What if true leadership meant taking full responsibility, even when the stakes are at their highest? On this episode, hosts Dan Schmidt and Ben Spahr take a deep dive into the principles of Extreme Ownership, inspired by Jocko Willink’s teachings. Joined by Matty Ledgerwood, they explore the role of leadership in shaping culture, the balance between humility and assertiveness, and the critical importance of fostering trust and accountability. As they dissect decision-making in politics, they challenge the all-too-common tendency to shift blame rather than embrace responsibility.

We also share the incredible story of Coach Kemper, who turned a struggling high school football team into champions, reviving school spirit and showcasing the transformative power of leadership. Through experiences in youth sports coaching, we discuss how adversity can be harnessed as a tool for growth—building confidence, resilience, and life skills that extend far beyond the field.

Leadership often means living in a "glass house," under constant scrutiny. Dan and Ben break down how to stay positive, remain mission-focused, and practice servant leadership to create meaningful impact. Drawing inspiration from influential figures like Chad Wright of the Three of Seven Project, they highlight how personal growth fuels leadership success. Plus, with insights on maximizing social media engagement for greater visibility, this episode is packed with strategies to help leaders at any level elevate their influence and drive real change.

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Childhood trauma, profound loss, and the road to recovery—Shawn Ruebush returns to the BeTempered Podcast with a story that continues to strike a deep chord with listeners. Sitting down with hosts Dan Schmidt and Ben Spahr, Shawn reflects on the incredible outpouring of support following his first appearance, revealing how opening up about his past led to unexpected yet powerful connections.

From the heartbreak of losing his father and grandfather to confronting personal demons, Shawn shares the pivotal moment that set him on a path to break the generational cycle of alcoholism. A blackout during a work trip became his wake-up call, forcing him to reexamine his relationship with alcohol and its impact on those he loves.

We dive into the role of a dedicated men's group in providing the accountability and support that fueled his transformation. Shawn’s journey is a testament to the power of vulnerability and self-belief—one that extends into podcasting, writing, and the challenge of sharing his truth with the world. He opens up about the enduring influence of family, the unwavering support of his beloved Granny, and the resilience required to rebuild after losing his home to a fire.

This episode goes beyond personal struggles; it’s about embracing authenticity and taking risks. From storytelling and legacy-building to the courage it takes to inspire others, we explore the power of trusting the process, even when the road ahead is uncertain. Whether you’re navigating personal challenges or seeking meaningful connections, this conversation offers invaluable insights and encouragement.

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What are the moments in your life that have truly defined you? Join co-host Dan Schmidt and Ben Spahr in an intriguing conversation with Dr. Matt Roberts as he shares his journey of resilience, growth, and balance. From his humble beginnings in West Alexandria, Ohio, to the traumatic high school car accident that shaped his outlook, Matt's story is a testament to finding strength in adversity. Hear about the unexpected twists that molded his path, including meeting his high school sweetheart and the profound impact of sports in his upbringing.

As Matt transitioned to college basketball, his story took on new layers of complexity. He faced the highs and lows of collegiate sports, including unforgettable experiences like a visit to Michael Jordan's restaurant and a pivotal confrontation with a coach that altered his perspective. Discover how these challenges, combined with the unwavering support of his parents, taught him valuable lessons about perseverance and self-advocacy. Matt's reflections on his journey illustrate the determination needed to pursue one’s passions, both on and off the court.

The episode also explores Matt's transition into the chiropractic profession, sparked by personal experiences and guided by influential mentors. Witness the excitement and hurdles of building a business from scratch, as Matt candidly discusses the challenges of gaining credibility and overcoming financial obstacles. Alongside these professional tales, Matt opens up about the transformative experience of parenthood, the unexpected health crisis that tested his family's resilience, and the powerful role of faith and community in navigating life's trials. This episode offers a rich narrative of triumph, gratitude, and unwavering strength — a must-listen for anyone seeking inspiration in their own life journey.

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Co-Hosts Dan Schmidt & Ben Spahr is joined by special guest Kim Schmidt to happens to be Dan's wife. Kim's journey from a small-town farm in St. Henry, Ohio, to becoming a passionate interior designer is a story filled with charm, resilience, and life lessons. Growing up with five siblings on a family farm, Kim learned the value of hard work and family bonds early on. Transitioning to town life, she discovered her love for gymnastics and cheerleading, all while actively participating in school activities. As we reminisce about these formative years, you'll glimpse into the values and memories that have shaped Kim's life and the playful dynamics that define the Schmidt family.

Life took unexpected turns as Kim navigated early adulthood, initially pursuing fashion merchandising before finding her true calling in interior kitchen design. Financial constraints in Cincinnati made bus commuting a humbling experience, yet provided opportunities for chance meetings that would change her life forever. At a college graduation party, Kim crossed paths with her future partner, Dan, without either realizing the significance of this encounter. This serendipitous meeting set the stage for a shared journey, emphasizing how life's intersections can influence both personal and professional paths.

Kim’s story also touches on the enduring values of marriage and family traditions. She shares insights into balancing faith, family, and communication in a marriage, while emphasizing the cherished family gatherings that create lasting memories. From keeping the tradition of family dinners alive to passing on core values to her children, Kim reflects on the fleeting nature of these moments as kids grow up. Join us as we celebrate the lessons learned from life's challenges and the importance of family, faith, and those treasured Sunday dinners with grandparents.

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What does it mean to truly overcome adversity and emerge stronger? Join hosts Dan Schmidt and Ben Spahr as we reminisce about our year-long podcast journey, from our early days recording in a basement to thriving in a professional studio. We reflect on the incredible stories shared by our guests, like Brad's moving account of his challenging upbringing and the touching interaction with his son Drew. These moments have not only illuminated the power of resilience but have also reinforced our mission to share impactful narratives that resonate deeply with our listeners.

Throughout this year, we've been privileged to host remarkable individuals like Greg Pettit and Jason Koger, whose stories of perseverance continue to inspire. Greg transformed a moment of discouragement into a driving force for success, while Jason's journey, living life without arms, showcases an indomitable spirit and positivity. We also remember Kelly Daniel, who taught us about unwavering faith amid health struggles. Each story serves as a testament to how courage can bloom in the face of life's toughest challenges.

As we reflect on these powerful experiences, we're reminded of the profound impact our podcast has had in building a community of empathy and understanding. We encourage our audience to connect with us by sharing their own stories, fostering a collective space for healing and growth. Exciting developments like our growing YouTube channel and new merchandise line are steps we're taking to ensure our mission continues to thrive. We are deeply grateful for your support and look forward to sharing more stories that touch and inspire.

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At just nine years old, Jordan Christian experienced a life-altering moment on a baseball field in Richmond, Indiana. Now, as our youngest guest, he takes us on an extraordinary journey of resilience, from the initial shock of his epilepsy diagnosis to becoming a beacon of hope in Raleigh, North Carolina. Jordan's story unfolds with raw honesty, as he shares the struggles and triumphs of balancing sports, academics, and a health condition that often defies predictability. Through vivid storytelling, he highlights the unwavering support from his family, friends, and mentors that sustained him through tough times.

In this episode, Jordan joins hosts Dan Schmidt and Ben Spahr to share the challenges he faced during his educational journey, navigating high school, college, and grad school while managing epilepsy. His experiences reveal the intense physical and mental adjustments required, including a pivotal transition from quarterback to safety and the critical need for open communication with educators and peers. Jordan's resilience shines through as he describes overcoming setbacks, such as grand mal seizures and medication adjustments, all while pursuing his passion for cybersecurity—which led to a fulfilling internship at Amazon.

As we explore Jordan's post-graduation path, his story is one of adaptability and perseverance amid career upheavals. Navigating the tech industry's volatility, he candidly discusses the impact of layoffs and the importance of maintaining connections that ultimately led him to a new opportunity in Raleigh. Throughout, Jordan underscores the power of community and mentorship, reflecting on the significance of shared experiences and the strength found in storytelling. Join us as we celebrate Jordan's journey and his mission to inspire others facing similar challenges.

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What happens when a young boy given less than a 1% chance of survival defies the odds and transforms his life into a beacon of hope and inspiration? Join us for an extraordinary conversation with John O'Leary, a captivating storyteller whose journey from a devastating childhood accident to becoming a best-selling author and motivational speaker will leave you moved and inspired. John shares how the unwavering love of family and the profound strength of his mother shaped his path to recovery, mirroring the trials and triumphs of Job from scripture. His story is one of survival, resilience, and the power of faith, culminating in an upcoming feature film that promises to touch hearts worldwide.

Discover the pivotal role John's family played in his miraculous recovery. From the heroic actions of his siblings on the day of his accident to the relentless support of his parents, John recounts the moments that fueled his determination to prevail. We delve into the influence of caregivers like Nurse Roy, whose compassion and encouragement taught John invaluable lessons of self-reliance and resilience. The raw and heartfelt discussion showcases how these experiences helped John transform his scars into symbols of hope and joy, reminding us of the importance of embracing life’s challenges with gratitude and purpose.

This episode also serves as a celebration of familial love and the lessons learned along the way. John reflects on the wisdom imparted by his parents, particularly his mother’s insistence on independence even amidst adversity, highlighting the significance of fostering resilience in children. As we close our conversation with holiday greetings, we express our deep gratitude to John for sharing his remarkable story and the insights it offers about living with courage, faith, and authenticity. Let John's journey inspire you to find strength in your own struggles and the beauty hidden within adversity.

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Have you ever wondered what it takes to transform adversity into a beacon of hope for others? Join co-hosts Dan Schmidt and Ben Spahr as we engage with Heather Labbe, the dynamic executive director of the Travis Mills Foundation, who shares her remarkable journey from small-town Maine to leading a nonprofit that’s making a profound difference. Heather opens up about her unexpected career shift from aspiring paramedic to nonprofit accounting, leveraging her skills to amplify the foundation’s mission. Her story is woven with the inspiring legacy of Travis Mills, a quadruple amputee veteran whose resilience and vision have kindled a movement dedicated to supporting veterans and first responders.

Explore the powerful initiatives of the Travis Mills Foundation, which empower veterans and caregivers through transformative programs. Heather illuminates the flagship family program, offering experiences that shatter barriers for post-9/11 combat veterans. She also delves into the Warrior Path program, a groundbreaking initiative that encourages post-traumatic growth through innovative therapeutic activities, including a unique equine therapy module. As if that’s not enriching enough, participants also experience swimming with sharks and conquering high ropes courses, all aimed at fostering a life of fulfillment beyond perceived limitations.

End on a high note with the awe-inspiring tale of Travis Mills himself, whose indomitable spirit transcends his physical challenges. From motivational speaking to entrepreneurial ventures, his life is a testament to overcoming adversity with determination and humor. Heather shares the emotional journey of expanding the foundation’s facilities, ensuring a broader reach to veterans and their families. As we wrap up, we discuss ways you can contribute to this impactful cause and enjoy the lighthearted moments Travis brings to social media, making a difference one laugh at a time. Tune in for an episode that celebrates the resilience of the human spirit and the power of a supportive community.

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Journey with us as we explore the extraordinary life of Chris Roseberry, a retired First Sergeant with a story that embodies resilience and leadership. Chris joins co-hosts Dan Schmidt & Ben Spahr to share his miraculous story of triumph on this episode of the BeTempered podcast. Imagine choosing military service over a college football career, only to face unimaginable challenges, including a life-altering motorcycle accident that resulted in the loss of a limb. Yet, Chris's determination propelled him to not only return to active duty but also to take on new trials overseas, demonstrating an unwavering warrior mentality. Through Chris's experiences, gain insights into the sacrifices and fortitude required of those who serve, and the profound impact these experiences have on one's life.

Chris opens up about the pivotal decisions that shaped his path, from high school sports to surviving the rigors of military life and deployments across Bosnia, Kosovo, Iraq, and Afghanistan. His story unfolds with personal anecdotes about overcoming physical and mental challenges, including the daunting recovery from severe injuries. Despite these adversities, Chris's journey is marked by the strength and support of his family, particularly his brother, who played a crucial role in his return to active service. Discover how Chris navigated these life-altering events with grit and the steadfast support of a community that rallied around him and his daughter during their time of need.

Explore the legacy Chris aims to create through storytelling, capturing memories and fostering connections for future generations. His current role at the Travis Mills Foundation highlights his ongoing commitment to supporting veterans and their families, turning his personal experiences into a source of inspiration and assistance for others. With gratitude, we share Chris's story, inviting listeners to reflect on the power of perseverance, the importance of community, and the enduring influence of leadership and resilience in the face of life's greatest challenges.

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Ever wonder how a boy from a small dirt farm in Springfield, Ohio, could build a thriving construction empire? Join us as we share Mark Metzger's extraordinary journey from helping with early morning chores on a family dairy farm to founding a successful construction business. Mark's story is one of hard work and determination, shaped by the lessons learned from a large family. Through the ups and downs, including the trials of the 1987 recession, Mark's commitment to his employees, whom he considers family, shines through. Discover how his education at the University of Dayton and a relentless work ethic propelled him to overcome challenges in both personal and professional spheres.

Mark Metzger shares an extraordinary story of survival after a near-fatal encounter with a lion during a hunting trip in Ethiopia. His tale reflects resilience, faith, and the enduring power of community, as he illustrates the challenges of coping with a life-threatening experience and the impact it had on his life.

As Mark recounts his experiences, we’ll explore the balancing act of family life, long work hours, and the dream of transforming an old farmhouse into a cozy home. With his children grown and leading their own lives, Mark found a new passion—hunting—which opened a new chapter of adventure and bonding for his family. From local small-game hunts to thrilling ventures in Texas and Argentina, these experiences illustrate how shared interests can strengthen family ties. Tune in to hear how Mark Metzger’s life journey embodies resilience and the enduring power of family values.

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