SERIES: WISDOM FROM ABOVE
MESSAGE: Peaceable, Gentle and Full of Mercy
TEXT: James 3:13-18
MESSAGE BY: Pastor J Carr
Worldly wisdom is used to demean and damage
Wisdom from above is used to help and heal
What does it mean to be gentle?
- 1 Timothy 3:3
- Titus 3:2
- 1 Peter 2:18
- Philippians 4:5
- Treat people like you would if Jesus is near (because he is)
What makes us act un-gently?
- Pragmatism
- Tied to selfish ambition
- Self-pity
- Tied to jealousy
Pragmatism is pervasive
- A default mode of thinking
- Results/happiness/blessings are all used to justify behavior
Pragmatism overestimates our foreknowledge and ability
- James 4:13-17
- Always looking to future (pre-eternity) makes you less focused on faithfulness in the present
Alternatives to pragmatism
- Three approaches to ethics:
- Duty/rules
- Consequences/outcomes
- Virtue/character
- The most in line with Jesus
- James 3:17 - “…full of mercy and good fruits…”
How is virtue/gentleness attained?
- Through faith in the source of all virtue and gentleness
- Matthew 12:19-21
- Gentle & Lowly
- The Iron Giant
- Galatians 5:20; 22-24
Peacemaking
- James 3:18
- God brings great things from small offerings of peacemaking
What keeps us from making peace?
- James 4:1
- The war within
- Faith and repentance toward our peacemaking God
- His cross and resurrection
- Give us peacemaking power
Discussion questions:
If you know any people who you think of as truly wise, what do you think of when you think of them? What are they like?
Are there any people in your life that you now think of as wise that you would have thought of as wise before?
What are some examples of acting un-gently in your life?
How do you try to justify it?
When do you act gently?
those times when you are gentle, what is going on in life? What is motivating you? How are you thinking? Can we learn from any of this?
What do we need to understand about God and ourselves to act Gently?
Do you think or act in pragmatic ways?
Where the ends justifies the means; or you assume that a desirable outcome means however you got there is okay
Do you see any problems with that way of thinking?
Have you seen it be a slippery slope?
Do you fall into duty/rules thinking of morality?
How might thinking in terms of virtue and character be better?
How do we develop virtue?
What do we need to understand about God, ourselves, and reality to be peacemakers?
Why is peacemaking so hard?