Be the Bigger Person

I’m pregnant — and this season has held more emotions than I expected. In this episode, I’m sharing the full story: why we sped up our timeline, how we found out, the nerves and fear that hit me, the excitement we're feeling, and the deep grief of being pregnant without my mom here.

I’m also talking about how Ivan has been through it all, what this season has looked like behind the scenes, and what’s next for the future of this podcast as I step into motherhood.

If you’ve ever walked through a season full of mixed emotions — joy, grief, fear, hope — this episode will meet you there.

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Do you ever feel like you're the 9th wheel with your friends and their significant others?

In this episode, Melissa and her friend Leah talk about the highs, lows, and awkward moments of singleness. From managing expectations with God, to building real community, to laughing about the spiciest, most confusing things people say to their single friends—this one’s honest, hopeful, and deeply relatable.

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Grief doesn’t just change how we feel—it changes how we love. In this episode, we’re talking about the quiet ways loss leaves fingerprints on our relationships, from dating and marriage to friendships and family. Whether you’ve experienced a loss yourself or love someone who has, this conversation offers a tender, honest look at how grief reshapes our hearts and how we can still show up with vulnerability, grace, and intention. There’s no “right” way to carry grief in love—but there is a faithful one.

If you’ve ever found yourself stuck on a guy who can’t commit, won’t show up, or keeps giving you just enough to stay hopeful—this one’s for you. In this episode, we’re having a real talk about knowing your worth, letting go of emotional breadcrumbs, and finally closing the door on relationships that aren’t God’s best for you. You were not made to beg for love, to chase it, or to shrink yourself for it. Let’s talk about why you’re too good to keep waiting around—and how to walk away with confidence, peace, and your dignity intact.

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Grief doesn’t just affect your emotions—it can shift your entire relationship with God. In this episode, I’m talking honestly about how grief changed my faith, what that looked like in real time, and why those shifts don’t make you a “bad believer.” We’ll explore what Scripture shows us about lament, doubt, and spiritual quietness—and why God doesn’t need your performance, just your presence. If your faith feels different after loss, this episode is a safe place to process that.

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If you’ve ever thought, “I just don’t know what to say” to a grieving friend—or worried about doing the wrong thing—this episode is for you. In this gentle and honest conversation, I’m sharing practical, faith-rooted ways to support someone who is grieving—based on my own experience of loss and what actually helped. From what to say (and what not to), to thoughtful gestures that truly matter, you’ll walk away with simple, meaningful ways to show up with love, even when the words feel hard to find.

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Let’s have the honest marriage talk I wish someone would’ve had with me. If you're single and wondering what marriage really looks like behind closed doors—or you're newly married and still finding your footing—this episode is for you. I'm sharing the unfiltered truth about what surprised me, what we’re still figuring out, and what I wish someone had lovingly told me while I was still waiting. From routines to disagreements to intimacy and connection, we’re talking about it all.

Moving to a new city can be both a bold leap of faith and a deeply lonely transition. In this episode, I’m sharing exactly what helped me thrive after my own big move—and what totally didn’t. From building community to staying spiritually grounded and avoiding the mistakes that made the journey harder than it had to be, this is the episode I wish someone handed me before I packed my bags. Whether you're in a brand-new place or considering a fresh start, you're not alone—and God has already gone before you.

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In our first episode together as husband and wife, Ivan and I talk through the good, the messy, and the totally unexpected parts of newlywed life (including the spicier parts!). From communication struggles to surprising joys, we’re sharing it all honestly. Whether you're single, married, or somewhere in between—we hope this episode feels like a safe, encouraging space.

P.S. the audio is less than ideal for the first few minutes because *face palm* I forgot to pull in the microphone. Thanks for understanding, and I promise it gets better for the majority of the episode! 

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Planning a wedding while carrying the weight of grief is no small thing—but joy and sorrow can beautifully coexist. In this episode, I’m sharing all the details from my recent wedding day: how I created a peaceful, joyful environment, the intentional ways I honored my mom’s legacy, and what I’d do all over again. If you're a bride-to-be, in a season of grief, or just love a good love story filled with faith and meaning, this one’s straight from my heart.

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