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 In this episode, we take a deep dive into the world of unusual kinks and paraphilias, from age play to puppy play and beyond. Porcelain Victoria, shares intriguing stories from her experiences in the sex work and kink community, shedding light on how these practices emerge in her work. Plus, we invite you to play along as we try to guess different kinks based on their scientific names. Join us for a fun, insightful, and open-minded exploration of diverse sexual expressions! 

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In this compelling episode of Behind the Paddle, Porcelain Victoria, tells all about the unique challenges of dating while working as an escort and dominatrix. Together, we dive deep into the personal and emotional complexities of balancing a career in the sex industry with romantic relationships.

We explore critical questions such as: When and how do you disclose your profession to someone you’re dating? What are the biggest challenges in maintaining boundaries between work and personal life? How do societal stigmas affect your relationships, and what strategies help manage the emotional demands of both worlds?

Misstress Victoria shares memorable stories, addresses common misconceptions, and offers advice to others in similar situations. Whether you’re curious about the intersection of love and sex work, or simply looking to understand a different perspective, this episode provides eye-opening insights into the realities of dating in the world of escorting.

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What does the Japanese Penis Festival (Kanamara Matsuri), Disney's Moana, and the cult horror film "Teeth" have in common? They all reflect aspects of ancient cautionary tales about sexuality, power, and fear. In this episode, we explore the ancient and fascinating concept of vagina dentata—the myth of a toothed vagina found in folklore around the world. We dive into folk stories from different cultures, examining how they use vagina dentata to warn, control, or empower. Through these modern and historical lenses, we explore how these myths are retold and reimagined today.

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In this episode, we dive into the current consultation in Scotland, where a pivotal decision is being made about the future of sex work in the country. The Scottish government is considering whether to introduce the Nordic Model, a controversial approach that criminalizes the purchase of sex but not the selling. We explore what this could mean for sex workers' rights, public safety, and the broader implications for society.

We feel that true justice lies in the full decriminalization of sex work—where the focus shifts to protecting the rights and dignity of workers, rather than criminalizing their livelihood. We discuss why the Nordic Model may not be the solution Scotland needs and examine alternative approaches that prioritize harm reduction, human rights, and empowerment.

Tune in as we unpack the complexities of this critical issue and advocate for a future where sex workers are supported, not punished.

Decrim Now's Open Letter opposing the Nordic Model

English Collection of Prostitutes "No Nordic Model – Criminalising Clients Undermines Sex Workers’ Safety"

Check out "Unbuyable" the proposed Nordic Model implementation in Scotland Consultation and add your views before the 30th of September 2024!

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 In this week's episode join us for a captivating interview with Miss May, a professional dominatrix based in London, as she delves into the intriguing world of BDSM and the nuanced differences between working in the scene in the UK and Germany. Broadcasting from her fully equipped dungeon in E1, known as E1 DARKROOM, Miss May shares her insights into the art of domination and submission, the thrill of control, and how cultural attitudes shape the kink experience across borders. Tune in to explore the seductive and extreme side of life with Miss May, where shame is shed, and desires are fully embraced. 

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On this week's episode, we sit down with the insightful and irreverent Kaytlin Bailey, founder of Old Pros Online and host of The Oldest Profession Podcast. Kaytlin takes us on a wild ride through her latest show, "Whore's Eye View," a captivating and fast-paced exploration of 10,000 years of sex work history. Along the way, she shares deeply personal stories from her own life, blending historical insights with humor and raw honesty. Join us as we dive into what goes on behind the scenes of, telling untold stories of sex workers throughout the ages and get a fresh perspective on the oldest profession in the world.

Whore's eye view is on throughout the Edinburgh Fringe! Grab your tickets here.

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On this week's episode we discuss our recent trip to Fetfest, swingathon and onlyfest as well as the feedback and comments we received from other attendees through our questionnaire! We dive into the highs and lows of each festival, offering perspectives from attending the festival as both a customer and a trader. Join us as we share the roller coaster experience of our journey.

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On this week's episode we will be joined by Moth; Founder of Moth to Flame events and Co-creator of the Uncensored Market in Glasgow! We will be discussing their new monthly drag show; Pai-slay. Showing the best of Scotland's drag performers with new guests each month! Grab your tickets for the next one at https://www.skiddle.com/whats-on/Paisley/The-Bungalow-Bar/Pai-Slay/39261533/

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This week, we continue the previous week's discussion! 

We will discuss our personal experiences of these groups within the bdsm scene as well as some of the research done on this topic. How many boxes do you tick? 😉

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Have you ever wondered why so many neurodivergent individuals find solace and community within the kink world? On today's episode of Behind the Paddle, we unravel the fascinating connection between neurodiversity and the BDSM community. We start by sharing our personal experiences at some of Scotland's most intriguing kink events, including Club T at the Polo Lounge in Glasgow, and discuss our anticipation for upcoming gatherings like Bitches Unleashed in Manchester and FetFest in Gloucester. We also address the pressing need for more inclusive, non-alcoholic kink-friendly venues and the hurdles of maintaining a private dungeon space.

We then delve into intriguing research findings that reveal a higher prevalence of autism among BDSM practitioners compared to the general population. This episode sheds light on how the pandemic facilitated self-discovery and unmasking for many neurodivergent individuals, particularly in the realm of kink. We explore why the structure, clear communication, and sensory experiences in BDSM appeal to individuals on the autism spectrum, and discuss the broader implications of these studies, including cultural and generational shifts within the kink community.

Finally, we explore the cultural intersections between geek, neurodivergent, and kink communities, emphasizing how online spaces have fostered these connections. Whether it’s navigating the complexities of dominant and submissive dynamics or understanding the unique needs of switches, this episode is a deep dive into the inclusive, welcoming nature of the kink world for neurodivergent individuals. Join us for a meaningful conversation on how kink spaces provide a sanctuary for self-expression and community, and our hopes for a future filled with diverse and accessible events.

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