Betari's Box - a model for understanding conflict. You can read more about it here: https://www.mindtools.com/pages/article/newCS_82.htm

I also refer to Power vs. Force by David R. Hawkins 

If you want to see more love in the world, make sure you are bringing more love. 

Your attitude affects you behaviour which in turn affect the attitude and behaviour of those around you. They become a mirror of your consciousness. Raise your consciousness and you will see and experience a more loving world.