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Our interview with filmmaker Benjamin Nolot is the first in a series of four interviews that explore the relationship between culture, representations of sex in the media and in porn, and sexual exploitation. 

This interview starts the series off by exploring hookup culture through the lens of one of his documentary films. We begin to examine patterns of the media and social influence—and to understand how strong their power is over us, whether we realize it or not.

"One of my all-time favorite books and a life-changing lesson on communication." —Sasza Lohrey, BBXX Founder

Fact: big wins are impossible without the small wins along the way. "The journey is the destination" might sound cheesy but the reality is that we won't always make it to where we're trying to go. Even if we do, it's vital to acknowledge how much work we put in to get there; the big wins never feel as good if we haven't celebrated the small wins.

There is no one single path set out for us. There is no single destination where we might end up and be happy. There is no one person that we could build an incredible relationship with. There is not just one "right" decision. And there is no one single version of who we are. ⁠Besides, how boring would it be if there were?⁠

Esta semana, conversamos con la emprendedora Estrella Jaramillo sobre la realidad actual de la tecnología orientada a mujeres, la importancia del lenguaje y la comunicación…

“Communication is the bedrock to make your bed rock.” Dr. Laurie Mintz shares wisdom about mindfulness as a powerful tool for sex, stress, pandemics, and life in general.  We would truly appreciate your feedback. Please help us build a better...

“Communication is the bedrock to make your bed rock.” Dr. Laurie Mintz shares wisdom about mindfulness as a powerful tool for sex, stress, pandemics, and life in general.  We would truly appreciate your feedback. Please help us build a better BBXX for you by sending your questions, comments, or criticisms to [email protected] or by texting +1 (415) 888-4742 :)

Sometimes we have a conversation with another person about one concept that has two very different meanings for each of us. More often, we don't even realize it.  It’s such a simple concept yet one that can completely transform the way we...

As hard as we might try to forget or "get over" things, the body still remembers them. Studies show that suppressing emotions can do damage not only to our psychological health but also to our physical health. We would truly appreciate your feedback....

Sometimes we have a conversation with another person about one concept that has two very different meanings for each of us. More often, we don't even realize it. 

It’s such a simple concept yet one that can completely transform the way we communicate with and understand other people. 

We would truly appreciate your feedback. Please help us build a better BBXX for you by sending your questions, comments, or criticisms to [email protected] or by texting +1 (415) 888-4742 :)