Becoming YOU Podcast

Being 20-Something & Wanting Independence (Skills, Money & Trusting Hashem)

What does it really mean to want independence in your 20s?

In this episode, I share my honest journey—navigating money, building skills, and learning to trust Hashem while figuring things out one step at a time.

This isn’t a “how to make 6 figures” guide.
It’s a real, grounded conversation about doing your part and letting go of control—choosing faith (emunah) and trust (bitachon) over fear.

I talk about:

• Letting go of control and trusting Hashem with your path
• My current journey toward financial independence
• Simple reflections you can journal through

3 gentle reminders from this episode:

• Start with gratitude—thank Hashem for what He has done and trust Him for what’s coming
• Take one step at a time (you don’t need the whole plan figured out)
• Don’t give up on your dreams, even when results feel slow

💭 Reflection for you:
How are you currently working toward your independence? What’s helping you stay grounded and keep going?

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This episode is a special one 🤍

A member of my community asked me to speak on this, and I was honestly so excited to sit with it and share everything I’ve learned and experienced.

If you’re a freshman or about to start college, this is for you.

In this episode, I walk you through simple, real-life ways to navigate this new season without feeling overwhelmed, lost, or alone.

Here are some of the things I shared:

• Go outside (yes, it matters more than you think)
• Be genuinely interested in others before talking about yourself
• Ask questions, stay curious, be open
• Be approachable — a simple smile goes a long way
• Learn communication skills: be assertive, say no, set boundaries
• Create a balance between your “time out” and “time in.”
• Respect yourself and others

And most importantly…
People will act how they want to act — let them.

Anchor yourself in faith, and trust in Hashem (G-d), and don’t forget to pray through every moment, especially when things feel overwhelming (and when they don't).

💬 Quick question for you:

If you’re no longer a freshman…
What is ONE piece of advice you would give to someone just starting college?

Drop it on any of my socials, and I might share it (with your name, (if you want)🤍)

✨ Free resources + connect with me:
Get my free e-book on self-love, check out my books, or reach out to me here:
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In this spoken word piece, I share different ways I have seen many people chase their dreams, while urging and encouraging you to do the same.

For the dreamers, the quiet believers, and the ones still finding their way. Lovely, don't give up. You've got this. Keep going.

If you’d like to connect, share your thoughts, or listen to my other spoken word performances on IG or TikTok, you’ll find me here:
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Music track: Where We Belong by Aylex

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If you’ve ever looked at someone else’s life and felt like you were falling behind…
like you weren’t doing enough… or worse, not enough — this episode is for you.

Maybe you grew up being compared.
Maybe it became a quiet habit…
something that shows up without warning and makes you question your worth.

In this episode, I share a part of my story poetically,
and the truth I’m learning about comparison, identity, and becoming.

Because the goal isn’t to be better than someone else.
It’s to become who you were created to be by HaShem (G-d).

If this speaks to you, send it to someone who needs to hear it too 🤍

✨ You can also get my free e-book How To Start Loving Yourself through this link: https://linktr.ee/signaturesmile23

Download it, read it, and let me know what you think.

See you in the next episode.

Introducing my Spoken Word Poetry series.

This is the beginning of a lot. I hope this and many more to come (G-d willing) speak to you, heal your heart, and comfort you on your journey to becoming you.

If you’d like to connect, share your thoughts, or listen to my other spoken word performances on IG or TikTok, you’ll find me here:
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Music track: Journey of Life by Aetheric

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Birthdays can feel beautiful, but they can also feel heavy. Especially when you are waiting for certain people to remember, to show up, or to make you feel special.

In this episode, I talk about learning how to celebrate your birthday without waiting for validation from others. I share my thoughts on expectations, disappointment, and how we can slowly learn to honor our own lives and our own growth.

Your birthday does not have to be perfect. It just needs to be yours.

If you have ever felt sad, forgotten, or emotional on your birthday, this episode is for you.

P.S. Here's the link to the article I read from Dr. Izzy Sealey (Abi Abdaal's wife): https://letters.izzysealey.com/p/on-crying-on-birthdays?

If you’d like to connect or continue the conversation, you’ll find me through this link:⁠ https://linktr.ee/signaturesmile23

In this episode, I open up about one of the most confusing seasons of my life, when my heart leaned toward Psychology, but external voices pushed me toward Nursing.

I share the real emotional struggle, the tension between inner calling and outside messages, and the question that kept coming back to me: “What is Hashem trying to tell me here?”

This episode is a reminder that detours are not failures.

Sometimes, they are part of the journey that shapes us into who we are meant to become.

If you’d like to connect or continue the conversation, you’ll find me through this link:
https://linktr.ee/signaturesmile23

In this episode, I share an honest and gentle conversation about finding your purpose when everything feels unclear and overwhelming.

We explore the truth that purpose is not always one big moment, but often a series of small nudges, lessons, and experiences that slowly shape who we are becoming.

I also share insights from past teachings and a powerful message from a respected voice in my Jewish community that deeply influenced my journey of discovering purpose.

From identifying your skills and innate talents to writing down your desires and taking small, intentional steps, this episode is a simple guide to help you reconnect with your direction—without pressure or fear.

If you’ve ever felt lost, unsure, or confused about your path, this episode is for you 🤍

If you’d like to connect or continue the conversation, you’ll find me through this link:
https://linktr.ee/signaturesmile23

This episode is a very honest, non-polished conversation about my journey with the 5 AM Club.

I share why I started, what pushed me into it, what worked, what didn’t, and why perfection almost ruined the habit for me.

We talk about discipline vs motivation, flexibility, and why consistency doesn’t have to come with shame.

If you’re trying to build a habit — whether waking up earlier or eliminating a bad habit — this episode is a reminder that growth doesn’t have to be rigid to be real.

Take it one step at a time with Strength from HaShem. Adjust as you go. Keep showing up.

If you’d like to connect or continue the conversation, you’ll find me through this link: https://linktr.ee/signaturesmile23 🤍

This episode marks a new beginning for Becoming You Podcast (a rebrand from my old one).
I’m sharing how my friends and I turn goal-setting into a meaningful ritual, one rooted in intention, accountability, and genuine connection.

In this episode, I walk you through nine key life areas every group of friends should touch when setting goals together, so nothing important gets left out.

We talk about friendship, motivation, staying accountable, and how growing together makes the journey feel lighter and more fulfilling.

If you’ve ever wanted to grow without doing life alone, this episode is for you.
And if you’d like support reviewing your goals, you’re welcome to reach out — the link is here: https://linktr.ee/signaturesmile23