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Meet Nathan Hogg, a 20-year-old from Richmond, Indiana, already stepping into leadership with a voice wise beyond his years. In this powerful episode of BeTempered, co-hosts Dan Schmidt and Ben Spahr sit down with Nathan for a raw, inspiring conversation about resilience, identity, and the impact one young person can make.

Nathan opens up about his entrepreneurial journey, which started at just six years old with a lemonade stand and a dream to own a restaurant. But when COVID-19 disrupted his freshman year of high school, he spiraled into burnout—until a TikTok video introduced him to the power of daily affirmations. "I would write 'I am worthy' twelve times, 'I am blessed' twelve times... three times a day," Nathan shares. That simple practice became a turning point.

Out of his desire to help others, Nathan launched Hogg Helps, connecting young people with local job opportunities and mentorships. His initiative caught the attention of community leaders, and today, he's a communications major at IU East with minors in political science and public administration—still pouring into the next generation by teaching affirmations to 5th and 6th graders.

For Nathan, success isn't about status—it's about surrounding yourself with people who lift you up. His favorite quote from Shirley Chisholm says it all: "If they don't give you a seat at the table, bring a folding chair."

Tune in to hear how Nathan Hogg is building his own table—and inviting others to sit with him.

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When retired Army Colonel George Glaze rolls up his sleeves to help troubled youth through horse therapy or counsel police officers as a chaplain, he's drawing from a lifetime of hard-earned wisdom. In a powerful conversation with hosts Dan Schmidt and Ben Spahr, Colonel Glaze opens up about his journey—from leading troops through the streets of Baghdad to guiding his congregation at Beach Grove Church of the Brethren.

With raw honesty, Colonel Glaze recounts the emotional toll of delivering 23 casualty notifications to families of fallen soldiers. “A mom crying in Spanish is a mom crying,” he reflects—capturing the universal language of grief that knows no boundaries. His words connect deeply, whether or not you've worn a uniform.

What makes this episode stand out is Colonel Glaze’s ability to blend battlefield leadership with deep vulnerability. He shares the moment his own healing journey began: after losing his temper at a bus driver in front of his family, he realized he needed help. It’s a powerful gateway into a broader discussion about PTSD and the ongoing mental health challenges faced by veterans and first responders.

Listeners will also be moved by his tribute to his wife Valerie, who attended over 100 memorial services while raising their children alone during his deployments. Her quiet strength and resilience shine as a reminder of the emotional weight service families often carry behind the scenes.

From soldier to pastor, equine therapist to police chaplain, Colonel Glaze's story is a testament to the power of faith, service, and transformation. “In loving one another, you're loving God,” he says—a simple yet profound truth at the heart of his life’s work.

Have you ever wondered how true warriors carry their invisible scars? Join Dan Schmidt and Ben Spahr for an unforgettable conversation with Colonel George Glaze, as he shares wisdom on processing trauma, finding purpose, and turning pain into healing for others.

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In this powerful episode, we welcomed a very special guest, Sam Fledderjohann, whose incredible journey from protector to life-giver is a testament to resilience, faith, and divine timing. With co-host Kim Schmidt—Host Dan's wife—stepping in as Ben sits this one out, the conversation took on an even more heartfelt tone.

Born to a very young mother and raised in a home full of instability, Sam stepped into a caregiving role for her siblings early on. While her childhood was far from easy, she found comfort and stability at her grandparents’ farm—an experience that would later shape her values and skillset.

Sam’s story takes an extraordinary turn when, following a deep spiritual prompting, she chose to become a non-directed kidney donor. Unbeknownst to her at the time, that selfless act would launch Ohio State Wexner Medical Center's largest kidney transplant chain in history, helping ten people receive life-saving kidneys over just two days—all thanks to her.

But the divine orchestration didn’t stop there. After the surgery, Sam met her recipient—and in what can only be described as a "God moment," discovered he was deaf. Amazingly, Sam had studied sign language in college and was able to communicate with him directly. The moment moved even seasoned medical professionals to tears and confirmed for Sam that her journey was part of something much greater.

Today, Sam continues to pour into the lives of others as the Special Olympics Coordinator in Mercer County, expanding programming to include basketball, cheerleading, powerlifting, unified golf, equestrian activities, and more. Her guiding belief? "We are beloved children of God." It’s a truth that’s carried her through both the valleys and mountaintops of her life.

Sam's story reminds us that our past—no matter how difficult—can prepare us for a greater purpose. Her early experiences protecting others, her educational path, and her heart for service all aligned to create a ripple effect of hope and healing. When asked if she’d do it all again? She doesn’t hesitate: "A hundred times over."

Are you listening to the promptings in your own life?

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What happens when honor matters more than financial security?

In this powerful episode of the BeTempered Podcast, hosts Dan Schmidt and Ben Spahr sit down with Brian Ballenger of Whisenhunt Construction and Brighter Path Inc. to unpack a story that challenges conventional definitions of success—rooted not in wealth or accolades, but in integrity, faith, and doing the right thing when it’s hardest.

Brian’s journey begins on a 27-acre farm, where at just ten years old, he took on adult responsibilities caring for livestock while his father worked as a long-haul trucker. These early lessons in discipline and accountability laid the foundation for a man who, years later, would reject the advice of his accountant and attorney to file for bankruptcy—choosing instead to honor every debt, even if it meant selling his family’s dream home.

From the ups and downs of the contracting world to ultimately leading Whisenhunt Construction, Brian’s path has never been easy or straight. His military experience taught him to lead by example, not position—a lesson that carried over into his faith journey and the founding of Brighter Path Inc., an equine therapy nonprofit born from a divine nudge: “You cannot afford to not do this.” Against the odds, Brian followed through—and in doing so, has helped change countless lives through the healing power of horses.

One of the most powerful moments in the episode comes during a recent skydiving experience, when Brian’s instructor told him, “You’re trying to control everything in your life.” That observation unlocked a new perspective on surrender, faith, and letting go.

Through financial hardship, personal sacrifice, and bold obedience, Brian Ballenger’s story is a testament to the strength found in choosing the hard path for the right reasons. This episode will challenge you to reflect: What difficult choices are you avoiding—and what might be waiting on the other side of courage?

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Jason Koger Joins Hosts Dan Schmidt and Ben Spahr on the BeTempered Podcast for a Powerful Conversation on Resilience and Purpose

In this unforgettable episode of the BeTempered Podcast, hosts Dan Schmidt and Ben Spahr welcome back Jason Koger, whose extraordinary journey of recovery and purpose delivers a masterclass in resilience. After a life-altering accident with a downed power line that surged 7,200 volts through his body, Jason became the world’s first bilateral bionic hand recipient. But his story goes far beyond groundbreaking technology.

With raw honesty and powerful insight, Jason recounts his path from those desperate early days—battling insurance denials for prosthetics—to becoming a prosthetic technology tester and an inspirational speaker. “It’s not just about the hands,” Jason shares as he demonstrates adaptive equipment like attachments for golf, softball, and bowling. Each piece is a testament to both innovation and his unwavering drive to reclaim a full and active life.

What truly sets Jason apart is his passion for helping others. Whether flying across the country to assist a fellow amputee or welcoming a young person into his home for mentorship, Jason is on a mission to ensure no one feels alone in their struggle. “I never want somebody to feel like I did, that I was the only one in the world,” he says.

The episode dives deep as Jason reflects on the meaning of passion, referencing Tim Tebow’s interpretation of its Latin roots—“to suffer.” In Jason’s words, real passion is found not just in victories but in the willingness to push through pain and setbacks. His perspective offers inspiration to anyone facing adversity, not just those with physical disabilities.

Connect with Jason at jasonkoger.com or follow him on social media to learn more about his story, book, and speaking opportunities. Through his example, and in conversation with Dan and Ben, this episode reminds us that our greatest purpose often rises from our greatest challenges—and that we’re all stronger together.

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What happens when life delivers a devastating diagnosis on a day meant for celebration? For Deb Tintsman, receiving news of aggressive B-cell lymphoma on her birthday was not the end of hope, but the beginning of an extraordinary journey—one defined by faith, resilience, and an unexpected sense of freedom.

From her childhood on an Ohio farm to her impactful career working with runaway teens in Dallas, Deb has always lived a life of service. Though she never set out to be a teacher, she found herself drawn to education, spending two decades at National Trail School before retiring in 2020. But just when she thought she had closed one chapter, life had another lesson to teach. In July 2023, persistent back pain and overwhelming fatigue led to a shocking cancer diagnosis.

Rather than surrendering to fear, Deb faced her battle with remarkable strength and even humor—naming her IV stand “Gladys” and viewing her chemotherapy as “the blood of Jesus giving me strength.” Against all odds, her faith was met with a miracle: a scan midway through treatment showed no discernible disease despite being initially "full of cancer."

But what makes Deb’s story truly transformative isn’t just the medical outcome—it’s the spiritual awakening she experienced. “I’ve had to be in control all my life. Letting go was eye-opening… but it was freeing too.” Through scripture, prayer, and a community that showed up in powerful ways, Deb discovered peace in surrendering control.

Join hosts Dan Schmidt and Ben Spahr as they sit down with Deb to hear her incredible testimony—one that serves as a reminder that even in life’s hardest moments, we are never truly alone. Whether you’re facing a personal struggle, supporting a loved one, or simply searching for inspiration, Deb’s journey proves that hope endures and faith prevails.

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BeTempered hosts Dan Schmidt and Ben Spahr sit down with Bill Bowers, better known as @Bushel_Billy on Instagram, for an unfiltered conversation about grit, family, and refusing to make excuses.

Growing up on a western Ohio farm in the 1980s, Bill developed a relentless work ethic where tasks weren’t considered chores—they were simply "what the family did." His journey from an awkward kid who “couldn’t run” to a college football captain proves his core philosophy: success is about determination, not natural talent.

Bill’s career path is just as unconventional—he’s been a farm kid, MBA graduate (while working as a bouncer), international consultant, and agricultural specialist focused on the top 20% of customers driving 80% of business. His leadership lessons are equally compelling, especially the moment when he learned firsthand that barking orders isn’t leadership—it’s earned through action and respect.

Beyond business, Bill shares his philosophy on family leadership, describing his three-part role as “priest, prophet, and king” of his household. His parenting approach—giving his kids tasks with clear outcomes but no instructions—challenges modern micromanagement. And when discussing faith through adversity, his reminder that “the most common thing stolen is what could have been” is a powerful warning against letting fear hold us back.

Whether you’re in agriculture or just looking for a no-nonsense take on resilience and purpose, this conversation will challenge your excuses and inspire action. Follow Bill’s agricultural journey on Instagram: @Bushel_Billy.

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Join BeTempered Podcast hosts Dan Schmidt and Ben Spahr for an uplifting episode featuring the inspiring story of Becky Morin, a beacon of resilience and community spirit. Growing up as one of nine siblings, Becky experienced the joys and challenges of a bustling household, instilling in her the values of hard work and cooperation. As she navigated adulthood, family, and grief, she built a career dedicated to serving her community through meaningful programs.

Becky’s journey took a challenging turn when she faced significant adversity due to cancer, intensifying her commitment to supporting others through the Livestrong program at the YMCA. Her dedication to fostering a sense of belonging and connection within the community is truly remarkable. As she reflects on her experiences and the culture cultivated at the YMCA, she emphasizes the healing power of communal support.

Now embracing post-retirement life, Becky finds joy in gardening and nurturing her beloved grandchildren, filling each day with purpose and positivity. This episode is a testament to the strength forged from hardship, and Becky’s insights inspire us to embrace life fully and support one another through its ups and downs.

Tune in to hear her incredible story on the BeTempered Podcast with Dan Schmidt and Ben Spahr! Let her experiences motivate you to create lasting connections in your own life. Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe for more inspiring stories like Becky’s!

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What if true leadership meant taking full responsibility, even when the stakes are at their highest? On this episode, hosts Dan Schmidt and Ben Spahr take a deep dive into the principles of Extreme Ownership, inspired by Jocko Willink’s teachings. Joined by Matty Ledgerwood, they explore the role of leadership in shaping culture, the balance between humility and assertiveness, and the critical importance of fostering trust and accountability. As they dissect decision-making in politics, they challenge the all-too-common tendency to shift blame rather than embrace responsibility.

We also share the incredible story of Coach Kemper, who turned a struggling high school football team into champions, reviving school spirit and showcasing the transformative power of leadership. Through experiences in youth sports coaching, we discuss how adversity can be harnessed as a tool for growth—building confidence, resilience, and life skills that extend far beyond the field.

Leadership often means living in a "glass house," under constant scrutiny. Dan and Ben break down how to stay positive, remain mission-focused, and practice servant leadership to create meaningful impact. Drawing inspiration from influential figures like Chad Wright of the Three of Seven Project, they highlight how personal growth fuels leadership success. Plus, with insights on maximizing social media engagement for greater visibility, this episode is packed with strategies to help leaders at any level elevate their influence and drive real change.

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Childhood trauma, profound loss, and the road to recovery—Shawn Ruebush returns to the BeTempered Podcast with a story that continues to strike a deep chord with listeners. Sitting down with hosts Dan Schmidt and Ben Spahr, Shawn reflects on the incredible outpouring of support following his first appearance, revealing how opening up about his past led to unexpected yet powerful connections.

From the heartbreak of losing his father and grandfather to confronting personal demons, Shawn shares the pivotal moment that set him on a path to break the generational cycle of alcoholism. A blackout during a work trip became his wake-up call, forcing him to reexamine his relationship with alcohol and its impact on those he loves.

We dive into the role of a dedicated men's group in providing the accountability and support that fueled his transformation. Shawn’s journey is a testament to the power of vulnerability and self-belief—one that extends into podcasting, writing, and the challenge of sharing his truth with the world. He opens up about the enduring influence of family, the unwavering support of his beloved Granny, and the resilience required to rebuild after losing his home to a fire.

This episode goes beyond personal struggles; it’s about embracing authenticity and taking risks. From storytelling and legacy-building to the courage it takes to inspire others, we explore the power of trusting the process, even when the road ahead is uncertain. Whether you’re navigating personal challenges or seeking meaningful connections, this conversation offers invaluable insights and encouragement.

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