Basically... Life Podcast

In this edition of HOLAA in a Hot Spot Tiff answers questions around touching yourself, hitting on women and coitus with a close friend.

(and we shout out Thando’s Youtube)

Rules of the game:

1. You can submit your questions anonymously

2. Just tell us where you are from so Tiff can give advice with context and focus.

Links:

Azania Realness YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/ThandoHlophe

Submit your questions here - https://forms.gle/Jq2xEQM1EX9CoWng9

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How does long distance help your relationship? Why do folx really not understand the B in LGBTIQ? Why is it sometimes so hard to date men?

In this episode I get to sit down with my amazing homie Ophelia and chat about dating, bisexuality and the wildness that is dealing with multiple genders.

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Is XY just a state of mind? What is classified as compulsory heteroexuality and why do we so often fall into its clutches? Do all transbodies somehow fall into the stigma of heteronormative society or does it change when you transition?

This episode has the awesome awesome couple Lwazi (my brilliant producer for season 2) and Khanyi. the bae extraordinaire!

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Last episode of season 1 fam!

In this one we sit down with the incredible mind that is Siya Khumalo and answer 'what happens when you crash a dinner party and start chatting about sex? How do you marry the idea of Jesus dying for your sins and you being free in your sexuality? Have You Read You need to be gay to know God? (seriously, read it).

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How do friends help you plan a marriage proposal? Can you be masculine and wear lingerie and send nudes? Can you share your sexual experiences with another person with your partner?

On this episode we sit down with long term loves Thatso and Ndumi to discuss all things relationshipping. These two have grown so much.

(Also the sound quality is wild cause this was at a dinner party. Love us).

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What’s it like dating a violist? Why aren't I trying to f**k Efemia? Why was Efemia celibate for a year?

Its another great episode with this writer and constant collaborator of mine (whose name I seriously said wrong for years. Still shook).

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How is Kaz navigating her throuple? How do you find community in threesomes? What does a cross over collaboration look like? This is a special episode of Basically Life, a cross collaboration with The Spread Podcast, Africa’s biggest sex positive podcast. @karenkazlucas is greatness.

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Why would you not want to be medicated? Can rope help with anxiety? Can you eat wings whilst recording a podcast?

This episode has the awesome Thabile who is dropping wisdom on abuse, social currency, and dealing with chronic mental health issues. Also she brought so many snacks.

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Do couple friends rock? Do Pandemics stress us? How do you go from a kiss and run to actually being together? Also do you need a leather hoody to be a smoldering lesbian?

These two will facilitate ANYTHING including couple drama. They are amazing. You never have to leave yourself at the door, whatever you come with... let's do it.

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*Note: Not our best quality*

Why do the gays not know queer women culture? What is Nandos full chicken? Does penetration mean power?

This episode has the awesome Zante, a premium gay and writer. And long term homie.

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