-limits, and every raw moment has a story worth sharing.

In this episode, we dive into Meghan's new cooking show, With Love, Meghan, which has been stirring up both praise and criticism. I share my thoughts on the series and why I found it enjoyable despite the mixed reviews. We then transition to a more serious discussion on domestic violence, highlighting warning signs to watch for in relationships and emphasizing the importance of seeking help if you or someone you know is affected. Drawing from personal experiences, I shed light on the complexities of abusive relationships and the journey to healing.

New episodes drop somewhere between Sunday night and Monday morning—because life’s too unpredictable for a strict schedule. This is Barely Edited—where nothing’s off-limits, and every raw moment has a story worth sharing.

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Ever been dumped so hard it flips your world upside down? In this episode, I spill some cheeky breakup tea that sparks a wild journey into mastering the art of name-dropping and people-watching. We'll chat about how a name can be your secret superpower, why everyone’s quirks might just be their baggage in disguise, and how growing up means turning loneliness into a lesson in self-discovery. Strap in—this ride’s messy, real, and chaotic af.

New episodes drop somewhere between Sunday night and Monday morning—because life’s too unpredictable for a strict schedule. This is Barely Edited—where nothing’s off-limits, and every raw moment has a story worth sharing.

Starting with a funny twist on my parents’ divorce, we get into handling toxic family members (without burning every bridge), men who act like snapping at women is a personality trait, and why breakups—and divorces—deserve way more celebration.

New episodes drop *somewhere between Sunday night and Monday morning* because life happens. This is *Barely Edited*—where nothing’s off-limits, and life’s messiest moments turn into stories worth sharing.