Behind the BJ podcast

You've started dating someone and you think they're great! But do they pass the friend test? What about when it gets a little more serious and you think you want them to meet your family? These are big steps in a relationship and in this episode, Brandye and Jason tackle this subject. When is the right time to make the introductions? What settings should you avoid? What topics should you avoid? Preparation is the name of the game here!

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The world is in lock down / self quarantine. Your dating apps may be blowing up, and your exes may be sliding into your DMs, but it doesn't mean much if you can't see them, right? Those of you who are single are bound to end up in a bit of a dry spell during this pandemic! In this episode, Brandye and Jason interview a guest who is no stranger to dry spells - she's been on one for quite some time now.

We'll get into why it's been so long, how to cope with a dry spell (masturbation anyone?), our thoughts on using sex to get over a break up, sharing your number and a variety of other subjects with our wonderful guest, Diana.

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We are in unprecedented times! The zombie apocalypse, err… Coronavirus may be upon us! Store shelves are empty as people are hoarding… toilet paper? And while some may want to practice social distancing, what does all of this mean for our dating lives and sex?

In this week's episode, Brandye and Jason think about how to use this social distancing thing to our advantage, because… who want's to stay celibate in quarantine?

Brandye also tells us about some Miami shenanigans and how she's now a lesbian. Plus, we'll give our own recap of the Bachelor finale.

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Let's stay friends, okay? Is that ever a good idea? Brandye and Jason do a deep dive into whether or not it is possible to be friends with your ex, when it is, and when it definitely isn't, and they also go over some basic tips for how to make a friendship work with someone who you used to see naked on the regular! Spoiler alert… take a lot of time to recover first!

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What's the best way to get over someone? Get under someone who looks exactly like them! Brandye and Jason interview Chris and A, creators of the I'd App That Podcast (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id-app-that-podcast/id1460434471 ), and learn all about how they came to meet and develop their hit show. A tells us about how easy it is to get kicked off of Tinder and Chris shares a no-holes barred one night stand experience that leaves everyone in tears laughing. Plus… we talk doppelbängers!

We are so excited to have our first guests on the podcast. We kept this one long, but we promise it's worth every minute! We delve into a ton of topics around dating - both funny and serious, and we finish the episode by reviewing one of our loyal listener's dating app profiles (Find the screen shots on our Instagram page @behindthebjpodcast).

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In our fifth episode, we analyze taking that major step in a relationship of moving in together! Why do couples decide to take this next step, and when is the right time to start to consider it? We discuss tips on how to successfully manage the transition of combining all of your things and, most importantly, your living space, to make sure that taking this next step… isn't your last step!

As always, we'll start by catching up with each other on our (Valentine's Day?) weekend happenings, and other big news in one of our lives!

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In our fourth episode, we get all into that potentially nerve wracking topic of the D.T.R., or Defining The Relationship! What exactly does it mean, when is a good time to do it, how to do it, and some of the reasons why it's so hard to do! We, of course share some of our personal stories of being on both sides of the "Defining Wall". We'll also hear about Brandye's crazy Super Bowl weekend, and someone from Jason's past is trying to make a comeback… but will he let her?

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In our third episode, we follow up from last week's topic, and we discuss the topic of Googling someone before a date. Is it appropriate or not? Do you talk about it or not? And of course… what are some of the more "interesting" ways of finding out who a person is before they tell you! Whether it is for your safety on the date, or just to make sure their pictures match them IRL, we dig deep on the topic of digging deep!

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In our second episode we dive head first into the world of the dating apps! We explore some of the most popular apps, what their unique features are, and what our feelings are on each. Then we get into our thoughts and advice on putting together the best profile possible, and taking it from online to offline. And of course we'll add our signature flair of some great personal stories from our own experiences with swiping right when we should have swiped left!

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Dating these days can be a mess, and it tends to come with its fair share of crazy stories! Behind the BJ Podcast is here to unpack all of those tales. In their premier episode, Brandye and Jason introduce themselves, discuss how they met, and that one time that Jason thought he was getting laid, just to have Brandye shut him down! We find out who Brandye and Jason may or may not be dating these days, and talk about navigating the ups and downs of dating in Chicago.

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