Become More Compelling

If you've ever wondered how to network with people, you're not alone. When someone says "Networking" it makes me think of American Psycho where a bunch of yuppies sit around comparing business cards. "MY GOD...IT EVEN HAS A WATERMARK." Networking doesn't have to feel that way! And in 2020, most networking is sending a DM or email. But how can you get noticed (in a good way) and connect with people who could take your business or career to the next level? In this episode, we'll cover 6 ways you can be better at networking. (I'll even break down a DM that got me on a Zoom call recently.) Let's dive in! Links: How to stop people-pleasing: https://youtu.be/fYDJXFisUt8

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AUDIO GUIDE - Grab my free audio guide on group conversations here (Includes word-for-word scripts)

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Have you ever wondered how to not be boring in a conversation? Maybe you really want to be more interesting, but you don't know how, maybe you KNOW deep down that you're not boring, but you just need some pointers. This episode is for you. I'll cover 6 ways you can be less boring and more interesting in conversation.

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QUIZ - Do you know what your communication style is? Take this quiz and get a custom report based on your results.

AUDIO GUIDE - Grab my free audio guide on group conversations here (Includes word-for-word scripts)

PRIVATE COACHING

Become more socially confident in 12 weeks with private coaching.

MY ONLINE VIDEO COURSE:

Breakthrough Charisma - Become more charismatic in everyday situations.

Have feedback or have a question you'd like to have me answer on a future episode? Let me know on Instagram or Twitter. (@thejeffcallahan) or email me at [email protected].

How To Be A Great Storyteller. Having the skill of telling a few good stories is a really important people skill. Pulling out a great story can be a fantastic way of entertaining people, providing information or even persuading others. In this episode, I'm going to break down a story by Bill Hader and walk you through 4 tips on how to tell a great story. You'll be able to use these storytelling tips in your next Zoom meeting for work, or the next time you hang out with people.

YouTube video link: https://youtu.be/myH0bny5MOE

NEXT STEP:

QUIZ - Do you know what your communication style is? Take this quiz and get a custom report based on your results.

AUDIO GUIDE - Grab my free audio guide on group conversations here (Includes word-for-word scripts)

PRIVATE COACHING

Become more socially confident in 12 weeks with private coaching.

MY ONLINE VIDEO COURSE:

Breakthrough Charisma - Become more charismatic in everyday situations.

Have feedback or have a question you'd like to have me answer on a future episode? Let me know on Instagram or Twitter. (@thejeffcallahan) or email me at [email protected].

In this episode, I'll share 5 tips to help you stop being shy. I spent YEARS being shy, and it was really hard, because I knew that I had so much that I wanted to contribute in social situations. These tips will help you break the shyness cycle and be less quiet in your next social interaction.

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QUIZ - Do you know what your communication style is? Take this quiz and get a custom report based on your results.

AUDIO GUIDE - Grab my free audio guide on group conversations here (Includes word-for-word scripts)

PRIVATE COACHING

Become more socially confident in 12 weeks with private coaching.

MY ONLINE VIDEO COURSE:

Breakthrough Charisma - Become more charismatic in everyday situations.

Have feedback or have a question you'd like to have me answer on a future episode? Let me know on Instagram or Twitter. (@thejeffcallahan) or email me at [email protected].

Look, if you have a habit of people-pleasing, you probably get requests like ... "Can you hop on this Zoom Meeting?" "Hey, can you drive me to the Airport on Friday?" "Hey, can you petsit my Egyptian Pharaoh Hound? He requires constant fanning with a palm leaf." People pleasers tend to say "Yes!" too much. And it comes with a cost! The more you say yes to others, the lest time and energy you have for yourself. In this episode, I'll walk you through some tips to help you stop people-pleasing.

NEXT STEP:

QUIZ - Do you know what your communication style is? Take this quiz and get a custom report based on your results.

AUDIO GUIDE - Grab my free audio guide on group conversations here (Includes word-for-word scripts)

PRIVATE COACHING

Become more socially confident in 12 weeks with private coaching.

MY ONLINE VIDEO COURSE:

Breakthrough Charisma - Become more charismatic in everyday situations.

Have feedback or have a question you'd like to have me answer on a future episode? Let me know on Instagram or Twitter. (@thejeffcallahan) or email me at [email protected].

"Just fake it until you make it!" This is popular advice-especially if you're trying to improve your people skills. Should you fake it until you make it? The more we take action and do something, the more our identity moves to align with the version of us that does that new thing. Our thoughts FOLLOW our actions. In this episode, I'll walk you through a couple of tips that will help you make it, (and not fake it.)

NEXT STEP:

QUIZ - Do you know what your communication style is? Take this quiz and get a custom report based on your results.

AUDIO GUIDE - Grab my free audio guide on group conversations here (Includes word-for-word scripts)

PRIVATE COACHING

Become more socially confident in 12 weeks with private coaching.

MY ONLINE VIDEO COURSE:

Breakthrough Charisma - Become more charismatic in everyday situations.

Have feedback or have a question you'd like to have me answer on a future episode? Let me know on Instagram or Twitter. (@thejeffcallahan) or email me at [email protected].

Should you care what other people think? There's a lot of advice floating around telling us to not care what other people think. (Sometimes in more...colorful language than that.) I've never liked the concept of NGAF. But the reality is, caring less about the outcome of any given social interaction can massively help your people skills. In this episode, I'll walk you through a couple of exercises that will help you declare "outcome independence" with some help from Tim Ferriss and the ancient Stoics. --- TED talk mentioned: https://tim.blog/2017/05/15/fear-setting/

NEXT STEP:

QUIZ - Do you know what your communication style is? Take this quiz and get a custom report based on your results.

AUDIO GUIDE - Grab my free audio guide on group conversations here (Includes word-for-word scripts)

PRIVATE COACHING

Become more socially confident in 12 weeks with private coaching.

MY ONLINE VIDEO COURSE:

Breakthrough Charisma - Become more charismatic in everyday situations.

Have feedback or have a question you'd like to have me answer on a future episode? Let me know on Instagram or Twitter. (@thejeffcallahan) or email me at [email protected].

If you've ever looked around the room and thought... "I'm an imposter! What am I DOING here?!" Then you've experienced imposter syndrome. In this episode, we'll drop-kick imposter syndrome and also teach you how to use your ego as a tool. --- People mentioned: Scott Adams Platon --- Be sure to go to Become More Compelling and get your free 56-minute audio guide on joining & enjoying group conversations. (You'll also get articles, podcasts, videos and much more to help you supercharge your people skills!) --- Have feedback or have a question you'd like to have me answer on a future episode? Let me know on Instagram or Twitter. (@thejeffcallahan) or email me at [email protected].

Most people hesitate socially. "Should I say this or that?" "I don't want to rock the boat!" It's time to get BOLD. In this episode, we'll talk about how to be socially bold. --- Be sure to go to Become More Compelling and get your free 56-minute audio guide on joining & enjoying group conversations. (You'll also get articles, podcasts, videos and much more to help you supercharge your people skills!) --- Have feedback or have a question you'd like to have me answer on a future episode? Let me know on Instagram or Twitter. (@thejeffcallahan) or email me at [email protected].

The intent you carry into any social situation matters! If you're not thinking about the right things, it can make having great social outcomes MUCH harder. In this episode, we'll talk about social intent and what you can do before your next Zoom meeting, first date, or dinner party. (After COVID-19 quarantines clear) --- Be sure to go to Become More Compelling and get your free 56-minute audio guide on joining & enjoying group conversations. (You'll also get articles, podcasts, videos and much more to help you supercharge your people skills!) --- Have feedback or have a question you'd like to have me answer on a future episode? Let me know on Instagram or Twitter. (@thejeffcallahan) or email me at [email protected].