You wrote the script. You got excited. You started taking steps. And then — out of nowhere — everything felt hard, scary and wrong. That is not failure. That is the terror barrier. And it means you are closer than you think. In this episode Debbie gets into one of the most important concepts in the entire Rise and Thrive programme — why fear shows up exactly when you are about to break through, the six fears that steal most people's dreams, and the one and only antidote that actually works. Raw, honest, and packed with personal stories including learning to ski at 40 and why out of shit grows roses has been her mantra lately.
What the terror barrier actually is — and why it shows up every single time you go after something that matters
- Why the moment everything feels impossible is usually the moment you are closest to the breakthrough
- The six fears from Napoleon Hill's Think and Grow Rich that steal the most dreams — and how to recognise which one is running you
- The difference between beware and be aware — and why you want to take a quick honest look at your fears without living in them
- Why faith and fear cannot coexist — and how to choose faith even when you are terrified
- Why imperfect messy action is the only thing that actually breaks through the barrie
In this episode Debbie shares how she was terrified to learn to ski at 40 — convinced she was too old, too unfit, too clumsy. Three years later she has been on four ski trips and calls it one of the greatest joys of her adult life. She also opens up about a really challenging few months and the mantra that has been getting her through — out of shit grows roses. And she reflects honestly on the times she has dragged herself back from the edge of a breakthrough and pulled the pin, and what she knows now that she wishes she had known then.
Key Quotes From This Episode
"The anxiety and discomfort you feel when you're pushing towards a big goal is not a warning sign. It's a confirmation sign."
"You cannot hold faith and fear at the same time. When you choose faith, fear loses its grip."
"Do it messy. Do it imperfect. Any tiny step forward is going to start to dissolve that vibration of fear."
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