Relationship / Marriage will be easily successful when the man/woman prioritises their needs rather than their wants in the relationship.

On this series we'll be looking at those needs as it relates to both genders in a relationship.

The fact that they are not clearly spelt out doesn't mean that they aren't there, bounderies are an important part of every relationship and marriage because without bounderies there'll be lack of order and proper behaviour in Relationships and marriages.

Relationships is beautiful when both partners have mutual respect for eachother and also especially when both partners respect the boundaries  in the relationship.

Bounderies in anything are not there  to fully restrict but merely there to serve as a bit of control to the level of acess  one enjoys in a thing and in this aspect, in the relationship.

Everything in life must have a limit/bounderies to it in order to avoid abuse, just like drugs, if you don't have a limit to how you take them, it may harm your organs and in this case your relationship is no different as well.

Forgiveness also shows maturity whenever a person is willing to Forgive an offender despite being severely hurt by them.

Forgiving someone who has hurt you is never easy but choosing to forgive instead of punishing your offender shows true strength even in the face of deep hurt  from your partner/spouse.

Being the first to forgive  everytime isn't  a sign weakness rather it is a sign of commitment, commitment to the wellbeing of the relationship no matter how much hurt you partner has put you through.

Forgiveness is not a request but a command from God, when you begin to view Forgiveness ftom God's lens then you can never go wrong because there's no love without Forgiveness.

Sexual Abuse isn't  something to take lightly and as such those  who have been through it should be given the proper care to be able to heal properly and completely.