Red flags are behavioral warning signs that something is not quite right. While these warning flags apply equally to everyone, you probably have greater chance of finding some in BDSM because of the things we do, predators can hide more easily here.

A submissive, according to the Dictionary, is yielding, obedient, compliant. A good submissive is a good follower. I am sure these are all things that you have thought and seen in your own submissiveness. If you have not, then, perhaps it is time.

Simply put, a good Dominant is someone who possesses the very qualities we would ascribe to a “good person”: kindness, consideration, politeness. A good Dominant, like a “good person” has a strong sense of ethics and honesty and is respectful of others regardless of their position in life.

Listen to this podcast and "judge" for yourself, LOL! In this podcast, Primal Piggy talks about reasons why people don't like to judge others, why judgment is important to rational thought, and how judgment is good for the BDSM community. Find more resources at bdsmunited.com

*We are not affiliated with Fetlife in any way. These are my opinions on successfully setting up a FetLife profile for the purposes of finding partners, vetting and being vetted. In this podcast Primal Piggy takes you through setting up your profile, adding photos, fetishes, and more information about yourself. He talks about how FetLife tracks your activity so that you can be vetted and begin vetting others. You can watch this episode on our Youtube channel. Find video info and additional resources at bdsmunited.com

*We are not affiliated with Fetlife in any way. These are my opinions on successfully setting up a FetLife profile for the purposes of finding partners, vetting and being vetted. In this podcast Primal Piggy takes you through the very first sign-up screen and talks you through picking a gender, sexual orientation, and lifestyle role. You can watch this episode on our Youtube channel. Find video info and additional resources at bdsmunited.com

Primal Piggy examines Brats vs Power Exchange Relationships. He defines what makes a Dominant and a Submissive. He shows that while Brats aren't subs, they also aren't doms. He makes a clear case that brats don't submit, they don't make the power exchange and that's why their behavior is mostly toxic within BDSM.

Host Primal Piggy talks about who he is, some of his kinks like DD/LG and Piggy Sex, and why this podcast exists. Get a behind-the-scenes look at his meme page and what it's like to be an admin of Whips, Chains, and Duct Tape. Listen to the end where Primal Piggy encourages you to love yourself and love your kinks!