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Welcome to Behindthepaddle podcast with me, Porcelain Victoria.
In this deeply personal and richly detailed episode, we unravel the sacred, often overlooked practice of aftercare in BDSM. Beyond cuddles and comfort, aftercare is a neurological, emotional, and ethical process—an act of reverence for the intensity we co-create.

From the altered states of subspace and Domspace to the rituals that ground us, this episode explores aftercare as an art form, a science, and a moral responsibility. Whether you play soft or heavy, solo or in a dynamic, what happens after the scene can be just as profound as what happens within it.

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Join Porcelain Victoria in this episode of Behind the Paddle Podcast as she reads and discusses pages 193-203 of Revolting Prostitutes, a groundbreaking work that challenges societal views on sex work. Delve into the critical themes of agency, labor, and the intersections of identity and exploitation. In this intimate reading, Porcelain brings her unique perspective to the text, offering insights and reflections on the issues that shape the lives of sex workers worldwide. Tune in for a thought-provoking and unapologetic exploration of a world often misunderstood. 

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Welcome to BehindthePaddle Podcast in today’s episode we will be speaking to the amazing Miss Fay Morgan. 

Rope bondage transcends the physical act of tying knots, creating a profound psychological landscape where vulnerability, surrender, and healing intertwine. In this second installment of our rope series, guest expert Faye Morgan takes us deeper into the emotional terrain of shibari and rope bondage, exploring how these practices can foster deep connection and sometimes unexpected transformation.

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Join Porcelain Victoria in this episode of Behind the Paddle Podcast as she reads and discusses pages 182-192 of Revolting Prostitutes, a groundbreaking work that challenges societal views on sex work. Delve into the critical themes of agency, labor, and the intersections of identity and exploitation. In this intimate reading, Porcelain brings her unique perspective to the text, offering insights and reflections on the issues that shape the lives of sex workers worldwide. Tune in for a thought-provoking and unapologetic exploration of a world often misunderstood. 

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In this deeply textured episode of Behindthepaddle, Porcelain Victoria is joined by the enigmatic and skilled rope practitioner @MissFayMorgan whose eight years of experience in shibari and rope bondage span teaching, performance, and profound emotional connection. Together, they untangle the physical, psychological, and spiritual dimensions of rope play from the meditative tension of a single column tie to the breathless beauty of full suspensions.

Whether you're curious about trying rope for the first time or looking to deepen your existing practice, this episode offers invaluable insights into the technical, emotional, and spiritual dimensions of this intimate art form. Follow Miss Fay Morgan on FetLife or Twitter/X to learn more about her workshops and professional sessions in Edinburgh and Glasgow.

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Join Porcelain Victoria in this episode of Behind the Paddle Podcast as she reads and discusses pages 172-182 of Revolting Prostitutes, a groundbreaking work that challenges societal views on sex work. Delve into the critical themes of agency, labor, and the intersections of identity and exploitation. In this intimate reading, Porcelain brings her unique perspective to the text, offering insights and reflections on the issues that shape the lives of sex workers worldwide. Tune in for a thought-provoking and unapologetic exploration of a world often misunderstood. 

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In this provocative episode of Behindthepaddle podcast we explore kink, shame, and embodied consent, I sit down with Celeste Hirschman and Dr. Danielle Harel, co-founders of the Somatica Institute and stars of Channel 4's Virgin Island, to uncover why somatica is such a wonderful practice we all need to learn about and what practices truly keep us safe.

Whether you're kinky, curious, or simply interested in more authentic relationships, this episode offers practical wisdom on reading body language, providing meaningful aftercare (yes, even for dominants!), and recognizing when pleasure transforms into dissociation. Join us as we discover why "if you can't read a submissive's body, you're not ready to touch it" and how we might all learn to listen better to the wisdom our bodies already know.

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Join Porcelain Victoria in this episode of Behind the Paddle Podcast as she reads and discusses pages 162-172 of Revolting Prostitutes, a groundbreaking work that challenges societal views on sex work. Delve into the critical themes of agency, labor, and the intersections of identity and exploitation. In this intimate reading, Porcelain brings her unique perspective to the text, offering insights and reflections on the issues that shape the lives of sex workers worldwide. Tune in for a thought-provoking and unapologetic exploration of a world often misunderstood. 

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Imagine a world where half the population regularly misses school, work, or risks their health due to a completely solvable problem. That's the reality of period poverty a crisis affecting 500 million menstruators worldwide every month.

Christine Denning takes us on an eye-opening journey through her work tackling this global injustice. After discovering that period poverty wasn't just an issue in developing nations but also in places like London, New York, and everywhere in between, she pivoted her entire career to focus on a solution that's been hiding in plain sight for 88 years: the menstrual cup.

Want to be part of the solution? Visit couldyou.org to learn how you can help provide a 10-year solution to someone in need or purchase your own cup through their buy-one-give-one program at 

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Join Porcelain Victoria in this episode of Behind the Paddle Podcast as she reads and discusses pages 151-162 of Revolting Prostitutes, a groundbreaking work that challenges societal views on sex work. Delve into the critical themes of agency, labor, and the intersections of identity and exploitation. In this intimate reading, Porcelain brings her unique perspective to the text, offering insights and reflections on the issues that shape the lives of sex workers worldwide. Tune in for a thought-provoking and unapologetic exploration of a world often misunderstood. 

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