An episode for the people pleasers in the room? Hi, yes, YOU (and me lol). We're breaking down the top 3 life lessons from the global best-seller The Courage To Be Disliked. The book that has sold over 10 million copies and will rewire your brain to unlock the freedom to live an authentic, fun and whimsical LIFE.

💡 Reflection Prompt #1: What behavior or belief in your life are you currently blaming on your past? What would it mean to let go of that narrative—and what responsibility would that require?

💡 Reflection Prompt #2: Where in your life are you modifying your choices to gain approval or avoid rejection? What would it look like to act based on your own beliefs, not others’ expectations?

💡 Reflection Prompt #3:What would you do if you knew for sure that someone would dislike you for it—but you also knew it was right for you? Why aren’t you doing it already?

(SPOILER WARNING: Powerless Series & Fourth Wing) The refresher we all need before reading Fearless which drops on the 8 April. Plus we break down a mind-blowing quote from my recent read and the three Stuff Your Kindle Events you need to pop on your calendar immediately.

Stuff Your Kindle Days:

04/04: NZ Indie Writers: Fantasy SYKD

04/15-04/20: Indie Only Book Club: Fantastical Event SYKD

04/22: Romance Book Blast 

Please note this episode is SPOICY because it's time to talk book icks and the best & worst tropes to ever exist. Plus we have a book club update and the wild ride of a reading weekend I had recently.

Potential ACOTAR spoilers and plated prisoner spoilers fyi

Bitches, we’ve got a jam-packed episode for you! 📚✨ First up, I’m announcing our brand-new book club—because what’s better than reading romantasy together? Then, we dive into the latest ACOTAR 6 release date rumors (is it finally happening?!). And to top it off, I’m sharing the books that completely altered my brain chemistry—the ones that left me obsessed, emotionally wrecked, and forever changed.

LINKS:

Wicked Tides by Courtney Liegh

Women Living Deliciously by Florence Given

Good With Money by Emma Edwards

Everything I Know About Love by Dolly Alderton

Finding Your People by Alex Hourigan & Sally McMullen

In this episode, we dive into one of the most debated theories in the A Court of Thorns and Roses fandom—Is Elain Archeron actually the ultimate villain? From hidden foreshadowing in Sarah J. Maas’s writing to suspicious behavior that has fans questioning her true intentions, we break down the clues that suggest Elain might not be as innocent as she seems. Could she be a master manipulator, a future Queen of the Dread Trove, or something even darker?

Join us as we analyse the evidence, discuss the most compelling fan theories, and decide whether Elain is a misunderstood cinnamon roll or a wolf in sheep’s clothing.

SPOTIFY PLAYLIST HERE

Alex breaks down the top three life lessons from Atomic Habits by James Clear and how you can apply them to your daily life. From the power of identity-based habits to the magic of tiny improvements, Alex will help you build better habits and break bad ones—all in just 30 minutes. Tune in and start transforming your life, one small habit at a time!

There is A LOT to catch up on this week on the Basic Bitch Book Club. I am PISSED at the latest ACOTAR controversy but we make it all better with a free fantasy books hack that has me kicking my feet and giggling. I also share a bit of a (sooky la la) life update and the book quote that got me through a bit of a flat week.

LINKS:

⁠FB GROUP: Basic Bitch Book Club⁠

⁠https://stuffwithfantasy.com/⁠

This episode we are diving straight into my thoughts, feelings and emotions on Onyx Storm. We talk the good, the bad and of course the ugly.... like WTF was the ending?! Also the redemption arc we did NOT see coming and everything we know for a fact about book 4.

Plus your homework! Please comment your thoughts too:

• The Good (What did you like?)
• The Bad (What didn't you like?)
• The Ugly (Your fav plot twist!)
• MVP (Most Valuable Player aka Character)
• The Endgame (You favourite Theories!)

In this episode, we’re diving into the latest BookTok buzz—Colleen Hoover might be retiring?! We’ll break down what’s going on. Then, I’m sharing my initial thoughts on Onyx Storm (because you know I dropped everything to read it). Is it living up to the hype? Finally, let’s talk 2025 TBR—my most anticipated romantasy reads, the sequels I can’t wait for, and the books that better not disappoint.

📚✨ Don’t forget to subscribe and follow for more BookTok deep dives!

Let's dive into Mel Robbins’ viral “Let Them Theory” and uncovering the top 3 life lessons that can transform your mindset and relationships. From embracing freedom for others to taking radical personal responsibility, we’ll explore how this simple yet powerful framework can help you let go of control, release judgment, and focus on what truly matters—your own growth.

Tune in as we break down:
✨ The power of saying “Let Them” and why it’s essential for peace of mind.
✨ How “Let Me” shifts you from reaction to empowerment and personal responsibility.
✨ Practical steps to lead with self-awareness, compassion, and understanding.

This episode is all about clarity, compassion, and taking control of your emotional well-being. Grab your favourite drink, get cozy, and let’s explore how “Let Them” can free you—and “Let Me” can transform you.