Becoming Wiser

In my newest episode, I reflect on the essence of navigating life's challenges. We all encounter moments where we could choose to react impulsively or with frustration. Yet, what if instead, we opt for a different path—the high road? This episode is all about embracing resilience, understanding the deeper values that guide us, and the transformative power of approaching setbacks with grace and perspective. Dive in as we discuss the mindset that can elevate our personal and professional journeys.
Show Notes:

1. Dr. Rohm's commitment to sharing real-life business situations.
2. Importance of thinking and feeling correctly about circumstances.
3. Upcoming Speakers Boot Camp in Atlanta.
4. Insight into the daily activities during the boot camp.
5. The role of judges representing different personality styles.
6. Highlights of training elements: lighting, sound, presentation tips.
7. Mention of legendary public speakers like Zig Ziglar and Brian Tracy.
8. Contractual issues with the originally contracted hotel undergoing renovations.
9. Transfer to a sister hotel, and the unexpected room allocation challenge.
10. Coincidence of the World Series and the Atlanta Braves' potential participation.
11. The idea of remaining calm in face of adversity: "When something goes wrong, don't go with it."
12. Considering the new hotel option in Griffin, Georgia.
13. Traffic issues in Metro Atlanta.
14. The realization of potential benefits from the unexpected change.
15. Taking the high road in business challenges.

For more information about this episode, visit https://www.becomingwiserpodcast.com/051

Dr. Robert A. Rohm is a well-known speaker, author, and expert in the fields of communication, leadership, and personality assessment. He is the founder of Personality Insights, Inc., a company that provides resources and training programs to help individuals and organizations improve communication and build positive relationships. Dr. Rohm has authored several books, including "Positive Personality Profiles" and "Taking Flight!: Master the DISC Styles to Transform Your Career, Your Relationships, Your Life". He is also a sought-after speaker and has conducted training sessions and seminars for businesses, schools, and organizations across the world.

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In this episode, I explore the profound impact our past environment has on our present outlook, sharing a deeply personal story to illuminate this universal truth. My childhood experience, shaped by unique family dynamics and traditions, had a ripple effect into my adult relationships, particularly my marriage. Like many, I grew up in a shifting family setting, unknowingly adopting beliefs and behaviors that I carried into adulthood. It was only after counseling that I grasped how deeply rooted these influences were, causing me to reevaluate my own concept of family. Now, I share these insights to help you recognize the subconscious patterns you may also be carrying, so you can cultivate richer, more fulfilling relationships.
Show Notes:

1. Introduction to Dr. Robert Rohm and the episode's focus: how your past environment shapes your current outlook.
2. The changing dynamics of families and their influence on individuals.
3. Dr. Rohm's personal story: being an only child with a significant age gap between his parents.
4. Memories of family dinners and outings: contrasting experiences with his mother and father.
5. Realization of a pattern affecting his adult life, particularly in his marriage.
6. The role of 'Family Night' at the Elks Club during his childhood.
7. The crisis point in his marriage, influenced by past experiences around family dinners.
8. Seeking counseling and the insights gained.
9. The breakthrough moment: understanding the link between 'Family Night' and his outlook on family gatherings.
10. Dr. Rohm’s newfound perspective on what family means beyond shared meals.

For more information about this episode, visit https://www.becomingwiserpodcast.com/050

Dr. Robert A. Rohm is a well-known speaker, author, and expert in the fields of communication, leadership, and personality assessment. He is the founder of Personality Insights, Inc., a company that provides resources and training programs to help individuals and organizations improve communication and build positive relationships. Dr. Rohm has authored several books, including "Positive Personality Profiles" and "Taking Flight!: Master the DISC Styles to Transform Your Career, Your Relationships, Your Life". He is also a sought-after speaker and has conducted training sessions and seminars for businesses, schools, and organizations across the world.

This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit becomingwiser.substack.com

Sometimes we underestimate how much our past shapes our present. In this episode, I share a personal story that opened my eyes to how my past environment has influenced my current outlook on life. Trust me, this isn't just about me; it's something that happens to all of us. So, why not take a break from the hustle and bustle and give this episode a listen? It might just offer you a fresh perspective on why you think the way you do. And who knows? Understanding your past could be the key to unlocking a brighter future.

Show Notes:

• Topic: The impact of your past environment on your current outlook on life.
• Key Message: Your past isn't just history; it shapes how you see the world today.
• Personal Story: Dr. Rohm shares a powerful story from his own life to illustrate the point.
• Universal Relevance: Dr. Rohm believes this is a phenomenon that happens to everyone.
• Call to Action: Stop what you're doing and really listen; this could be a game-changer for you.

For more information about this episode, visit https://www.becomingwiserpodcast.com/049

Dr. Robert A. Rohm is a well-known speaker, author, and expert in the fields of communication, leadership, and personality assessment. He is the founder of Personality Insights, Inc., a company that provides resources and training programs to help individuals and organizations improve communication and build positive relationships. Dr. Rohm has authored several books, including "Positive Personality Profiles" and "Taking Flight!: Master the DISC Styles to Transform Your Career, Your Relationships, Your Life". He is also a sought-after speaker and has conducted training sessions and seminars for businesses, schools, and organizations across the world.

This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit becomingwiser.substack.com

In this episode, we tackle the most important topic you'll ever hear: how to have real security. We often place our sense of security in things that are fleeting, like money and relationships. But the truth is, these things won't last forever. We explore the limitations of financial security, the impermanence of relationships, and the uncertainty of health. The episode also shares a personal story about the biblical King David to illustrate the point.
Show Notes in Point Form

• Importance of real security in life
• Misconceptions about financial security
  • Formula for financial reserves (3-6 months of living expenses)
  
  
• Uncertainty of the future
  • "Yesterday's history, tomorrow's a mystery"
  
  
• Limitations of money
  • Can't buy peace of mind or a home
  
  
• Relationships are not eternal
  • Personal story of losing family members
  
  
• Real security is not tangible
  • Story of King David and Samuel
  
  
• The role of faith in security
  • Born again spiritually
  
  
• The only eternal security is in God
  • "I am [Your Name]. I am God's child. All my needs are met in Christ."
  
  
• The ultimate question: "Why should I let you into heaven?"
• Keeping the main thing the main thing

For more information about this episode, visit https://www.becomingwiserpodcast.com/048

Dr. Robert A. Rohm is a well-known speaker, author, and expert in the fields of communication, leadership, and personality assessment. He is the founder of Personality Insights, Inc., a company that provides resources and training programs to help individuals and organizations improve communication and build positive relationships. Dr. Rohm has authored several books, including "Positive Personality Profiles" and "Taking Flight!: Master the DISC Styles to Transform Your Career, Your Relationships, Your Life". He is also a sought-after speaker and has conducted training sessions and seminars for businesses, schools, and organizations across the world.

This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit becomingwiser.substack.com

In this episode, we explore the most powerful tool you have at your disposal: your words. Words have the power to shape your reality, influence your relationships, and even determine your success. Through real-world examples, stories, and biblical references, we unpack why words are so impactful and how you can harness their power for good.

You'll hear about the dandelion analogy, which serves as a poignant reminder that words, once spoken, can't be taken back. We'll also discuss the importance of being mindful of what you say, as words are irreversible once spoken. Whether you're quick to speak or tend to hold back, this episode offers valuable insights into how you can become more intentional with your words to create a life you love.
Show Notes:

• Dr. Robert Rohm discusses the most powerful thing you possess: your words.
• Words are not just about being a motivational speaker or orator; it's about knowing what to say.
• Importance of effective communication; reference to a previous podcast on the 6 hidden components of effective communication.
• Real-world examples and stories to illustrate the impact of words.
• The significance of words in relationships, both personal and professional.
• Words can set the tone for your life, influence your relationships, and even your success.
• The difference between reactive and thoughtful speech based on personality types.
• Biblical references to the power of words; Proverbs 18:21 and the Apostle Paul.
• The story of Dr. Rohm's daughter, Rachel, and the dandelion analogy.
• Mention of mentors and friends like Zig Ziglar and Ron Ball who exemplify positive speech.
• The importance of being mindful of what you say, as words are irreversible once spoken.
• Closing thoughts on the transformative power of words in your life.

For more information about this episode, visit https://www.becomingwiserpodcast.com/047

Dr. Robert A. Rohm is a well-known speaker, author, and expert in the fields of communication, leadership, and personality assessment. He is the founder of Personality Insights, Inc., a company that provides resources and training programs to help individuals and organizations improve communication and build positive relationships. Dr. Rohm has authored several books, including "Positive Personality Profiles" and "Taking Flight!: Master the DISC Styles to Transform Your Career, Your Relationships, Your Life". He is also a sought-after speaker and has conducted training sessions and seminars for businesses, schools, and organizations across the world.

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In this episode of Becoming Wiser, Dr. Robert Rohm explores the three kinds of people we encounter in life: the evil, the foolish, and the wise. He warns against the malicious intentions of evil people, highlights the lack of planning in foolish individuals, and praises the thoughtful planning and growth mindset of wise people. Dr. Rohm uses vivid analogies such as wolves, sheep, and shepherds to illustrate these categories and emphasizes the importance of being a thermostat that sets the tone, rather than a thermometer that merely reflects it. He encourages listeners to strive for personal growth, be mindful of their choices, and surround themselves with positive influences to become wiser and more fulfilled individuals.

Show Notes

• Three Kinds of People:
  • Evil People: Deliberate deceivers, stealers, liars, and hurters.
  • Foolish People: No plan or purpose, live by the seat of their pants.
  • Wise People: Think ahead, plan, understand consequences, and strive for personal growth.
  
  
• Evil Power, Environmental Influence, and Living by Faith.
• Analogies:
  • Wolves, Sheep, and Shepherds.
  • Negative, Neutral, and Positive Attitudes.
  • Creating Problems, Causing Confusion, and Causing Growth.
  
  
• Treatment of Others:
  • Using People, Being Flexible, and Being Full of Joy.
  
  
• Concept of Holy Dissatisfaction: Striving to do better.
• Thermostat vs. Thermometer: Setting the tone and environment.
• Conclusion: Encouragement to become wiser and make good choices.

For more information about this episode, visit https://www.becomingwiserpodcast.com/046

Dr. Robert A. Rohm is a well-known speaker, author, and expert in the fields of communication, leadership, and personality assessment. He is the founder of Personality Insights, Inc., a company that provides resources and training programs to help individuals and organizations improve communication and build positive relationships. Dr. Rohm has authored several books, including "Positive Personality Profiles" and "Taking Flight!: Master the DISC Styles to Transform Your Career, Your Relationships, Your Life". He is also a sought-after speaker and has conducted training sessions and seminars for businesses, schools, and organizations across the world.

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In the second part of our enlightening series, Dr. Robert Rohm continues to guide us on the transformative journey of becoming a wise sage. Drawing from his rich tapestry of personal experiences, he challenges us to redefine our understanding of success, fulfillment, and personal growth. From mastering the art of patience to harnessing the power of words, Dr. Rohm navigates through topics that are often overlooked yet deeply impactful. This episode is more than just a guide—it's a call to embark on a journey of self-discovery and personal evolution. Tune in to unlock the wisdom that lies within you.

Show Notes:

1. Dr. Rohm discusses the next five key components of becoming a wise sage, building on the five discussed in the previous episode.
2. The sixth component is understanding and practicing delayed gratification, with a particular emphasis on human sexuality.
3. The seventh component is recognizing that words have consequences and the importance of speaking correctly and positively.
4. The eighth component is managing your emotional state and maintaining emotional stability.
5. The ninth component involves recognizing that in any situation, you need to learn new vocabulary words, understand new systems, and deal with different personalities.
6. The tenth and final component is recognizing that in all of life, you are at one point or another in four aspects of every story: meeting new people, falling in love with new people, seeing new people get in trouble, and seeing new people get out of trouble.

Summary:
In this episode, Dr. Robert Rohm continues his exploration of the key components of becoming a wise sage. He delves into the importance of understanding delayed gratification, particularly in the context of human sexuality. He also emphasizes the power of words and the consequences they can have, urging listeners to speak correctly and positively. Dr. Rohm highlights the importance of managing one's emotional state and maintaining emotional stability. He also discusses the need to learn new vocabulary words, understand new systems, and deal with different personalities in any situation. Finally, he talks about recognizing the four aspects of every story that occur in life: meeting new people, falling in love with new people, seeing new people get in trouble, and seeing new people get out of trouble.
For more information about this episode, visit https://www.becomingwiserpodcast.com/045

Dr. Robert A. Rohm is a well-known speaker, author, and expert in the fields of communication, leadership, and personality assessment. He is the founder of Personality Insights, Inc., a company that provides resources and training programs to help individuals and organizations improve communication and build positive relationships. Dr. Rohm has authored several books, including "Positive Personality Profiles" and "Taking Flight!: Master the DISC Styles to Transform Your Career, Your Relationships, Your Life". He is also a sought-after speaker and has conducted training sessions and seminars for businesses, schools, and organizations across the world.

This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit becomingwiser.substack.com

In this captivating episode, Dr. Rohm explores the intriguing concept of becoming a "wise sage." He introduces principles that are straightforward to discuss, yet demand courage to implement. What are the 3 R's that can transform your life? How can you extract lessons from the situations you wish were over? And what does it mean to have predetermined dedication? Join Dr. Rohm on this enlightening journey and uncover how these principles can steer you towards wisdom and personal growth. This episode is set to challenge your perspectives and inspire you to evolve into the best version of yourself. Tune in now and set foot on your journey to becoming a wise sage.

Show Notes:

1. Dr. Rohm discusses the concept of becoming a "wise sage" and the importance of understanding and implementing vital principles in life.
2. He explains the meaning of the word "sage" and its relevance in the context of personal growth.
3. Dr. Rohm shares the first principle: understanding the 3 R's - face Reality, accept Responsibility, and do what's Right, as popularized by Dr. William Glasser.
4. The second principle is learning to understand the truth, which involves questioning conventional wisdom and seeking deeper knowledge.
5. The third principle is that you cannot talk your way out of a situation you behaved your way into, but you can behave your way out of it.
6. The fourth principle is to never say "I'll be glad when this is over," but instead say "I'll be glad when I learn what it is that what I'm going through is trying to teach me."
7. The fifth principle is having predetermined dedication, which means making decisions about your behavior and values ahead of time.
8. Dr. Rohm emphasizes the importance of losing oneself in learning and growing, rather than focusing solely on personal desires.
9. He concludes by encouraging listeners to practice these principles daily to become a wiser sage.

Summary:
In this enlightening episode, Dr. Rohm explores the concept of becoming a "wise sage" by understanding and implementing vital principles in life. He begins by explaining the meaning of the word "sage" and its relevance in personal growth. He then shares five key principles: understanding the 3 R's - face Reality, accept Responsibility, and do what's Right; learning to understand the truth; recognizing that you cannot talk your way out of a situation you behaved your way into, but you can behave your way out of it; never saying "I'll be glad when this is over," but instead learning from the situation; and having predetermined dedication. Dr. Rohm emphasizes the importance of losing oneself in learning and growing, rather than focusing solely on personal desires. He concludes by encouraging listeners to practice these principles daily to become a wiser sage.
For more information about this episode, visit https://www.becomingwiserpodcast.com/044

Dr. Robert A. Rohm is a well-known speaker, author, and expert in the fields of communication, leadership, and personality assessment. He is the founder of Personality Insights, Inc., a company that provides resources and training programs to help individuals and organizations improve communication and build positive relationships. Dr. Rohm has authored several books, including "Positive Personality Profiles" and "Taking Flight!: Master the DISC Styles to Transform Your Career, Your Relationships, Your Life". He is also a sought-after speaker and has conducted training sessions and seminars for businesses, schools, and organizations across the world.

This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit becomingwiser.substack.com

Summary:

In this episode, I'm going to explore the concept of resiliency, a trait I believe is crucial for success in life. I share some inspiring stories of folks who have demonstrated remarkable resilience, such as boxer Joe Fraser, who developed a powerful left hook after his father's tragic accident, and football player John David Crow, who faced a difficult decision but chose to persevere. In this episode I also emphasize that resilience is not about living life on the edge, but about going the extra mile when necessary. Develop resilience by pushing yourself a little bit more than you think you can, and I assure you that the resilience will become your hallmark and trademark for a successful life.
Show Notes:

1. Dr. Rohm discusses the concept of resiliency and its importance in life.
2. He shares the story of Joe Fraser, a boxer who developed a powerful left hook due to his father's accident, demonstrating resilience.
3. Dr. Rohm emphasizes the importance of pushing beyond what is acceptable, normal, and even reasonable.
4. He introduces the concept of stamina, persistence, and tenacity as components of resilience.
5. Dr. Rohm shares the story of Paul "Bear" Bryant, a coach who instilled resilience in his players.
6. He recounts the story of John David Crow, a player who faced a difficult decision but chose to persevere, demonstrating resilience.
7. Dr. Rohm emphasizes that resilience is not about living life on the edge, but about going the extra mile when necessary.
8. He shares his personal experiences of resilience during his graduate school years.
9. Dr. Rohm encourages listeners to develop resilience by pushing themselves a little bit more than they thought they could.
10. He concludes by stating that resilience can be a hallmark and trademark for a successful life.

For more information about this episode, visit https://www.becomingwiserpodcast.com/043.

Dr. Robert A. Rohm is a well-known speaker, author, and expert in the fields of communication, leadership, and personality assessment. He is the founder of Personality Insights, Inc., a company that provides resources and training programs to help individuals and organizations improve communication and build positive relationships. Dr. Rohm has authored several books, including "Positive Personality Profiles" and "Taking Flight!: Master the DISC Styles to Transform Your Career, Your Relationships, Your Life". He is also a sought-after speaker and has conducted training sessions and seminars for businesses, schools, and organizations across the world.

This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit becomingwiser.substack.com

In this insightful episode, Dr. Robert Rohm explores a commonly overlooked but incredibly impactful trait we all possess – the ability to be fully present. Through stories and examples from his own life and those of others, he demonstrates the profound impact this skill can have on personal growth, interactions, and success in various areas of life, including parenting, business, and relationships. Despite living in a world of constant distractions, he emphasizes the importance of being fully present, suggesting it's the secret ingredient that each individual carries to their success.

Dr. Rohm provides listeners with a fresh perspective on this often-underrated trait, underscoring the profound impact it can have on our relationships and overall success. Sharing personal stories, professional insights, and examples from different fields, he illustrates the significant changes we can achieve by paying full attention. The secret ingredient in our lives is us being fully present. By practicing this trait, we can significantly enhance our relationships, both personal and professional, and achieve greater success in all endeavors.

Show Notes:

• The podcast discusses the concept of being fully present and how it affects personal growth, development and interactions with others.
• Dr. Rohm introduces the idea, passed on from motivational speaker Lewis Timberlake, about a certain overlooked trait each person carries that can significantly affect their life.
• The trait referred to is the ability to be fully present in every aspect of one's life – in marriage, parenting, business, faith, and more.
• Dr. Rohm emphasizes the importance of being fully present in the current technological age where distractions are abundant.
• He shares personal experiences and examples about the difficulties and impact of being fully present.
• He shares about the realization of his daughter wanting him to listen not just with his ears, but with his eyes – signifying full attention.
• Dr. Rohm addresses the challenges in maintaining focus in our multitasking world.
• He shares insights from professionals like surgeons and pathologists on the critical need to be fully present in their roles.
• He concludes by encouraging listeners to observe others, realize the scarcity of presence and work on developing this skill to improve their relationships and success.
• He emphasizes that the listener is the secret ingredient in all areas of life and being present fully is a key to success.

Key Takeaways:

• Being fully present in every aspect of life is the secret ingredient we all possess.
• By giving undivided attention and eliminating distractions, we can experience profound personal and professional growth.
• The power of being fully engaged and present can have a significant impact on our success and the way we connect with others.

For more information about this episode, visit https://www.becomingwiserpodcast.com/042.

Dr. Robert A. Rohm is a well-known speaker, author, and expert in the fields of communication, leadership, and personality assessment. He is the founder of Personality Insights, Inc., a company that provides resources and training programs to help individuals and organizations improve communication and build positive relationships. Dr. Rohm has authored several books, including "Positive Personality Profiles" and "Taking Flight!: Master the DISC Styles to Transform Your Career, Your Relationships, Your Life". He is also a sought-after speaker and has conducted training sessions and seminars for businesses, schools, and organizations across the world.

This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit becomingwiser.substack.com