At a certain age, one cannot accuse another of leading them on. A person should have their wits about them enough to match their significant other's words with their actions.

Saying someone "led you on" is just you not taking personal responsibility, when you reach a certain age.

My friend thinks she is cheating on her husband because she thinks about someone else while having sex with her husband, oops!

This guy broke up with his girlfriend for wearing trousers to meet his parents; thing is, he had explained to her that his dad was not a fan of women wearing trousers. 

Porsha should take a page from Rinna's book and own it. She needs to own her deception but also be ready to accept, and deal with the consequences of her actions.

#RHOA #BRAVO

Coercive control refers to a pattern of controlling behaviors that create an unequal power dynamic in a relationship. These behaviors give the perpetrator power over their partner, making it difficult for them to leave.

Sometimes, coercive control can escalate into physical abuse. However, even when it does not escalate, coercive control is a form of emotional abuse that can cause psychological trauma.

~ Definition culled from https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/coercive-control

After watching this season's #RHOBH, it is clear to me that Erika Jayne Girardi was being coercively controlled by her husband Tom. It explains why she was unable to leave when he was treating her badly.

So #RHOBH has been H O T! all summer!!! All thanks to pretty mess herself, queen Erika Jayne Girardi!! 

She has kept this season going, now, more so, as her feud with fellow southern belle, Sutton Stracke is at a fever pitch! But Sutton has been extra shady this season and we are here for it because, why not!

So, my #Smooners, who you marry, when you marry, how you marry does not determine how well or where your marriage ends up; however, how well you preserve your marital tenets and ideals that's the ticket; that's determines how well your marriage holds up. 

The New York State Attorney General's sexual harassment and misconduct inquiry of Andrew Cuomo concludes that he did, in fact, sexual harass multiple women but Andy says it is his culture to behave that way and he meant no disrespect, okay oh!

I got an email from a listener who is in a 3 years relationship but her boyfriend has not proposed and wants to know what to do...

#RHOBH Erika Girardi is telling her girlfriends that she is divorcing Tom because he isn't talking to her anymore but the streets are talking. The streets are saying that the divorce is a devise to evade the prosecution from the cases against Tom.

Britney's conservatorship #wahala, #FreeBritney has been trending because Britney refused to perform at her Vegas residency until her father is removed as her conservator. Is she throwing a tantrum, or is the whole idea of the conservatorship absurd?

OMG!!! On this past week's episode of #RHOBH, Garcelle asked her friends who else had done surgery to their nose. You should have seen their faces, they were mortified!

Why though? You should be happy that you look better, I'm guessing that's why you did it in the first place, no?

I have never had surgery, reasons: I don't like hospitals, it's expensive (I'd rather spend the money travelling), I love everything on my person; however, if I ever feel the need to augment I would hope my friends would notice and appreciate it. But that's just me.

Plus, it is so dumb to lie about the obvious.

The Real Housewives shows are making a push to be more inclusive, NY has added Eboni K. Williams, while Beverly Hills now has Garcelle Beauvais and Crystal Minkoff.

They are tackling a lot of misnomers and stereotypes stemming from racial constructs. It is interesting to see how they are dealing with these issues, and even more interesting seeing how the audience reacts or relates to their method of dealing.

Listen, neither #RHOBH nor #RHONY is going to solve race relations in the US but I'm glad the conversation is being held. 

We also need to recognize that not everything is tied to race, sometimes, people lack interpersonal skills, and when those people are adults, well, that's just a crying shame.

Having said that, should one black person accuse another black person of playing the race card? Does that not throw a wrench in the whole discussion of racial disparity and the likes?

What are your thoughts?