Being Mrs. S ♔

This topic was interesting because there are a few men who feel like they are not valued and are in relationships with force-placed bill-paying duties.

First of, why anyone feels they have to be in a situation they are uncomfortable with is beyond me? 

Seems to me like it is an option given and a choice made! If you have made the decision to abide then you have to accept responsibility for those choices you have made. If you accept the terms, why moan about it? And if you place said terms, don't be surprised when you get treated like a commodity.

What do you think? Leave a 59 sec voice note or comment on #Twitter or #Facebook and I'll circle back.

So, the jury is currently deliberating on this case and honestly, after watching the trial from start to finish, it is an open and shut case. The prosecution did their job, the defense did not. 

The verdict should come back guilty on all charges.

There are people who are saying that George Floyd (RIP) deserved what he got because he was addicted to opioids, wow! Who in this whole world says that!!!

I wish people people didn't do drugs; because when people get addicted it is often times a long road back, if, at all, possible. 

Nonetheless, a person suffering from drug addiction does not deserve to die at the hands of the people who are sworn to protect and serve just because he does drugs.

Chauvin broke policy! 

Everything he did and did not do to George Floyd while he was face down on the asphalt led to his death. It was intentional, demeaning and abhorrent and the only justice is that he and his cohorts be jailed for killing a human being!

Another officer involved killing in Minnesota, Brooklyn Center; the officer involved has apparently been on the force for 26 years but she can't, for some reason, tell the difference between a gun and a taser. She also can't tell her left from her right let her police chief tell it!

Can someone make this make sense? 

Names are important, Chauvin has become his name. Only God knows what it was that kept him from letting up and getting up off George Floyd (RIP) but it doesn't matter now; he and his cohorts are obviously guilty and deserve the punishment they are sure to get.

Meanwhile, Jen Shah of #RHOSLC has been indicted on counts of fraud and money laundering. The hubris that these reality tv personalities exhibit that inhibits them from making smart choices just boggles the mind. You know that you are engaged in illegal activity, yet you put yourself on display? B A N A N A S!!!

You know the Feds don't make a move unless they have all their ducks in a row; she apparently was arrested while filming for Season two; if that's the case, S2 may just end up being juicier that the freshman season...I'm watching...

I get the need to want to learn and to grow in wisdom and spirituality but you better beware of who you go to to garner such knowledge! 

But why? 

Does it matter who the message is coming from or is the message not bigger than the messenger? 

To that, I say absolutely! It most definitely matters! When it comes to personal growth in morality and spirituality, it absolutely matters who the message is coming from. It is that picture that people see that makes them swarm like bees to honey. A person who feeds people what they want to hear while not actually believing what they preach, not living what they say is a liar and cheat. #PersonalResponsibility #AllTeaSomeShade #DoYourResearch #DoYourTeaSearch

...call it what you want; the fact is that he recognized that the union was not what he wanted and therefore could not commit.

Better now than later, I say!

People no longer revere the institution of marriage which is why some people may be upset about his decision but is it your proposal?

Happy International Women's day y'all!! 

In honour of today, I am speaking on the spilled tea heard o'er the land...I am saying what I feel about the crazy obsession of a couple who just wants to be happy. Yes, Meghan knew what she was getting into and so did Harry... Listen, let me know what your thoughts are, leave a voice note, comment! Cheers! 

It's my 8th episode on the 8th of March, hee hee, what are the odds...

So you have decided you want to settle down, but the issue is, with who? Online Dating is a good place to start outside of the tradition, organic process of meeting a mate. It is very possible to meet and marry via dating websites but only if you are intentional and honest about what you want.

In my experience, I have found men to be visual in their choices; and to also have a specific type of woman they would want to settle down with. If you, the woman, do not meet the criteria, you are better off not engaging at all. 

Are you on social media as a voyeur/watcher/reader/listener? Do you contribute to the general dialogue or are you silently judging people who share? Speaking about judging, what is judging? Can you be accused of judging if you are in a forum where your opinion is asked? What are your thoughts? Feel free to leave a voice note or comment anywhere you clicked on the link! Cheers and I'll circle back 💗

You say you want to get married, what are you doing to make it a possibility? Or are you that person who wants to win the lottery but never purchases a ticket? 

Meanwhile, on #RHOSLC, why is Mary, Mary, quite contrary?