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E50 - I’m Learning to Trust the Process of Becoming a Writer
Episode Summary:
What does it really mean to trust the process when you’re pursuing a writing dream? In this episode, I explore this through the metaphor of a map and compass: the map shows me where I want to go, but the compass—the quieter voice of my own inner knowing—guides me through the route I cannot yet see.
I reflect on how detours, pauses, unexpected challenges, and even moments of doubt can shape us into the writers we need to become. Trusting the process isn’t passive waiting or blind faith. For me, it means developing self-belief, having faith in the journey, taking action in the direction that feels right, and staying connected to my love for writing—even when the outcome remains uncertain.
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🏡 My homes on the internet -
Substack
Spotify |Apple Podcast |Amazon Music
YouTube |YouTube Music |Substack (podcast)
A Rubina’s Bojra Production
Directed, produced, written, and hosted by Rubina Gauri Gomes
Music by "Happy Lazy Loop" by Serge Quadrado (At Adobe Stock)
Audio-visual edited and marketed by Rubina Gauri Gomes
Fueled by coffee ☕ and made with love for fellow writers and creatives 🤍
About Podcast -
Welcome to Becoming A Writer, where writing inspiration is served fresh in 20 minutes or less, every 4th Saturday.
One big lesson to learn as writers - it’s not just about publishing a book—it’s about becoming a writer who writes for life. There’s plenty of advice out there on how to write and publish, but not much about how to be a writer—how to love the process and grow into it. Once you figured that out, you will never stop writing.
This podcast is here to help you explore, experiment with, and express your writer self. Writing can be fun, fulfilling, and a lifelong joy—and your books deserve the writer you're meant to be.
About Me -
I’m Rubina Gauri Gomes, a multi-genre writer exploring mystery, suspense, and the creative life.
I encourage writers to pursue their passion through my podcast, Becoming A Writer.
I have authored Soul Writer vs. Social Writer, a guide to discovering and embracing both the introspective Soul Writer and the engaging Social Writer within you, helping you balance these aspects for a more fulfilling writing journey.
E49 - I Realized I Didn’t Need to Learn More—I Needed to Become a Writer
Episode Summary:
For a long time, I thought becoming a better writer meant learning more. I read more books, studied more techniques, explored the business of writing—and somehow ended up feeling more like a beginner than ever. Eventually, I realised I had confused learning about writing with actually becoming a writer.
In this episode, I explore the shift from collecting knowledge to building a writer identity. Drawing on James Clear’s idea of identity-based habits, I talk about “casting votes” for the writer I want to become through small, meaningful acts of writing. The goal isn’t perfect consistency or productivity, but building trust in myself by repeatedly choosing the work.
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🏡 My homes on the internet -
Substack
Spotify |Apple Podcast |Amazon Music
YouTube |YouTube Music |Substack (podcast)
A Rubina’s Bojra Production
Directed, produced, written, and hosted by Rubina Gauri Gomes
Music by "Happy Lazy Loop" by Serge Quadrado (At Adobe Stock)
Audio-visual edited and marketed by Rubina Gauri Gomes
Fueled by coffee ☕ and made with love for fellow writers and creatives 🤍
About Podcast -
Welcome to Becoming A Writer, where writing inspiration is served fresh in 20 minutes or less, every 4th Saturday.
One big lesson to learn as writers - it’s not just about publishing a book—it’s about becoming a writer who writes for life. There’s plenty of advice out there on how to write and publish, but not much about how to be a writer—how to love the process and grow into it. Once you figured that out, you will never stop writing.
This podcast is here to help you explore, experiment with, and express your writer self. Writing can be fun, fulfilling, and a lifelong joy—and your books deserve the writer you're meant to be.
About Me -
I’m Rubina Gauri Gomes, a multi-genre writer exploring mystery, suspense, and the creative life.
I encourage writers to pursue their passion through my podcast, Becoming A Writer.
I have authored Soul Writer vs. Social Writer, a guide to discovering and embracing both the introspective Soul Writer and the engaging Social Writer within you, helping you balance these aspects for a more fulfilling writing journey.
E48 - The Day I Finally Gave Myself Permission to Write
Episode Summary:
For years, I believed I had to become "ready" before I could call myself a writer. I kept searching for the perfect advice, the perfect process, and the perfect moment to begin. But all that learning became a way of postponing the one thing that would actually help me grow: writing. This episode is about the moment I stopped waiting for a future version of myself and finally gave myself permission to begin with the writer I already was.
I reflect on how much of our hesitation comes from believing we need to prove ourselves before our words are worthy. Whether it's waiting for more confidence, more knowledge, or external validation, those conditions keep moving further away. Real momentum begins when I stop measuring myself against someone else's path and start writing from where I am today, trusting that every honest page shapes the writer I'm becoming.
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🏡 My homes on the internet -
Substack
Spotify |Apple Podcast |Amazon Music
YouTube |YouTube Music |Substack (podcast)
A Rubina’s Bojra Production
Directed, produced, written, and hosted by Rubina Gauri Gomes
Music by "Happy Lazy Loop" by Serge Quadrado (At Adobe Stock)
Audio-visual edited and marketed by Rubina Gauri Gomes
Fueled by coffee ☕ and made with love for fellow writers and creatives 🤍
About Podcast -
Welcome to Becoming A Writer, where writing inspiration is served fresh in 20 minutes or less, every 4th Saturday.
One big lesson to learn as writers - it’s not just about publishing a book—it’s about becoming a writer who writes for life. There’s plenty of advice out there on how to write and publish, but not much about how to be a writer—how to love the process and grow into it. Once you figured that out, you will never stop writing.
This podcast is here to help you explore, experiment with, and express your writer self. Writing can be fun, fulfilling, and a lifelong joy—and your books deserve the writer you're meant to be.
About Me -
I’m Rubina Gauri Gomes, a multi-genre writer exploring mystery, suspense, and the creative life.
I encourage writers to pursue their passion through my podcast, Becoming A Writer.
I have authored Soul Writer vs. Social Writer, a guide to discovering and embracing both the introspective Soul Writer and the engaging Social Writer within you, helping you balance these aspects for a more fulfilling writing journey.
E47 - I Was Doing Everything Except Writing (And It Was Holding Me Back)
Episode Summary
In this episode, I reflect on my early attempt at building an audience through YouTube before becoming a writer. While the platform seemed like the logical path, I soon realized that creating videos drained my energy rather than fueling it. Through that experience, I discovered an important truth: I had become so distracted by everything surrounding Writing that I had stopped prioritizing the act of writing itself.
I share how returning to online writing through Medium and Substack helped me reconnect with my original dream of becoming a writer and taught me the importance of keeping the main thing the main thing.
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The main thing is to keep Writing the main thing.
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🏡 My homes on the internet -
Substack
Spotify |Apple Podcast |Amazon Music
YouTube |YouTube Music |Substack (podcast)
A Rubina’s Bojra Production
Directed, produced, written, and hosted by Rubina Gauri Gomes
Music by "Happy Lazy Loop" by Serge Quadrado (At Adobe Stock)
Audio-visual edited and marketed by Rubina Gauri Gomes
Fueled by coffee ☕ and made with love for fellow writers and creatives 🤍
About Podcast -
Welcome to Becoming A Writer, where writing inspiration is served fresh in 20 minutes or less, every 4th Saturday.
One big lesson to learn as writers - it’s not just about publishing a book—it’s about becoming a writer who writes for life. There’s plenty of advice out there on how to write and publish, but not much about how to be a writer—how to love the process and grow into it. Once you figured that out, you will never stop writing.
This podcast is here to help you explore, experiment with, and express your writer self. Writing can be fun, fulfilling, and a lifelong joy—and your books deserve the writer you're meant to be.
About Me -
I’m Rubina Gauri Gomes, a multi-genre writer exploring mystery, suspense, and the creative life.
I encourage writers to pursue their passion through my podcast, Becoming A Writer.
I have authored Soul Writer vs. Social Writer, a guide to discovering and embracing both the introspective Soul Writer and the engaging Social Writer within you, helping you balance these aspects for a more fulfilling writing journey.
E46 - Excerpt from my book Soul Writer Vs Social Writer
📚 My non-fiction book for writers -Soul Writer vs. Social Writer - Find Out Which One Are You?, Why Is It Important, and Finding Your Sweet Spot.Amazon US - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CL6JBL7MAmazon UK - https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B0CL6JBL7MAmazon India - https://www.amazon.in/dp/B0CL6JBL7M
🎧Free Audiobook -YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EqAnnD4Gr00Substack - https://rubinagomes.substack.com/p/soul-writer-vs-soul-writer-full-free
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Send in your suggestions and questions here.
🏡 My homes on the internet -
Substack
Spotify |Apple Podcast |Amazon Music
YouTube |YouTube Music |Substack (podcast)
A Rubina’s Bojra Production
Directed, produced, written, and hosted by Rubina Gauri Gomes
Music by "Happy Lazy Loop" by Serge Quadrado (At Adobe Stock)
Audio-visual edited and marketed by Rubina Gauri Gomes
Fueled by coffee ☕ and made with love for fellow writers and creatives 🤍
About Podcast -
Welcome to Becoming A Writer, where writing inspiration is served fresh in 20 minutes or less, every 4th Saturday.
One big lesson to learn as writers - it’s not just about publishing a book—it’s about becoming a writer who writes for life. There’s plenty of advice out there on how to write and publish, but not much about how to be a writer—how to love the process and grow into it. Once you figured that out, you will never stop writing.
This podcast is here to help you explore, experiment with, and express your writer self. Writing can be fun, fulfilling, and a lifelong joy—and your books deserve the writer you're meant to be.
About Me -
I’m Rubina Gauri Gomes, a multi-genre writer exploring mystery, suspense, and the creative life.
I encourage writers to pursue their passion through my podcast, Becoming A Writer.
I have authored Soul Writer vs. Social Writer, a guide to discovering and embracing both the introspective Soul Writer and the engaging Social Writer within you, helping you balance these aspects for a more fulfilling writing journey.
E45 - 13 Books Every Pantser And Discovery Writer Should Read.
Resources Mentioned:
Book 1 - Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert
Book 2 - Steal Like an Artist by Austin Kleon
Book 3 - Show Your Work! by Austin Kleon
Book 4 - Keep Going by Austin Kleon
Book 5 - Becoming a Writer by Dorothea Brande
Book 6 - The War of Art by Steven Pressfield
Book 7 - Turning Pro by Steven Pressfield
Book 8 - The Writer's Process by Anne Janzer
Book 9 - The Artist's Way by Julia Cameron
Book 10 - Writing Down the Bones by Natalie Goldberg
Book 11 - Bird by Bird by Anne Lamott
Book 12 - You Are a Writer (So Start Acting Like One) by Jeff Goins
Book 13 - Writing Into The Dark By Dean Wesley Smith
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Send in your suggestions and questions here.
📚 My non-fiction book for writers -
Soul Writer vs. Social Writer - Find Out Which One Are You?, Why Is It Important, and Finding Your Sweet Spot.
Amazon US | Amazon UK | Amazon India
🏡 My homes on the internet -
Substack
Spotify |Apple Podcast |Amazon Music
YouTube |YouTube Music |Substack (podcast)
A Rubina’s Bojra Production
Directed, produced, written, and hosted by Rubina Gauri Gomes
Music by "Happy Lazy Loop" by Serge Quadrado (At Adobe Stock)
Audio-visual edited and marketed by Rubina Gauri Gomes
Fueled by coffee ☕ and made with love for fellow writers and creatives 🤍
About Podcast -
Welcome to Becoming A Writer, where writing inspiration is served fresh in 20 minutes or less, every 4th Saturday.
One big lesson to learn as writers - it’s not just about publishing a book—it’s about becoming a writer who writes for life. There’s plenty of advice out there on how to write and publish, but not much about how to be a writer—how to love the process and grow into it. Once you figured that out, you will never stop writing.
This podcast is here to help you explore, experiment with, and express your writer self. Writing can be fun, fulfilling, and a lifelong joy—and your books deserve the writer you're meant to be.
About Me -
I’m Rubina Gauri Gomes, a multi-genre writer exploring mystery, suspense, and the creative life.
I encourage writers to pursue their passion through my podcast, Becoming A Writer.
I have authored Soul Writer vs. Social Writer, a guide to discovering and embracing both the introspective Soul Writer and the engaging Social Writer within you, helping you balance these aspects for a more fulfilling writing journey.
E44 – What If Your Writing Isn't Unproductive — Just Misaligned?
Episode Summary:
In this episode, I reflect on a powerful insight I gained from the book How To Cultivate A Thriving Author Ecosystem by Russell Nohelty. The book outlines five different author archetypes—Desert, Grassland, Tundra, Forest, and Aquatic—and explains how each represents a distinct way writers naturally create, publish, and connect with their audience. I explore how understanding these ecosystems can help writers identify their natural tendencies and build a writing process that supports their strengths rather than fighting against them.
Through my own experience, I share the realization that I am a “Forest” writer who had been trying to operate like a “Desert.” This misalignment led to frustration, creative exhaustion, and difficulty keeping up with the fast-paced demands of modern online content creation. The episode encourages writers to step back from generic productivity advice and instead align their creative process with their true writing nature.
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Send in your suggestions and questions here.
📚 My non-fiction book for writers -
Soul Writer vs. Social Writer - Find Out Which One Are You?, Why Is It Important, and Finding Your Sweet Spot.
Amazon US | Amazon UK | Amazon India
🏡 My homes on the internet -
Substack
Spotify |Apple Podcast |Amazon Music
YouTube |YouTube Music |Substack (podcast)
A Rubina’s Bojra Production
Directed, produced, written, and hosted by Rubina Gauri Gomes
Music by "Happy Lazy Loop" by Serge Quadrado (At Adobe Stock)
Audio-visual edited and marketed by Rubina Gauri Gomes
Fueled by coffee ☕ and made with love for fellow writers and creatives 🤍
About Podcast -
Welcome to Becoming A Writer, where writing inspiration is served fresh in 20 minutes or less, every 4th Saturday.
One big lesson to learn as writers - it’s not just about publishing a book—it’s about becoming a writer who writes for life. There’s plenty of advice out there on how to write and publish, but not much about how to be a writer—how to love the process and grow into it. Once you figured that out, you will never stop writing.
This podcast is here to help you explore, experiment with, and express your writer self. Writing can be fun, fulfilling, and a lifelong joy—and your books deserve the writer you’re meant to be.
E43 - Are You Planning Your Writing As If Life Won’t Interfere?
Episode Summary:
In this deeply personal episode, I reflect on what happens when we plan our writing — and our lives — as if nothing will ever interfere. I entered 2025 with ambitious goals, only to watch every single one fall apart. Chronic health struggles, nervous system breakdown, unresolved trauma, and the long-term impact of living with PCOS forced me to confront a hard truth: I had been planning like a machine, not a human.
This episode questions hustle culture, productivity obsession, and the illusion of control. What if our plans worked with Life instead of against it?
Key Points Discussed:
Takeaways:
Ask yourself: Are you planning as a machine — or as a living, breathing human?
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Send in your suggestions and questions here.
📚 My non-fiction book for writers -
Soul Writer vs. Social Writer - Find Out Which One Are You?, Why Is It Important, and Finding Your Sweet Spot.
Amazon US | Amazon UK | Amazon India
🏡 My homes on the internet -
Substack
Spotify |Apple Podcast |Amazon Music
YouTube |YouTube Music |Substack (podcast)
A Rubina’s Bojra Production
Directed, produced, written, and hosted by Rubina Gauri Gomes
Music by "Happy Lazy Loop" by Serge Quadrado (At Adobe Stock)
Audio-visual edited and marketed by Rubina Gauri Gomes
Fueled by coffee ☕ and made with love for fellow writers and creatives 🤍
About Podcast -
Welcome to Becoming A Writer, where writing inspiration is served fresh in 20 minutes or less, every 4th Saturday.
One big lesson to learn as writers - it’s not just about publishing a book—it’s about becoming a writer who writes for life. There’s plenty of advice out there on how to write and publish, but not much about how to be a writer—how to love the process and grow into it. Once you figured that out, you will never stop writing.
This podcast is here to help you explore, experiment with, and express your writer self. Writing can be fun, fulfilling, and a lifelong joy—and your books deserve the writer you’re meant to be.
About Me -
I’m Rubina Gauri Gomes, a multi-genre writer exploring mystery, suspense, and the creative life.
I encourage writers to pursue their passion through my podcast, Becoming A Writer.
I have authored Soul Writer vs. Social Writer, a guide to discovering and embracing both the introspective Soul Writer and the engaging Social Writer within you, helping you balance these aspects for a more fulfilling writing journey.
E42 - Do You Regret Being A Writer?
Episode Summary:
In this reflective and deeply personal episode, Rubina revisits a decision she made in 2016—to step away from the expected path after college and pursue writing. As social media revives nostalgia for “simpler times,” she finds herself asking a question she recently voiced in therapy: Do I regret choosing to be a writer?
Her answer is clear: Absolutely not.
Although life didn’t unfold as she once imagined, writing became the one constant that helped her survive, heal, and slowly return to herself. This episode is an honest conversation for writers who feel behind, doubtful, or unsure if they made the right choice.
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Takeaways:
✨ This episode is for anyone wondering if choosing writing was a mistake—and discovering it may have been an act of survival instead.
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Send in your suggestions and questions here.
📚 My non-fiction book for writers -
Soul Writer vs. Social Writer - Find Out Which One Are You?, Why Is It Important, and Finding Your Sweet Spot.
Amazon US | Amazon UK | Amazon India
🏡 My homes on the internet -
Substack
Spotify |Apple Podcast |Amazon Music
YouTube |YouTube Music |Substack (podcast)
A Rubina’s Bojra Production
Directed, produced, written, and hosted by Rubina Gauri Gomes
Music by "Happy Lazy Loop" by Serge Quadrado (At Adobe Stock)
Audio-visual edited and marketed by Rubina Gauri Gomes
Fueled by coffee ☕ and made with love for fellow writers and creatives 🤍
About Podcast -
Welcome to Becoming A Writer, where writing inspiration is served fresh in 20 minutes or less, every 4th Saturday.
One big lesson to learn as writers - it’s not just about publishing a book—it’s about becoming a writer who writes for life. There’s plenty of advice out there on how to write and publish, but not much about how to be a writer—how to love the process and grow into it. Once you figured that out, you will never stop writing.
This podcast is here to help you explore, experiment with, and express your writer self. Writing can be fun, fulfilling, and a lifelong joy—and your books deserve the writer you’re meant to be.
About Me -
I’m Rubina Gauri Gomes, a multi-genre writer exploring mystery, suspense, and the creative life.
I encourage writers to pursue their passion through my podcast, Becoming A Writer.
I have authored Soul Writer vs. Social Writer, a guide to discovering and embracing both the introspective Soul Writer and the engaging Social Writer within you, helping you balance these aspects for a more fulfilling writing journey.
E41 - The Transformative Power of Journaling for Writers
Episode Summary :
In this episode, we explore how journaling can transform both your writing and your inner world. Beyond being a daily habit, journaling becomes a sacred practice that clears creative blocks, builds self-awareness, and strengthens your connection with your craft. Based on my experience, I share my favorite journaling methods, how to make journaling a lasting habit, and the short-term and long-term benefits you can experience.
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Send in your suggestions and questions here.
📚 My non-fiction book for writers -
Soul Writer vs. Social Writer - Find Out Which One Are You?, Why Is It Important, and Finding Your Sweet Spot.
Amazon US | Amazon UK | Amazon India
🏡 My homes on the internet -
Substack
Spotify |Apple Podcast |Amazon Music
YouTube |YouTube Music |Substack (podcast)
A Rubina’s Bojra Production
Directed, produced, written, and hosted by Rubina Gauri Gomes
Music by "Happy Lazy Loop" by Serge Quadrado (At Adobe Stock)
Audio-visual edited and marketed by Rubina Gauri Gomes
Fueled by coffee ☕ and made with love for fellow writers and creatives 🤍
About Podcast -
Welcome to Becoming A Writer, where writing inspiration is served fresh in 20 minutes or less, every 2nd and 4th Saturday.
One big lesson to learn as writers - it’s not just about publishing a book—it’s about becoming a writer who writes for life. There’s plenty of advice out there on how to write and publish, but not much about how to be a writer—how to love the process and grow into it. Once you figured that out, you will never stop writing.
This podcast is here to help you explore, experiment with, and express your writer self. Writing can be fun, fulfilling, and a lifelong joy—and your books deserve the writer you’re meant to be.
About Me -
I’m Rubina Gauri Gomes, a multi-genre writer exploring mystery, suspense, and the creative life.
I encourage writers to pursue their passion through my podcast, Becoming A Writer.
I have authoredSoul Writer vs. Social Writer, a guide to discovering and embracing both the introspective Soul Writer and the engaging Social Writer within you, helping you balance these aspects for a more fulfilling writing journey.
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