...call it what you want; the fact is that he recognized that the union was not what he wanted and therefore could not commit.

Better now than later, I say!

People no longer revere the institution of marriage which is why some people may be upset about his decision but is it your proposal?

Happy International Women's day y'all!! 

In honour of today, I am speaking on the spilled tea heard o'er the land...I am saying what I feel about the crazy obsession of a couple who just wants to be happy. Yes, Meghan knew what she was getting into and so did Harry... Listen, let me know what your thoughts are, leave a voice note, comment! Cheers! 

It's my 8th episode on the 8th of March, hee hee, what are the odds...

So you have decided you want to settle down, but the issue is, with who? Online Dating is a good place to start outside of the tradition, organic process of meeting a mate. It is very possible to meet and marry via dating websites but only if you are intentional and honest about what you want.

In my experience, I have found men to be visual in their choices; and to also have a specific type of woman they would want to settle down with. If you, the woman, do not meet the criteria, you are better off not engaging at all. 

Are you on social media as a voyeur/watcher/reader/listener? Do you contribute to the general dialogue or are you silently judging people who share? Speaking about judging, what is judging? Can you be accused of judging if you are in a forum where your opinion is asked? What are your thoughts? Feel free to leave a voice note or comment anywhere you clicked on the link! Cheers and I'll circle back 💗

You say you want to get married, what are you doing to make it a possibility? Or are you that person who wants to win the lottery but never purchases a ticket? 

Meanwhile, on #RHOSLC, why is Mary, Mary, quite contrary?

She died alone and was forgotten by everyone except the bill collectors. 

How could someone so beautiful and charming, disappear from the world without anyone caring to look for her? 

Personal responsibility, are you always blaming someone else/something else for decisions that you make? Have you asked yourself why you expect changes when you don't change or when you don't take responsibility for the role you played or should play? These are my thoughts on personal responsibility, what are yours?

Sis, did you lose friends after they got married? Did your single girlfriends stop hanging with you? Jealousy, envy? Did your married friends seek you out to rekindle friendships after you got married? Strange? Why is that? What is your take?

You have been married for a few years and now, you don't want to be in it anymore, why? What has changed? You, perhaps?

...to my #Smooners

This was such a good episode...I hope to see more like this; The entire cast with their husband's except for Mary and hers hung out in the snow and then Lisa and Meredith met up later at the Shah's. It was a lovely episode that allowed the viewers more insight into the cast.

HAPPY NEW YEAR y'all...Next year is going so much better, it has no choice my peeps...Much love and much hope for all things better.