Getting started on our Hotwife journey was hard and confusing! Despite being a common sexual fantasy, there are relatively few resources dedicated to helping couples navigate and understand the Hotwife lifestyle. In this episode I go through some of the books, blogs and websites that helped me understand and conceptualise the weird and wonderful world of Hotwife.

Reflections one week after our first encounter. Consensus between us is it was still an incredible experience, however there is some emotional aftermath to contend with.

Finally - we did it! We made our fantasy a reality. Hubby watched me play with a sexy, charming, respectful stud... and much fun was had by all.

One of our biggest challenges, and ultimately the biggest period of growth in our Hotwife play, happened when ‘The Devil’ came into our lives. He shook us up and left us a little raw, but also much clearer in how we wanted to move forward with the Lifestyle.

We have been experimenting with Hotwife play for over five years... not much, but enough to learn some important lessons. Here are some stories from the early days...

Introducing us as a couple, how my partner pitched hotwife to me, why I like it and why I started this podcast.