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In this week’s episode of Behind the Paddle, Porcelain Victoria and Emily Sin dive deep into the art of preparation—body and mind—for pegging. From exploring the role of poppers in relaxation to unpacking the historical stigma surrounding buggery, they address the hang-ups that can accompany this intimate act. They also tackle important health concerns like hemorrhoids and anal fissures, offering advice on how to handle them safely. Wrapping up, the duo shares insights on how to navigate honest communication and negotiation before taking the plunge. A candid and informative conversation you don’t want to miss!

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In this week’s episode of Behind the Paddle, Porcelain Victoria and Emily Sin dive deep into the art of preparation body and mind for pegging. From exploring the role of poppers in relaxation to unpacking the historical stigma surrounding buggery, they address the hang-ups that can accompany this intimate act. They also tackle important health concerns like hemorrhoids and anal fissures, offering advice on how to handle them safely. Wrapping up, the duo shares insights on how to navigate honest communication and negotiation before taking the plunge. A candid and informative conversation you don’t want to miss!

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7th November 2pm UK time

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In this two-part episode of Behind the Paddle, host Porcelain Victoria delves into the ever-evolving intersection of technology, kink, sex, and sex work. From virtual fantasies to high-tech hardware, she unpacks how innovation is reshaping our most intimate experiences.

The journey begins in digital spaces exploring the rise of hentai VTubers, AI Dommes, and the seductive companionship of chatbots like Replika. She also ventures into Second Life’s infamous Slave Island, where virtual power exchange carries real emotional weight.

Then, attention turns to the tactile: Lovense toys, remote-controlled chastity devices, camming enhancements, and even gaming-integrated butt plugs. Along the way, Victoria confronts the ethics and implications of emerging trends like sex doll brothels, questioning what connection, consent, and pleasure look like in a tech-driven world.

This isn’t the future of sex it’s the now.

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7th November 2pm UK time

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In this two-part episode of Behind the Paddle, host Porcelain Victoria delves into the ever-evolving intersection of technology, kink, sex, and sex work. From virtual fantasies to high-tech hardware, she unpacks how innovation is reshaping our most intimate experiences.

The journey begins in digital spaces exploring the rise of hentai VTubers, AI Dommes, and the seductive companionship of chatbots like Replika. She also ventures into Second Life’s infamous Slave Island, where virtual power exchange carries real emotional weight.

Then, attention turns to the tactile: Lovense toys, remote-controlled chastity devices, camming enhancements, and even gaming-integrated butt plugs. Along the way, Victoria confronts the ethics and implications of emerging trends like sex doll brothels, questioning what connection, consent, and pleasure look like in a tech-driven world.

This isn’t the future of sex it’s the now.

Confidance & Guidance workshop 

7th November 2pm UK time

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In this episode of *Behind the Paddle*, host Porcelain Victoria shares her recent experience at the highly anticipated Femdom Ball, an exclusive event organized by Madame Caramel. This three-part gathering included a meet and greet with fellow mistresses, an elegant high tea, and, of course, the main event—the Femdom Ball. Porcelain Victoria gives us a glimpse into the luxurious, empowering, and unforgettable atmosphere of the evening. 

Host Victoria then asks Emily about attending Gynarchy Gathering, a new Femdom event curated by Mistress Tess in Sandy, Bedfordshire. Listen in as they explore the unique dynamics, highlights, and their personal experiences from these remarkable events in the Femdom community.

This isn’t sponsored we just absolutely loved these events! 

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In this episode we will be continuing the story of Gentleman Jack, where we uncover the captivating life of Anne Lister and her trailblazing romance with Ann Walker, celebrated as the first recorded lesbian marriage in the UK. Through Anne's detailed diaries, we follow the couple’s passionate journey, from their secret marriage vows to their daring travels across Europe, all the way to Anne’s untimely death. This episode offers an intimate glimpse into their shared life, the challenges they faced, and the adventurous spirit that made Anne a revolutionary figure in LGBTQ+ history.

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In this episode, we dive into the world of Halloween costumes, slut-shaming, and the evolution of gender norms around dressing up. We'll unpack the origins of the “sexy costume” as a queer culture celebration, explore Halloween’s roots and the influence of gender stereotypes, and examine the fortune-telling rituals of 1800s Scotland and Ireland when busy women sought glimpses of their future husbands. Join us as we challenge assumptions, celebrate self-expression, and uncover the fascinating history that shapes our modern Halloween traditions.

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In this episode we explore the extraordinary life of Anne Lister better known as Gentleman Jack, a daring lesbian diarist from the early 1800s, who documented her romantic, carnal adventures and pioneering spirit across Europe. Known for her sharp wit, rebellious nature, and a unique secret code she developed at private school, Lister's diaries reveal the boldness of a woman who defied society’s norms. Autistic-coded, gothic, and unapologetically tomboyish, Anne balanced her love for high society with scaling mountain ranges in her signature black petticoats and men's boots all while recording over 1 million words in her many diaries which she systematically filled throughout her life. Join us as we uncover the hidden life and love stories of this trailblazing figure in LGBTQIA+ history!

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In this episode, Emily Sin continues to interview Porcelain Victoria, a professional dominatrix and sex worker, to explore the dynamics of client etiquette in the world of BDSM and sex work. Victoria shares candid insights into her experiences, discussing the fine line between a respectful client and one that crosses boundaries. With real-life stories from her work, she delves into what makes an ideal client—respectful, communicative, and mindful of consent—versus the challenges posed by her most difficult encounters. Tune in for an open, eye-opening conversation on etiquette, boundaries, and the realities of her profession.

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In this episode, Porcelain Victoria professional dominatrix and seasoned sex worker pulls back the curtain on the unspoken rules of client behavior in the world of BDSM. Through candid conversation and first-hand stories, she breaks down what separates the respectful, well-prepared submissive from those who cross boundaries or waste time.

From the art of approaching a Domme to the critical role of communication, consent, and tribute, Porcelain explores what it truly means to serve with intention and what happens when clients get it wrong.

Whether you’re curious, experienced, or just want to hear a dominatrix lay down the law, this is an eye-opening guide to etiquette, power, and professionalism in kink.

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