Become Your Best Self

Become Your Best Self

By Nicky AlongaSociety & Culture
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Become Your Best Self episodes

  • Why you might be addicted to DRAMA and why that’s not good for you
    Hey friend,
    Are you someone who finds yourself constantly caught up in drama or chaos? In this episode, we're diving deep into the reasons behind our addiction to drama and why we often find joy in unstable situations. We'll explore the psychological and emotional factors that drive us towards chaos, the negative impacts on our mental and physical health, and why we might not even notice the harm it's causing. Most importantly, we'll discuss practical strategies to break free from this cycle and cultivate a more peaceful, stable life. Tune in to discover how to retire drama from your life and embrace a healthier, more balanced way of living.
    Join us for an eye-opening conversation that will help you understand and overcome the pull of chaos. Don't miss it!
    #DramaAddiction #MentalHealth #StressManagement #SelfAwareness #HealthyLiving
    38 min
  • The Power of Audacity and why YOU need more of it

    Still staring at that January wishlist? With just six months left in the year, let's make some bold moves together. This episode is all about embracing your audacity—the guts to go after what you want without holding back. I’ll share some fun and practical tips to help you finish the year strong and live the life you love. So grab a drink, get comfy, and let’s make those goals happen! Tune in and let’s do this!

    37 min
  • How to Be the Bad Guy - And other tips for people pleasers
    Are you tired of always putting others first and feeling like your own needs are never met? In "How to Be the Bad Guy and Other People Pleaser Tips," we dive deep into the world of people-pleasing, exploring why it happens and how to break free from its grip. Join us as we share practical advice, real-life stories, and expert insights to help you reclaim your time, set healthy boundaries, and prioritize your well-being without guilt.
    This podcast was inspired by the beautiful Cheyenne Muvunyi check out her YouTube: Cheymuv
    48 min
  • I’m BACK! The Simple Art of Embracing Life's Grief and Beauty Simultaneously
    I’m back everybody! And, In this heartfelt solo podcast episode, I share my life lately and inner struggles while leading a rapidly growing company. I've achieved and even exceeded my goals, yet the fear of failure leaves me standing at a crossroads. I discuss the harmful pursuit of blind optimism, and my journey to sit with the grief of the moment. Discover how I'm learning to embrace the fear of leaving my comfort zone, shedding tears while dancing, and finding solace in the belief that everything will be alright.
    26 min
  • Break the Cycle of Corporal Punishment: How to Discipline Without Breaking Trust

    Get ready for a life-changing episode that will transform the way you think about discipline! In this podcast, we dive into the dangers of corporal punishment and the impact it has on children's mental health, relationships, and future success. We explore the reasons why people choose corporal punishment, the history of its use, and the reasons why it's time to break the cycle. But that's not all! I also give you 10 alternatives to corporal punishment that are proven to work, build trust, and promote self-esteem in children. Don't miss out on this vital information for parents, educators, and anyone who cares about the future of our children. Listen now and be inspired to take your parenting and disciplining skills to the next level!

    59 min
  • Part 2 with Chara Itoka: A Conversation on Identity, Motherhood, Self-Discovery, and Trusting the Timing of Your Life

    In Part 2 of our conversation with Chara Itoka, we delve deeper into her entrepreneurial journey and the challenges she faced as a woman in business. Chara shares her strategies for success and how she has been able to build a thriving business in a male-dominated industry. She also talks about the importance of mentorship and the role it played in her personal and professional development. Chara's insights on leadership, resilience, and the power of community will leave you feeling motivated and inspired to take your own career to the next level. Don't miss this continuation of Chara's powerful story, tune in now!

    41 min
  • Part 1 with Chara Itoka: A Conversation on Identity, Motherhood, Self-Discovery, and Trusting the Timing of Your Life

    This week we have an empowering conversation with Chara Itoka, a Liberian entrepreneur and consultant based in Kigali Rwanda. In this episode she shares her journey of self-discovery and the importance of building your own identity. As a single mother, Chara shares her personal experiences and insights on how to navigate life's path, how to trust the timing of your journey, and stay authentic to one's core identity as a mom. This episode will inspire and empower you to unlock your potential and become your best self. This is an episode that will leave you feeling motivated and ready to take control of your own path. Tune in now to gain valuable insights and inspiration from Chara Itoka's empowering story.

    36 min
  • The Necessary Art of Not Giving Two Shits: The Freedom and Power of Letting Go of Other People's Opinions

    Are you tired of constantly seeking approval from others and feeling held back by their opinions? In this episode, we are discussing the power and freedom of letting go of other people's thoughts and embracing your authentic self. We'll explore practical strategies for breaking free from the need for validation, and how to confidently live on YOUR TERMS. 

    By the end of this episode, you'll have the tools you need to give zero fucks and live a life true to yourself. Get ready to embrace your inner maverick and join the two-shit revolution!

    You can find out more about this podcast and myself on Instagram @DNAlonga


    31 min
  • Become Your Best Self: The Rebrand We All Deserve

    In this episode, I am reintroducing the podcast and why the rebrand was important. I am building a community of great humans who are leveling up their lives and have all the tools, tips and habits.  

    I am excited to have you here! No place I'd rather be!

    26 min

About Become Your Best Self

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Become Your Best Seft is the rebrand of Everyday Weird with Nicky Alonga. In this new space, we are creating a community of confident humans who are equipped to face life with joy, gratitude and…