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  • 17. Your (Un)Certainty is Showing (And It's Causing Problems)

    Our perspectives are limited and finite; we can't know everything, we aren't working with all the information, and we desire certainty even though it is quite impossible. But why does this cause problems?

    When we are certain about our perspective, we act like our perceptions aren't perception; and when perception is reality, we can only argue and defend.

    What's a better solution to our lack of certainty?

    39 min
  • 16. Why You Don't Know Everything - [Perspective & Epistemology]

    What is a perspective and how does it work? This is a topic that deals with everyone and it's one of the biggest causes of conflict.

    You have a lens of the world that shapes your experience and understanding.

    We cover epistemology, the nature of perspective, and the phenomenology of egocentric perspectives. You know things with your mind (consciousness, logic, rationalism) and your experience (sense observation, empiricism). Both are finite and limited.

    You can't see and know everything, as a result.

    32 min
  • 15. Why We Disagree - [Methods of Moral Reasoning]

    We put a lot of focus on the content of our disagreements; we don't even seem to consider what causes us to have such different perspectives in the first place.

    This episode covers the methods we use to approach issues that act as our interpretive lens for our arguments:

    1. Rule Based
    2. Greatest Good
    3. Teleological

    Based on Lawerence Kohlberg's "Methods of Moral Reasoning" and the social ethics of Deontology, Consequentialism, Utilitarianism, and Teleology, we see what causes us to have such divergent thoughts and irreconcilable differences.

    51 min
  • 14. Why Our Disagreements (Might) Suck - [Six Argumentative Approaches]

    We have conflicts and disagreements, but do we know why we have them? Do we know why they often fail to be productive?

    This episode covers the categories that contain our disagreements through six argumentative approaches: Pseudo, Fact, Value, Ego, and Meta.

    If we are going to have better arguments, we need to know what kind of arguments we are having.

    47 min
  • 12. A Brief Guide to Conflict Resolution - Theory
    Conflict is gonna happen, so we might as well explore how to resolve it positively. On this episode, we look at why conflict arises in relationships of all kinds (Relational Dialectics Theory) and we explore the core components to a conflict mediation experience with the various strategies and styles we typically use.
    39 min
  • 11. The Invitation of Conflict (Part Two)
    Because conflict is inevitable and has no moral value in and of itself — our response to conflict is incredibly important. We discuss three potential responses and their effects for what kind of change they might bring in the hopes that we will be able to enter into our next conflict with a much richer understanding of what we are handling.
    Music by Jon Torrence & The Native Heart.Find more from Jon here.
    29 min
  • 10. The Invitation of Conflict (Part One)
    What is conflict? How does conflict work? And why does conflict often lead to change? We look at some social psychology and change theory to see that conflict is inevitable and a natural part of being alive. We also explore how conflict has no moral value in and of itself, but how you respond to conflict does.
    Music by Jon Torrence & The Native Heart.Find more from Jon here.
    28 min

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