Becoming Wiser

In this episode, Dr. Robert Rohm, president of Personality Insights, introduces listeners to the DISC model of human behavior - a tool he believes is the best way to understand yourself and others. The model, simple and practical, provides a unique framework to understand different types of personality traits:

• Dominant (D): Outgoing and task-oriented
• Inspiring (I): Outgoing and people-oriented
• Supportive (S): Reserved and people-oriented
• Cautious (C): Reserved and task-oriented

Dr. Rohm provides ten reasons why he believes the DISC model is superior, citing its simplicity, transferability, and applicability among others. It's not designed to label or categorize, but to foster understanding and better relationships, be it personal or professional. This model has universal appeal and can be applied to various situations, from business interactions to family relationships.

Show Notes:

1. Introduction to Dr. Robert Rohm, president of Personality Insights and advocate of the disc model of human behavior.
2. Explanation of the disc model as a tool to understand yourself and others.
3. Steps to visualize and create the disc model:
   • Draw a circle, split it horizontally into two: the top half is 'Outgoing', the bottom half is 'Reserved'.
   • Draw a line vertically to create four quadrants: the left is 'Task-oriented' and the right is 'People-oriented'.
   • Assign the letters D (Dominant), I (Inspiring), S (Supportive), and C (Cautious) to the quadrants.
   
   
4. Explanation of the four quadrants:
   • D quadrant: Outgoing and task-oriented
   • I quadrant: Outgoing and people-oriented
   • S quadrant: Reserved and people-oriented
   • C quadrant: Reserved and task-oriented
   
   
5. The benefits of knowing your DISC type: Helps you to understand yourself and adapt to various situations.
6. The importance of the disc model for trainers to understand their students, and in building better relationships and teams.
7. Top 10 reasons why the disc model is the best model of human behavior:
   • It's a wellness model: It tells you what's right with you.
   • It's simple to understand and apply.
   • It's a transferable system: Can be easily shared and understood.
   • It's duplicatable: Anyone can learn and teach it.
   • It helps you understand yourself better.
   • It allows you to read other people and understand them better.
   • It's not designed to label or categorize, but to understand.
   • It's a universal model: Works in diverse cultures and languages.
   • It has unlimited layers: There's always more to learn.
   • It helps in problem-solving and decision-making by understanding human behavior.
   
   
8. Conclusion: The disc model helps you build better relationships, teams, and understanding of yourself and others.

For more information about this episode, visit https://www.becomingwiserpodcast.com/041.

Dr. Robert A. Rohm is a well-known speaker, author, and expert in the fields of communication, leadership, and personality assessment. He is the founder of Personality Insights, Inc., a company that provides resources and training programs to help individuals and organizations improve communication and build positive relationships. Dr. Rohm has authored several books, including "Positive Personality Profiles" and "Taking Flight!: Master the DISC Styles to Transform Your Career, Your Relationships, Your Life". He is also a sought-after speaker and has conducted training sessions and seminars for businesses, schools, and organizations across the world.

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In this thought-provoking episode, Dr. Rohm challenges the conventional understanding of a 'good education'. Drawing from his own experiences and highlighting his 26 years of educational journey, he outlines the lack of a comprehensive understanding of biblical figures in our education system. From Adam and Eve's story of making wrong choices to Noah's patience and determination, Abraham's faith, Moses' laws that influenced Western Civilization, and much more - Dr. Rohm emphasizes how the lessons from these narratives can enrich our perception of life. He concludes by encouraging listeners to embark on a 'real education' journey by studying the Holy Bible, urging them to seek wisdom from these stories and apply them to their own lives.

Show Notes:

1. Dr. Rohm questions the adequacy of conventional education by discussing his own journey.
2. He highlights how a detailed understanding of biblical figures can lead to a more enriched education.
3. Key figures discussed include Adam & Eve, Noah, Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, Joseph, Moses, Joshua, King David, Daniel, Shadrach, Meshach, Abednego, Jeremiah, Matthew, Mark, Luke, John, Jesus, Paul, Barnabas, Peter, James, and Mary & Martha.
4. Dr. Rohm also touches on the importance of understanding these characters' stories to improve decision making, leadership skills, and understanding of life.
5. In the end, he encourages everyone to start their 'real education' by reading the Holy Bible for an insight into these key figures and the truths they hold.

Here are 3 key takeaways from this thought-provoking episode:

1. Embrace the Different: Our speaker warns that the educational experience will be different and encourages listeners to bring their notepads. If you're driving, don't fret! You can always listen again later. 
2. Rediscover Key Figures: Have you learned about influential figures like Adam and Eve, Noah, Abraham, and Moses? Our speaker questions if these crucial elements of our history have been explored thoroughly. Prepare to delve into their significance and impact on Western Civilization. 
3. Appreciate Human Worth: The episode takes a philosophical twist, with the inclusion of quotes from various thinkers that highlight the value and significance of every human being. Prepare to look within and recognize your own worth. 

For more information about this episode, visit https://www.becomingwiserpodcast.com/040.

Dr. Robert A. Rohm is a well-known speaker, author, and expert in the fields of communication, leadership, and personality assessment. He is the founder of Personality Insights, Inc., a company that provides resources and training programs to help individuals and organizations improve communication and build positive relationships. Dr. Rohm has authored several books, including "Positive Personality Profiles" and "Taking Flight!: Master the DISC Styles to Transform Your Career, Your Relationships, Your Life". He is also a sought-after speaker and has conducted training sessions and seminars for businesses, schools, and organizations across the world.

This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit becomingwiser.substack.com

In this episode, I share the lessons learned from a career journey that's taken me through 15 different professions. From the classroom to the boardroom, each experience has taught me valuable lessons about life's journey. This episode is a guide to navigating life's sailboat ride, emphasizing the importance of enjoying the journey and always doing the next right thing. Tune in to discover how to make the most of each day and navigate your own path with wisdom and resilience.

Key Takeaways from Episode 039:

🔸 Embrace the Journey: Dr. Rohm's diverse professional background serves as a reminder to enjoy the journey of life, embracing the imperfections along the way.
🔸 One Day at a Time: Learn the importance of living in the present moment, focusing on doing the best in each day's experiences and simply doing the next right thing.
🔸 Wisdom through Experience: Drawing from their 15 different professions, Dr. Rohm's goal is to become a wise sage, sharing the wisdom gained through their various career paths.

Show Notes:

1. Introduction to Dr. Robert Rohm's diverse career journey.
2. The story of Dr. Rohm's daughter realizing the breadth of his career experiences.
3. Dr. Rohm's 15 different careers, from youth director to business coach and consultant.
4. The concept of life as a sailboat ride, not a jet boat ride.
5. Dr. Rohm's advice on living one day at a time and doing the next right thing.
6. The importance of having a good attitude, behavior, and conversation.
7. Dr. Rohm's aspiration to be a wise sage and share his life lessons.

For more information about this episode, visit https://www.becomingwiserpodcast.com/039.

Dr. Robert A. Rohm is a well-known speaker, author, and expert in the fields of communication, leadership, and personality assessment. He is the founder of Personality Insights, Inc., a company that provides resources and training programs to help individuals and organizations improve communication and build positive relationships. Dr. Rohm has authored several books, including "Positive Personality Profiles" and "Taking Flight!: Master the DISC Styles to Transform Your Career, Your Relationships, Your Life". He is also a sought-after speaker and has conducted training sessions and seminars for businesses, schools, and organizations across the world.

This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit becomingwiser.substack.com

In this deeply engaging episode, I'll help guide you through the labyrinth of life's three major decisions - vocation, partnership, and divine purpose. We all have a role to play in this grand theatre of life, but the task of deciphering this role might seem daunting. Yet, it's this decision that shapes your life's trajectory and contributes to your fulfilment. But what is a journey without a companion? Hence, we also navigate the second big decision of who to share your life with. This doesn't only involve finding the right person but also becoming the person worthy of a lasting relationship. Finally, I speak about living for a higher purpose, emphasizing the transformative power of faith and belief in God. Come, join me on this voyage of self-discovery and personal growth.

Show Notes

1. Understanding the three critical decisions in life: What am I going to live my life doing? Who am I going to live my life with? Who am I going to live my life for?
2. Highlighting the significance of education and vocation, and encouraging self-discovery through assessments like Get Real at Personality Insights.
3. Emphasizing the importance of choosing a vocation based on personality type and passion, rather than societal pressure or other external factors.
4. Discussing the importance of finding a mentor and seeking guidance from those older and wiser.
5. The complexities of love and marriage, and the need for patience and wisdom in choosing a life partner.
6. Exploring the importance of becoming the right person in a marriage, rather than simply looking for the right person.
7. Discussing the power of faith, belief in God, and the importance of living for a higher purpose.
8. Encouraging listeners to seek wisdom and guidance in all three decisions through prayer and faith.

For more information about this episode, visit https://www.becomingwiserpodcast.com/038.

Dr. Robert A. Rohm is a well-known speaker, author, and expert in the fields of communication, leadership, and personality assessment. He is the founder of Personality Insights, Inc., a company that provides resources and training programs to help individuals and organizations improve communication and build positive relationships. Dr. Rohm has authored several books, including "Positive Personality Profiles" and "Taking Flight!: Master the DISC Styles to Transform Your Career, Your Relationships, Your Life". He is also a sought-after speaker and has conducted training sessions and seminars for businesses, schools, and organizations across the world.

This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit becomingwiser.substack.com

In the latest episode of my podcast, we take an exciting journey into the world of nature to discover the life lessons it offers us. We examine the stories of three fascinating creatures - the bumblebee, the zebra, and the giraffe. These animals, each with its unique characteristics and behaviors, share wisdom that can enrich our lives and guide us towards achieving personal success.

From the bumblebee, we learn about defying odds and persisting in the face of adversity. The zebra teaches us about recognition and the importance of having mentors or role models in life. And finally, the giraffe embodies resilience, the ability to stand up quickly after a fall, and the concept of tough love. I believe these intriguing creatures can inspire us, not just with their survival skills, but with their inherent wisdom that we can apply to our lives.

Show Notes:

1. Introduction and setting up the episode's context.
2. Exploration of the Bumblebee's resilience and determination.
3. Analysis of the Bumblebee's experiment in outer space, its outcomes, and its implications.
4. Introduction to the Zebra and discussion about their unique stripe patterns.
5. Exploration of how zebras train their offspring to recognize them via the Reticular Activating System (RAS).
6. Discussion of mentors and the importance of having role models.
7. Introduction to the Giraffe and its unique birthing process.
8. Analysis of how the tough love approach of giraffe mothers teaches resilience.
9. Conclusion with key takeaways from all three creatures and how their life lessons apply to our lives.
10. A reminder for personal growth, hard work, and keeping a focus on the right things.

For more information about this episode, visit https://www.becomingwiserpodcast.com/037.

Dr. Robert A. Rohm is a well-known speaker, author, and expert in the fields of communication, leadership, and personality assessment. He is the founder of Personality Insights, Inc., a company that provides resources and training programs to help individuals and organizations improve communication and build positive relationships. Dr. Rohm has authored several books, including "Positive Personality Profiles" and "Taking Flight!: Master the DISC Styles to Transform Your Career, Your Relationships, Your Life". He is also a sought-after speaker and has conducted training sessions and seminars for businesses, schools, and organizations across the world.

This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit becomingwiser.substack.com

In this insightful episode, Dr. Robert Rohm, Ph.D., tackles the complex issue of miscommunication. Inspired by a quote attributed to Alan Greenspan, he emphasizes the six hidden components of every interaction and illustrates how these often lead to misunderstanding. Learn two techniques to minimize misunderstandings: by reiterating your own words to check clarity, and by asking the other person to relay their understanding. Both methods place the onus on the speaker, avoiding blame.

Show Notes:

1. Introduction to the challenge of miscommunication, quoting Alan Greenspan.
2. Explanation of the six hidden components in every communication.
3. Illustration of the concept with a chocolate cake/pudding example.
4. Examination of a tragic case of miscommunication - the Canary Islands plane crash in the 1970s.
5. Discussion on the crucial role of communication in marital and business environments.
6. Introduction to two methodologies to avoid miscommunication:
   • Confirming your own understanding: "Could I say back to you what I think I said so I can be sure I was clear?"
   • Checking the other person's understanding: "Would you mind sharing with me what you think I said so I can be sure I communicated clearly with you?"
   
   
7. Concluding thoughts on the importance of these techniques in improving communication.

For more information about this episode, visit https://www.becomingwiserpodcast.com/036.

Dr. Robert A. Rohm is a well-known speaker, author, and expert in the fields of communication, leadership, and personality assessment. He is the founder of Personality Insights, Inc., a company that provides resources and training programs to help individuals and organizations improve communication and build positive relationships. Dr. Rohm has authored several books, including "Positive Personality Profiles" and "Taking Flight!: Master the DISC Styles to Transform Your Career, Your Relationships, Your Life". He is also a sought-after speaker and has conducted training sessions and seminars for businesses, schools, and organizations across the world.

This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit becomingwiser.substack.com

In this podcast episode, Dr. Robert A. Rohm underscores the principle that happiness and leadership are not goals to be directly pursued, but are the byproducts of specific actions and attitudes. The key to happiness, as the speaker elaborates, isn't trying to make oneself or everyone else happy, but engaging in actions that inherently foster happiness. These actions can range from simple acts of kindness to fulfilling promises or undertaking work that one is passionate about. Moreover, the speaker emphasizes that true happiness often comes when we are not actively seeking it. On the other hand, leadership, much like happiness, emerges from the act of following the right people and demonstrating attributes of integrity, sincerity, and servant-heartedness, rather than directly striving for it.
The speaker highlights the profound influence of going the 'second mile', an approach that involves exceeding expectations, as an avenue towards finding happiness. The story of a Roman soldier and a boy beautifully exemplifies this principle. It is through this extra mile that relationships transform and happiness emerges. The speaker extends this logic to leadership, recommending that to be an effective leader, one should focus on following the footsteps of wise and successful people rather than focusing on leading per se. Hence, the crux of the speaker's message lies in emphasizing the indirect attainment of happiness and leadership, asserting that these qualities are best realized as byproducts of the right actions and attitudes.

Show Notes:

• Addressing the misconceptions surrounding the pursuit of happiness.
• Happiness arises from various actions and attitudes, not from direct pursuit.
• Emphasizing the act of 'going the second mile' - exceeding expectations.
• The story of a boy and a Roman soldier illustrating the 'second mile' principle.
• Happiness as a byproduct of acts of kindness, fulfilling promises, and passion-filled work.
• How the pursuit of leadership is similar to that of happiness - it's better as a byproduct than a goal.
• The importance of following the right people to become a successful leader.
• Leadership qualities: integrity, sincerity, and servant-heartedness.
• Referencing well-known leaders: Zig Ziglar, Charlie Jones, and Billy Florence.
• The influence of religious teachings on leadership, specifically referencing Jesus' teachings from the New Testament.
• How our associations and influences shape us as individuals and leaders.
• Recap of key points: Happiness and leadership arise from doing the next right thing, being kind and positive, serving others, and showing character and integrity.

For more information about this episode, visit https://www.becomingwiserpodcast.com/035.

Dr. Robert A. Rohm is a well-known speaker, author, and expert in the fields of communication, leadership, and personality assessment. He is the founder of Personality Insights, Inc., a company that provides resources and training programs to help individuals and organizations improve communication and build positive relationships. Dr. Rohm has authored several books, including "Positive Personality Profiles" and "Taking Flight!: Master the DISC Styles to Transform Your Career, Your Relationships, Your Life". He is also a sought-after speaker and has conducted training sessions and seminars for businesses, schools, and organizations across the world.

This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit becomingwiser.substack.com

Imagine if there was a tool that could profoundly enhance your relationships, propel your career, and even boost your personal happiness. This episode presents just that - the transformative power of effective and mindful communication. We unravel the ways in which your words, if carefully chosen, can work miracles. From minimizing conflict to fostering understanding, the words we speak are the pillars of our interpersonal interactions. We dive into real-life anecdotes, meaningful stories, and practical advice to help you master the art of communication.

Show Notes:

• Discussion on the critical role of effective communication in all areas of life
• An exploration of the wisdom found in the Book of Proverbs
• Understanding and applying Proverbs 15 to daily communication
• Personal anecdotes illustrating the consequences of harsh words and the benefits of "soft answers"
• Insights on how to avoid gossip and unnecessary conflict
• Emphasis on the importance of self-control and careful speech
• The significance of "voice tones" in conveying feelings to others
• Practical tips for improving communication skills, including the use of key phrases like "you may be right," and "already committed."
• A touching story of a long-married couple and their secret to a happy relationship: voice tones
• Encouragement to seek personal growth and a fulfilling life through mindful speech and thoughtful communication.

For more information about this episode, visit https://www.becomingwiserpodcast.com/034.

Dr. Robert A. Rohm is a well-known speaker, author, and expert in the fields of communication, leadership, and personality assessment. He is the founder of Personality Insights, Inc., a company that provides resources and training programs to help individuals and organizations improve communication and build positive relationships. Dr. Rohm has authored several books, including "Positive Personality Profiles" and "Taking Flight!: Master the DISC Styles to Transform Your Career, Your Relationships, Your Life". He is also a sought-after speaker and has conducted training sessions and seminars for businesses, schools, and organizations across the world.

This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit becomingwiser.substack.com

In this episode, Dr. Rohm takes us on a deep dive into the universal struggle with procrastination, weaving personal anecdotes with insights on how this habit affects our lives. Drawing from a painful experience with a missed deadline that cost him an important business opportunity, Dr. Rohm emphasizes the weight of delaying tasks and the resulting stress it can put on our lives. The key takeaway is that overcoming procrastination is not about following a particular method but about acknowledging the problem and consciously deciding to act upon tasks promptly. By doing so, we can avoid disappointment, reduce stress, and enhance productivity.

Show Notes:

• Introduction to the topic of procrastination and how it affects everyone.
• Personal anecdote about the host's struggle with a procrastinated task.
• Discussion on how procrastination is not about lack of time, but about prioritizing time incorrectly.
• Explanation of the distinction between what's important and what's urgent.
• Observation on how procrastination becomes a bigger problem the longer you wait, creating more stress.
• Discussion on how different personality types, specifically the 'S' and 'C' types, are more prone to procrastination.
• Emphasis on the importance of acknowledging that you procrastinate - if you can name it, you can tame it.
• Anecdote from 1971 - a missed speaking engagement due to not writing down the commitment.
• Suggestions for overcoming procrastination: setting reminders, writing tasks down, etc.
• Final takeaway: procrastination creates more stress, shortens your life, increases blood pressure, and disappoints others.
• Call to action to become a 'do it now' person and live a less stressful and more productive life.

For more information about this episode, visit https://www.becomingwiserpodcast.com/033,

Dr. Robert A. Rohm is a well-known speaker, author, and expert in the fields of communication, leadership, and personality assessment. He is the founder of Personality Insights, Inc., a company that provides resources and training programs to help individuals and organizations improve communication and build positive relationships. Dr. Rohm has authored several books, including "Positive Personality Profiles" and "Taking Flight!: Master the DISC Styles to Transform Your Career, Your Relationships, Your Life". He is also a sought-after speaker and has conducted training sessions and seminars for businesses, schools, and organizations across the world.

This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit becomingwiser.substack.com

In this captivating podcast episode, we explore five powerful life lessons that we can learn from the majestic eagle. Drawing from the eagle's unique traits and behaviors, such as their ability to soar high, remarkable eyesight, tendency to fly solo, and practice of delayed gratification, we uncover how we can apply these lessons to our own lives. Listen in as we dive into the world of eagles and discuss how adopting their qualities can help us rise above life's challenges, seize opportunities, and achieve personal growth and success. Embrace your inner eagle and transform your life today!
Show Notes:

1. Introduction to eagle mythology and facts
2. Five key traits of eagles
3. High flight and the importance of setting lofty goals
4. Exceptional eyesight and the need for focus and vision
5. Solitary nature and the benefits of solitude
6. Selective eating habits and the power of choice
7. Patience and the value of delayed gratification
8. Personal anecdotes and stories related to each trait
9. The importance of personal growth and continuous improvement
10. The significance of eagles in the speaker's life
11. Conclusion and call to action

For more information about this episode, visit https://www.becomingwiserpodcast.com/032,

Dr. Robert A. Rohm is a well-known speaker, author, and expert in the fields of communication, leadership, and personality assessment. He is the founder of Personality Insights, Inc., a company that provides resources and training programs to help individuals and organizations improve communication and build positive relationships. Dr. Rohm has authored several books, including "Positive Personality Profiles" and "Taking Flight!: Master the DISC Styles to Transform Your Career, Your Relationships, Your Life". He is also a sought-after speaker and has conducted training sessions and seminars for businesses, schools, and organizations across the world.

This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit becomingwiser.substack.com