The story of the great patriarch and matriarch of Israel, Abram and Sarai is brimming with the beauty of God's call, promise and blessing, right? Yet, how do we reconcile this also as a story of dysfunctional and destructive relationships, of injustice and trauma? How can this messy, ancient and inspired story speak to us and what have we missed from the encounters between God and Abram, Sarai and Hagar?