This message is an honest effort to define “biblical manhood and womanhood” in light of Jesus, instead of unhelpful, unbiblical stereotypes. How do interpret a passage in which Paul calls it "disgraceful" for women to speak in church? When we look at it through Complementarian, Egalitarian, Patriarchal, and Feminist lenses can we clearly see what Paul really saying, “no” to? Is there a better way? And, what if we're wrong?